Would you split a dates bill 50/50

[Nenestar]

where is here for you

in my city every girl expects the man to pay but i guess they’re more appreciative

i always just buy coffee onna first date cheap and easy

finland

 

[Aryy]

like some girls say they were on a date with some shy guy and then they try to act a bit like a gentleman and want to pay for everything, and they just see it being cringe

really? alot of cultural difference then

 

[Nenestar]

really? alot of cultural difference then

yeah, i mean if you're good-looking and confident it'll be seen positively ofc. but if you're just an average kinda guy you kinda have to force it and it can be a bit cringe (seen as performative)

 

[KushChronic]

Yeah?

 

[emeraldpill]

If she ain’t paying I ain’t playing

 

[Aryy]

If she ain’t paying I ain’t playing

does she evn happen bro

 

[icnone]

one of @BigDihDiddy threads made me wonder this

like "if u aren’t paying for her shit cause she’s a feminist"
like i dont know, i have heard of it happening ig 50/50 is common in the west?

be rich enough to pay for almost any date

 

[Byro]

one of @BigDihDiddy threads made me wonder this

like "if u aren’t paying for her shit cause she’s a feminist"
like i dont know, i have heard of it happening ig 50/50 is common in the west?

I usually pay but alot of the time we split 50/50

 

[paulyune]

one of @BigDihDiddy threads made me wonder this

like "if u aren’t paying for her shit cause she’s a feminist"
like i dont know, i have heard of it happening ig 50/50 is common in the west?

on dates no (like first meeting), while dating, sure or maybe sometimes i'll pay. of course if its insanely pricey I will split it though. but also, if they offered the place they should be the one to pay.

 

[icnone]

If they ask me to drive somewhere, I just ask for a dollar or two, nothing much, covers about 1/4 of a gallon at the moment.

I feel like that's a bit stingy, no? I personally wouldn't ask unless I frequently drive them or if I am spending a lot on gas (like $20+) in a single trip

i offered to pay 50/50 on my first date but they guy was really nice and he refused to let me pay. i think 50/50 is still a stupid concept if uve been on multiple dates w the person, if the guy cares ab u he should pay

Agreed, though this depends a lot on what lifestyle you two want to go for if the dating does convert to a LTR. The guy paying 100% makes more sense for a traditional setup.

but also, if they offered the place they should be the one to pay.

Why would picking the location make you the one to pay? The date is still going to happen regardless with some rough predetermined budget (unless that place ends up being super expensive, in which case they should be the ones to pay). If anything, by picking a location they are taking a risk that the date will go well there.

 

[paulyune]

I feel like that's a bit stingy, no? I personally wouldn't ask unless I frequently drive them or if I am spending a lot on gas (like $20+) in a single trip

Agreed, though this depends a lot on what lifestyle you two want to go for if the dating does convert to a LTR. The guy paying 100% makes more sense for a traditional setup.

Why would picking the location make you the one to pay? The date is still going to happen regardless with some rough predetermined budget (unless that place ends up being super expensive, in which case they should be the ones to pay). If anything, by picking a location they are taking a risk that the date will go well there.

I believe they're the ones taking ME out and they offered to pick the place, especially if its expensive I believe they should pay for it, if I offered the place I would pay etc. but on a first date I wouldn't pay, unless their card declined ,etc

 

[Penalizer69]

If you want a girl to like you don't split the bill

But whoever asks should pay

 

[Aryy]

But whoever asks should pay

Ngl i cant imagine asking a guy out and on top paying i will kms

 

[paulyune]

Ngl i cant imagine asking a guy out and on top paying i will kms

it honestly just depends on the couple, the age range etc. obviously a teenager isn't able to just start spending hundreds of dollars on a girl so easily

 

[TonyDr]

like "if u aren’t paying for her shit cause she’s a feminist"

No never happening, about money, feminists are still stuck into patriarchy habits for some reasons lmao

That's said here in France women tend to do 50/50 or letting you pay. If she pays, the dick might be life changing or she's gonna hate you forever.

Once you start to date seriously a woman and she likes you a lot, they tend to pay. There lot of things my fiancée offers to pay, that alongside the monthly bills ofc

 

[Aryy]

it honestly just depends on the couple, the age range etc. obviously a teenager isn't able to just start spending hundreds of dollars on a girl so easily

i think i have an answer, stuff just isnt that expensive here

 

[paulyune]

i think i have an answer, stuff just isnt that expensive here

for me it depends where u go, theres rich sides and broke sides of my area

 

[Nenestar]

Ngl i cant imagine asking a guy out and on top paying i will kms

What if it were a white man?

 

[Aryy]

No never happening, about money, feminists are still stuck into patriarchy habits for some reasons lmao

true

Once you start to date seriously a woman and she likes you a lot, they tend to pay. There lot of things my fiancée offers to pay, that alongside the monthly bills ofc

its different when youre serious with someone yk, like if youre about to be married at that point you can share finances

plus if its serious its nice to treat your partner

 

[Aryy]

What if it were a white man?

i only wanna date my ethnicity ofc

 

[TonyDr]

its different when youre serious with someone yk, like if youre about to be married at that point you can share finances

plus if its serious its nice to treat your partner

No there women who don't pay at all during the whole relationship. They just doesn't like you anyways

 

[Aryy]

No there women who don't pay at all during the whole relationship. They just doesn't like you anyways

yeah using for money then

 

[Starlet]

I have no money so they have no choice if they want to see me, otherwise ig we’re doing something free

 

[dior]

idk how people go with this, dont you feel he doesnt really want you if he doesnt pay

literally^, ive never had an issue balling out and paying for a fancy dinner date, it makes me feel reliable honestly and i fw that

 

[JDD]

No