Serious You won’t truly ascend unless you realize this

[xflowi]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Cope advice for htn + only

 

[HerculesJr.]

Cope advice for htn + only

That means it applies to me

 

[Fattiepattiecookie]

Idk I guess I’m just surrounded by people who point out every little thing. Like if I look even slightly off it’s instantly ‘you look so dead’ or ‘you look so bloated.’ It kinda messes with me. There are days I don’t even go to school just because I hate how I look

that's so rude, u should get new friends if possible

 

[xflowi]

That means it applies to me

Fine, doesnt change the fact 90% of us are mtn and below

 

[loyal]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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paid reps

 

[Akris]

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

Once you see that people come, and talk to you more often because you improved your looks, you want more.

 

[underweightboyo]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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i used to be a normie and have a huge friend group, but then i dropped out at 16, lost all my friends, stopped going outside and started seeing stuff about the bp, i'm glad i experienced both sides though and had a good childhood

 

[Atticus__1]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Exactly you can’t have to many freinds who are actually aware

 

[FairnessandEquality]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Im socially aspie and awkward

Only normal with other neurodivergent or outcast people.

I speak with monotone voice

I didn't go to a good school and never went college / uni

My mother is single mother and also on welfare and she doesnt know much people/ have big social circle.

For her people and family , Everything revolves around eating. Food is all Chinese people care about

 

[sogone]

I disagree, improve looks, hot people for life

 

[Atticus__1]

Mods can take this off must reads, wasn’t my goal in writing this thread anyways.

Just wanted to show a different perspective. Looksmaxxing can only get you so far.

Don’t let it take over your life.

Great thread

 

[tacha_rskl]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Yes, it's real. Of course, there are limits; you shouldn't let yourself go and become extremely ugly and unhealthy, but generally, nobody notices. We just fixate on details and create unattainable standards of perfection. "It's never enough."

 

[isntnotrepellent]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Cope blud

 

[Neko_yang14]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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have you ever felt being called scary, weird, or disgusting when you smile? nonetheless, i agree with ur point

 

[Neko_yang14]

have you ever felt being called scary, weird, or disgusting when you smile? nonetheless, i agree with ur point

i mean people might look normal in front of us, but sometimes, their brains are actually thinking in a different way about our looks, especially if we're ugly. Imagine carrying this 'passive skill' the whole time while hanging out with others

 

[HerculesJr.]

have you ever felt being called scary, weird, or disgusting when you smile? nonetheless, i agree with ur point

Yeah my smile is not the best whatsoever. It might have to do with my eyes though

 

[lolokokok]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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they should make reposts on here so I can repost this

 

[FatTobetter]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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true, life got way better when u go out with some normies

 

[Canthal]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Great Thread!

 

[JjuliusCaesar]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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I dont wanna go outside or interact with normies unless i look good tho, im forced to go to school but i dont do anything outside of that. I cant possibly be happy without being at least htn

 

[ajis19]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Amazing thx u

 

[malik♦️]

I’m honestly way too obsessed with how I look. I can’t feel confident going out and having fun unless I feel like I look good. The moment I feel even a little bit unattractive, I just want to hide in my room

bit too sensitive

 

[vincenzo]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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Must read bro. People let insecurity inhibit themselves too much.

 

[luvdeer]

Forget about looksmaxxing. What actually matters is having normie friends, people who don’t overanalyze every flaw. They know that only leads to insecurity. It’s about having fun, making memories, just existing with people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

What are you even doing to looksmaxx? Pinning? Surgery? Getting to super low bodyfat% ? Putting in real effort? Probably not. Probably just wasting time. You can learn everything in a day by reading the best threads. Any real “ascension” shouldn’t take longer than a couple months.

There are people who look worse than you living way more interesting lives. What’s the point of focusing solely on looksmaxxing if you’re boring? Being fun and real matters too.

Sure, improve your looks, but let it sit in the background mostly. Don’t let it consume you.

I cringe when people talk blackpill outside. I don’t even think about that stuff IRL. When I’m out, it’s like I’ve never been on these forums.

You don’t need to be bluepilled, just understand: looks matter, but so does being a real person. Let normies in. Don’t mask. Just be. Go out, have a drink, try something new. Actually live.

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this is peak bro

 

[ihatemyfuckingfather]

how ts is on botb??????