Baby your whole life hasn't even started yet, I would say just set yourself up to be better when you are 18-19 rather than trying right now, get any orthopedics you need now so you won't need braces in your 20's, join athletics and work out regularly, create a regular regime (Morning skincare food prep etc, Nighttime shower, cleaning, gym wtv) You still need to finish puberty so now is just the time to set yourself up for you being older, find what hairstyles look good, experiment with facial care and work out routines, eat healthy, learn to study and clean. Do not worry too much about attracting women as a 14 year old, just worry about setting yourself up to get women when you are 18+