Allah gave me a birthplace and birthtime, parents, ethnicity, gender, etc literally everything that differentiates me from others
We're all different and have different situations, we might have similar lives yes but never compeltly the same
Lets say for example my parents, theyre very strict, unfair and sexist towards me, this wasnt my freewill i didnt choose to have exactly these two ppl as my parents, God gave them to me
How my parents raised me affect how i think and make decisions so even tho i technically have free will i get limited options cz of whatever kind of a life (environment and experiences) Allah gave me, and the reason that i cannot make an actually free choice is because He is testing me
He gave me limited options from which i can freely choose what to do (for example in this case, stay with my parents and deal w them, or leave and have a better life, or any other choice) i cannot somehow make my parents better or change their way of thinking etc, thats what Hes testing me with
He gave me problematic parents and the free will to do whatever i want with them, and whatever *I* choose to do affects MY life
im kinda repeating the same shit sorry i dont know how to argue ffs