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Lifefuel / Motivation ANTI - NEGATIVITY MEGATHREAD - THE TRUTH ABOUT LOOKSMAXING & WHY IT'S NEVER OVER (EVERYONE GTFIH)

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IT'S NEVER OVER

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The topic of looksmaxing and the black pill started as a tool. It was built so guys could be honest about how looks work in life and then actually improve the parts they could change. It was made for people on the same journey to help each other instead of tearing each other down. At the start you could ask a question and get straight advice back. Guys posted real progress and supported each other. That was the point. But this new wave has completely shifted it. Now the majority of these spaces are rude, judgmental, and full of people acting like they are better than everyone else even though they are on the exact same journey. The original reason for existing got lost in the negativity and superiority.

A lot of guys who have been around for years say the same thing happened. In the beginning it felt useful. The community was there to improve yourself and give tips to others who were trying too. Now it feels different. The second someone posts a small step or asks for basic advice they get hit with judgment or “it’s over” comments. People act superior the moment they improve a little. It is like the helpful part got pushed aside by toxicity. That shift did not help anyone. It turned a tool for getting better into something that makes people feel worse for trying.

O
ver 65% of guys who attempt to improve themselves quit

The original black pill was never about sitting around and putting others down. It was about facing reality so you could do something about it and help the next guy do the same. The shifted version turned into a place where people act like they are above you the second you try. New guys get shut down for asking normal questions and for being grey. Progress gets mocked instead of rewarded. Everyone is on the same journey of trying to improve, yet the tone became one of judgment instead of help. That change hurts the whole community.

So what is the shift in looksmaxing and the black pill?

The shift is when the helpful tool turned into a place full of superiority and judgment. The original version was simple. It said looks matter in some ways, but you can change a lot of them with true effort. It gave guys the truth so they could start working on the parts that were actually fixable. Training for muscle. Treating skin with protocols. Fixing hair with real treatments. Improving posture and style. Learning to talk to people. The point was progress from wherever you started. The shifted version took that same honesty and twisted it into an excuse to tear people down. Instead of tips it became “it’s over” and “rope” the second someone showed a starting point or progress. The community stopped being about helping each other improve and started being about feeling better than the next guy. That is the shift. It took something that was meant to move people forward and turned it into something that keeps them stuck.

Most guys who get deep into the negative and judgmental part of this do not end up happier or more confident. They end up stuck in a loop of comparing, coping, and giving up. It was rarely like that before. It was about facing what can be changed and doing the work. The shifted version makes it feel like the work does not matter. That is why so many quit.


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It is never ever over

The original message shows that real methods still exist from any starting point. The shift makes it feel like certain starting points are already over. But the original message shows that real methods still exist from anywhere. Real progress happens when you focus on what you can actually change and keep going with the approach. The shift tries to make every starting point feel final but the original message shows effort plus real methods still makes a difference. It is never ever over because the decision to focus on effort and use actual proven methods is still yours every single day.


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But I am short

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Real life examples of people who had success with limb lengthening surgery.

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HGH is a safer/more realistic alternative if growth plates are still open.

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Stop using your height as an excuse in life.

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But I am overweight

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Real life examples of people who transformed their bodies.


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Easier than ever now with the help of peptides.

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But I am skinny or a hardgainer

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Real life examples of people who transformed their bodies.

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So many ways to speed up the process.

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But I have bad acne or skin

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Real life examples of people who treated their acne.

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But I have hair that is receding or a bad hairline

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Real life examples of people who fixed their hair issues.

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So many options.

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But I am shy or have bad social skills

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Just a mental game.

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But I started late in my mid twenties or older

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They did it. Why can't you?!?!

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But I have an average or below average face

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Save up for that surgery (or plural).

If this has not convinced you, here are 100 reasons why you need to lock in.

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But I am too far gone
Plenty of guys started from worse places and still made it when they focused on true effort and used real methods.

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But the community says I am hopeless
The community is not your mirror. Real results come from research and action.

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But nobody supports me
That is exactly why you stop looking for support in the wrong places and start building yourself quietly.

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The shift to rudeness and superiority is not the only thing the community got wrong. The idea that improvement is pointless or that everyone is doomed from certain starting points is also a lie. The idea of looksmaxing was never about perfection or tearing others down. It was about becoming the best version of yourself while helping others on the same journey and using every method available.

It is never ever over. There is always room to improve. The real journey starts when you leave the judgment behind.

The world is yours if you actually go out and take it. Focus on the work not the noise. Remember why you started in the first place. Your effort still matters.

Never LDAR.
Take action.

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@Organ @subhumanwasian @Mr. Oxytocin @Orka

 

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IT'S NEVER OVER

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

The topic of looksmaxing and the black pill started as a tool. It was built so guys could be honest about how looks work in life and then actually improve the parts they could change. It was made for people on the same journey to help each other instead of tearing each other down. At the start you could ask a question and get straight advice back. Guys posted real progress and supported each other. That was the point. But this new wave has completely shifted it. Now the majority of these spaces are rude, judgmental, and full of people acting like they are better than everyone else even though they are on the exact same journey. The original reason for existing got lost in the negativity and superiority.

A lot of guys who have been around for years say the same thing happened. In the beginning it felt useful. The community was there to improve yourself and give tips to others who were trying too. Now it feels different. The second someone posts a small step or asks for basic advice they get hit with judgment or “it’s over” comments. People act superior the moment they improve a little. It is like the helpful part got pushed aside by toxicity. That shift did not help anyone. It turned a tool for getting better into something that makes people feel worse for trying.

O
ver 65% of guys who attempt to improve themselves quit

The original black pill was never about sitting around and putting others down. It was about facing reality so you could do something about it and help the next guy do the same. The shifted version turned into a place where people act like they are above you the second you try. New guys get shut down for asking normal questions and for being grey. Progress gets mocked instead of rewarded. Everyone is on the same journey of trying to improve, yet the tone became one of judgment instead of help. That change hurts the whole community.

So what is the shift in looksmaxing and the black pill?

The shift is when the helpful tool turned into a place full of superiority and judgment. The original version was simple. It said looks matter in some ways, but you can change a lot of them with true effort. It gave guys the truth so they could start working on the parts that were actually fixable. Training for muscle. Treating skin with protocols. Fixing hair with real treatments. Improving posture and style. Learning to talk to people. The point was progress from wherever you started. The shifted version took that same honesty and twisted it into an excuse to tear people down. Instead of tips it became “it’s over” and “rope” the second someone showed a starting point or progress. The community stopped being about helping each other improve and started being about feeling better than the next guy. That is the shift. It took something that was meant to move people forward and turned it into something that keeps them stuck.

Most guys who get deep into the negative and judgmental part of this do not end up happier or more confident. They end up stuck in a loop of comparing, coping, and giving up. It was rarely like that before. It was about facing what can be changed and doing the work. The shifted version makes it feel like the work does not matter. That is why so many quit.


⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

It is never ever over

The original message shows that real methods still exist from any starting point. The shift makes it feel like certain starting points are already over. But the original message shows that real methods still exist from anywhere. Real progress happens when you focus on what you can actually change and keep going with the approach. The shift tries to make every starting point feel final but the original message shows effort plus real methods still makes a difference. It is never ever over because the decision to focus on effort and use actual proven methods is still yours every single day.


⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

But I am short

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Real life examples of people who had success with limb lengthening surgery.

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HGH is a safer/more realistic alternative if growth plates are still open.

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Stop using your height as an excuse in life.

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥


But I am overweight

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View attachment 392606Real life examples of people who transformed their bodies.

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Easier than ever now with the help of peptides.

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

But I am skinny or a hardgainer

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Real life examples of people who transformed their bodies.

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So many ways to speed up the process.

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

B
ut I have bad acne or skin

View attachment 392613
Real life examples of people who treated their acne.

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

B
ut I have hair that is receding or a bad hairline

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Real life examples of people who fixed their hair issues.

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So many options.

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

B
ut I am shy or have bad social skills

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Just a mental game.

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But I started late in my mid twenties or older

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They did it. Why can't you?!?!

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

B
ut I have an average or below average face

View attachment 392625
Save up for that surgery (or plural).

If this has not convinced you, here are 100 reasons why you need to lock in.

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

But I am too far gone
Plenty of guys started from worse places and still made it when they focused on true effort and used real methods.

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

But the community says I am hopeless
The community is not your mirror. Real results come from research and action.

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

But nobody supports me
That is exactly why you stop looking for support in the wrong places and start building yourself quietly.

⬥━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⬥

The shift to rudeness and superiority is not the only thing the community got wrong. The idea that improvement is pointless or that everyone is doomed from certain starting points is also a lie. The idea of looksmaxing was never about perfection or tearing others down. It was about becoming the best version of yourself while helping others on the same journey and using every method available.

It is never ever over. There is always room to improve. The real journey starts when you leave the judgment behind.

The world is yours if you actually go out and take it. Focus on the work not the noise. Remember why you started in the first place. Your effort still matters.

Never LDAR.
Take action.

Captain America Reaction GIF


Tags:
@Organ @subhumanwasian @Mr. Oxytocin @Orka

Mirin
 
good effort my skulls fucked tho
 
this is water but good first thread
 

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