this was going to be a reply for this thread but i wrote too much and decided to make it a thread
Thread 'How to approach a girl you’re attracted to' https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/threads/how-to-approach-a-girl-you’re-attracted-to.13712/
it was good advice but its really not that simple
approaching strangers out of the blue (cold approaching) works only for chadlites and above
approaching like @girlfailure said works on people that are not strangers and are popular and/or good looking people (htn or social mtn)
for normal approaching theres a lot of factors to take into account (idk that well cause u know how i am but i still know some things)
APPROACHING TIPS FROM PUA GOD RAJ GHRANDHICK(one of the self proclaimed title among many other self proclaimed titles of mine)
its ideal for the person u r trying to approach to have low baseline dopamine levels from a long time or a dopamine spike when u are approaching
u both should have spent time together in the past(stranger = danger)
u need to have a well timed and slow approach which
should be performed with patient and respect for the approached person
u have to be low inhib while doing it(just be confident type of thing)
don't do it while they are busy (u will be seen as a disturbance and most likely rejected if not very good looking)
u need to know about thier way of thinking and about their personality and preferences and act accordingly (important but its not possible in many cases so don't sweat it)
u need to look ur best (do all the possible softmaxxes before like good hair and skin , shave or beard styled , makeup thats not too much, good scent , good mouth smell, etc)
don't act desperate if u are stupid and incompetent (they will use for their advantage and u will realise when its too late and won't be able to do anything)
TIPS IN GENERAL :
watch romance animes
watch romance movies not sex shit good movies with good stories for example la la land (i have it in my collection but haven't watched it but its edits look good)
don't approach people who are out of ur league (people who are always with good looking people of their opposite gender , u will most likely get rejected badly and ur self esteem will be zero
it'll probably happen cause they already have good chances with other gl people so u automatically out )
don't approach people who have bad personality and bad past
(people who have egos will mock u and try to ruin ur life cause they will think 'how does he/she dare approach me the god alpha mogger this disrespects me and hurts my dignity and image i must make him/her pay for it)
(people who have cheated in the past are most likely to cheat again)
(substance abusers will ruin ur and their own life)
(people who have abused thier partner and u have seen it don't approach them *do not believe allegations and rumours they are most likely spread by thier exes and haters*)
dont approach people who u think are not compatible with (no point in wasting time and getting and giving trauma)
use ur brain to think (don't let ur urges and fantasies cloud ur judgement)
don't approach people with bodycount more than 5 ideally 0 (i want a virgin hqnp trad wife who is very smart and has a cute personality and loves me
high bodycount peeple cant love easily and don't get attached and u will just be thier long term stable sex supplier instead of different many different ssx suppliers
these kind of relationships dont last and they mostly cheat on u or u get cucked)
don't approach dumbfucks and weirdos (water)
don't approach people who over sexualize themselves (u will be like a stable attention machine among the other non stable attention machines for them)
and if god forbid u get rejected don't let it get to you mentally
MAKE SURE YOU'RE AT LEAST NOT UGLY OR WEIRD WHEN APPROACHING
YOU NEED TO BE LEAN AND ACT NT AND HAVE A GOOD SHAPE (NOT OVERWEIGHT BASICALLY AND IDEALLY MUSCLES IN THE RIGHT AREAS )
AND GOOD HEIGHT (DON'T STRESS TOO MUCH OVER HEIGHT CAUSE YOU CAN'T CHANGE IT HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT)
YOU PEOPLE PLEASE SHARE YOUR OPINIONS AND TIPS IF YOU HAVE ANY GOOD ONES
-RAJ GHRANDHICK PUA GOD
Thread 'How to approach a girl you’re attracted to' https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/threads/how-to-approach-a-girl-you’re-attracted-to.13712/
it was good advice but its really not that simple
approaching strangers out of the blue (cold approaching) works only for chadlites and above
approaching like @girlfailure said works on people that are not strangers and are popular and/or good looking people (htn or social mtn)
for normal approaching theres a lot of factors to take into account (idk that well cause u know how i am but i still know some things)
APPROACHING TIPS FROM PUA GOD RAJ GHRANDHICK(one of the self proclaimed title among many other self proclaimed titles of mine)
its ideal for the person u r trying to approach to have low baseline dopamine levels from a long time or a dopamine spike when u are approaching
u both should have spent time together in the past(stranger = danger)
u need to have a well timed and slow approach which
should be performed with patient and respect for the approached person
u have to be low inhib while doing it(just be confident type of thing)
don't do it while they are busy (u will be seen as a disturbance and most likely rejected if not very good looking)
u need to know about thier way of thinking and about their personality and preferences and act accordingly (important but its not possible in many cases so don't sweat it)
u need to look ur best (do all the possible softmaxxes before like good hair and skin , shave or beard styled , makeup thats not too much, good scent , good mouth smell, etc)
don't act desperate if u are stupid and incompetent (they will use for their advantage and u will realise when its too late and won't be able to do anything)
TIPS IN GENERAL :
watch romance animes
watch romance movies not sex shit good movies with good stories for example la la land (i have it in my collection but haven't watched it but its edits look good)
don't approach people who are out of ur league (people who are always with good looking people of their opposite gender , u will most likely get rejected badly and ur self esteem will be zero
it'll probably happen cause they already have good chances with other gl people so u automatically out )
don't approach people who have bad personality and bad past
(people who have egos will mock u and try to ruin ur life cause they will think 'how does he/she dare approach me the god alpha mogger this disrespects me and hurts my dignity and image i must make him/her pay for it)
(people who have cheated in the past are most likely to cheat again)
(substance abusers will ruin ur and their own life)
(people who have abused thier partner and u have seen it don't approach them *do not believe allegations and rumours they are most likely spread by thier exes and haters*)
dont approach people who u think are not compatible with (no point in wasting time and getting and giving trauma)
use ur brain to think (don't let ur urges and fantasies cloud ur judgement)
don't approach people with bodycount more than 5 ideally 0 (i want a virgin hqnp trad wife who is very smart and has a cute personality and loves me
high bodycount peeple cant love easily and don't get attached and u will just be thier long term stable sex supplier instead of different many different ssx suppliers
these kind of relationships dont last and they mostly cheat on u or u get cucked)
don't approach dumbfucks and weirdos (water)
don't approach people who over sexualize themselves (u will be like a stable attention machine among the other non stable attention machines for them)
and if god forbid u get rejected don't let it get to you mentally
MAKE SURE YOU'RE AT LEAST NOT UGLY OR WEIRD WHEN APPROACHING
YOU NEED TO BE LEAN AND ACT NT AND HAVE A GOOD SHAPE (NOT OVERWEIGHT BASICALLY AND IDEALLY MUSCLES IN THE RIGHT AREAS )
AND GOOD HEIGHT (DON'T STRESS TOO MUCH OVER HEIGHT CAUSE YOU CAN'T CHANGE IT HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT)
YOU PEOPLE PLEASE SHARE YOUR OPINIONS AND TIPS IF YOU HAVE ANY GOOD ONES
-RAJ GHRANDHICK PUA GOD
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