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Serious You won’t truly ascend unless you realize this

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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this is a must read it only took me a few months to go from ltn to hmtn-lhtn also being chadlite in nothing if ur a absolute wierdo pdf
 
tbh yeah imo u gotta make sure ur mental health is good to stay motivated and having normie friends is nicee they keep you happy. sorry u got sm hate ppl on here can be toxic i hope all is well that’s all i wanted to add 🫶🏻
 
tbh yeah imo u gotta make sure ur mental health is good to stay motivated and having normie friends is nicee they keep you happy. sorry u got sm hate ppl on here can be toxic i hope all is well that’s all i wanted to add 🫶🏻
Such kind words.. really needed this. Thank you fr !
 
Based thread bhai, idk why there are people hating on this, being chad without friends or any social interactions will make you depressed also.
Literally this. Also you can't escape the NT pill which is the most brutal pill imho.
 
Just think of this, would you be a happier person if you were with a ‘normie’ friend group. Making new memories each time you go out. Not super stressed about looks all the time (but knowing its important), gaining life experience.

Or

Mostly talking with autists online, fixating heavily on your appearance in isolated spaces? Waiting for that “ascension” that will turn their life around.. (but its never coming, it will never be enough).
I believe its much more enjoyable to have outstanding friends, that have aligned interests, if not it would be very very boring.

Imagine not being able to talk about the most important thing right now in your live because it's just you sperging out regarding a very specific or niche subject. But nonetheless, i do see your point as solitude also reduces the amount of quality life that you have, as well as contributing to more stress, that affects your overall lokssmaxxing gains.

And you're ascencion it is at least to me something that you can continue maxxing on the meantime it's not conflicting one with another.
 
first ascend, then go live

Jokes aside you are right I think 90 percent of people on here dont do anything but basic self care
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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forgot i read this until i saw my gold react from months ago
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Water but good info ig
 
all what you said is not true, looks are everything.
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There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring?
I'm here to enhance my life by looking better, because by looking better I'll feel better and be more confident, which in turn will allow me to focus more on what I enjoy and have meaningful interactions with interesting individuals without thinking "man, I'm a fat fucking slob" in the back of my mind. "Remember to have a fricking normal one" is not what I want to see when I'm on a forum focused on looking better. I want a beautiful life and everything around me is ugly, so "go out, have a drink, try something new" isn't really an option.
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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cope
 
Gang this is true but you can’t just forget about Blackpill outside
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends
This is so true. I couldn't fully ascend until I made it here & legit with the amount of autism, dedication, attention to detail, and blackpilled knowledge you accumulate from here, you can become a centerpiece of ANY normie group

Plus gets you a lot of exposure to women easily
 
I’m honestly way too obsessed with how I look. I can’t feel confident going out and having fun unless I feel like I look good. The moment I feel even a little bit unattractive, I just want to hide in my room
idk how old you are but if above 18 consider travelling/backpacking for some months. Does great things for your personal growth 👍
Went and staid in a Buddhist monastery when I was 20, that stuff gives you the real insights.
It’s body, mind and spirit all are equally important 💪
 
amazing message, this should be pinned to the top of every forum, mainly as a reminder that improving yourself is great and looks are important, but if you let it consume you and allow it to hinder your ability to live among others and enjoy the true nature of living then you need to take a step back. keep it up love to see the positive side of this community. and if you are reading this, you matter and keep living 👊 ❤️
 
you wont truly ascend until you slide your cock into an electrical socket while jorking it to minecraft jenny porn and screaming slurs.
 
genuinely you just have to fuck a charlie kirk fleshlight to ascend like thats all there is to it 💔
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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you're right i noticed a huge change in my life when i started actually socializing instead of being a stonecold true chudcel with no an didy foid
 
I’m honestly way too obsessed with how I look. I can’t feel confident going out and having fun unless I feel like I look good. The moment I feel even a little bit unattractive, I just want to hide in my room
1 Samuel 16:7
“Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
 
Hey, 29 years old guy here.

I had a really bad childhood. Lots of bullying, lots of being ignored, lots of not being found worth talking to. People said many things to demoralize me.

"You can't even finish school."

I became an engineer.

"You can't find a job."

I worked as a waiter for a month & now working as an engineer for 4 months at a factory.

"You can't even hold a conversation."

I make the best of it. I learned to be witty. I learned to be direct. I learned to be social. I was an introvert, now I am an extrovert. Things change. They always do and always will.

I also spend some time online and will say you this: What you say online is only 1-2% of the population. People become rude in the lights of anonymity. They can't say what they say unless you are hideously ugly and/or they are psychopath enough to ignore your emotions.

Hell, maybe I don't have enough time for doing other things beside working but this put me outside of the house, at least. Plus, you don't know who the people writing here are. You didn't see them, and they didn't see you. Maybe they are here to belittle you. Maybe they just want to troll you (hence the saying "Don't feed the troll.")

I already forgot what happened in my past in a way I don't let them affect my mood in a negative direction. I took my key takeaways and I keep living my life. I read books. I play chess. I will pick up playing guitar again (I gave 1 concert when I was 14). I probably will do more things. Because I know I am living only for myself and not for anyone else.
 
cope

No, as right as it gets ofc! Looks matter, but so does a lot of other sh!t.
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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I agree but also if ur chopped u will always have in the back of ur head ur not good enough for a girl even if she does accept u. Fuck that.
 
I agree but also if ur chopped u will always have in the back of ur head ur not good enough for a girl even if she does accept u. Fuck that.
There's nothing more rewarding than when a girl shows u off to her friends and they all are like yeah he's hot well done.
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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dnr, youre retarded i hate you forever
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Best post on this forum i read till now
 
I get you buddy. You speak truly from the heart. But the real truth is the dating market is honestly insanely brutal. Girls can't really see your inner soul. What they really care about that how good looking you are. So how much I want to leave this path, this just turns me back in. Competition is high. This is the way.
You have a nice day.
Lots of love,
Sam
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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The blue pill
 
Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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@genio
 
I’m honestly way too obsessed with how I look. I can’t feel confident going out and having fun unless I feel like I look good. The moment I feel even a little bit unattractive, I just want to hide in my room
Average person on the streets blue pilled, nd, and below average. Nobody really cares bro enjoy life.
 
I’m honestly way too obsessed with how I look. I can’t feel confident going out and having fun unless I feel like I look good. The moment I feel even a little bit unattractive, I just want to hide in my room
I thought i was the only one who did that
 

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