"attention seeking" as an insult

[paulyune]

tbh humans r social creatures and are wired to want attention naturally, Idk why people consider attention a bad thing unless they're doing bad things to get said attention

 

[Deleted Member 120226]

I’m alpha sigma

 

[0_0]

Im alpha smegma

 

[vespertine]

social norms

 

[Orka]

tbh humans r social creatures and are wired to want attention naturally, Idk why people consider attention a bad thing unless they're doing bad things to get said attention

Attention is the most valueable currency in the world

 

[Rololongs]

tbh humans r social creatures and are wired to want attention naturally, Idk why people consider attention a bad thing unless they're doing bad things to get said attention

we all want to be spotlight sometimes

 

[paulyune]

we all want to be spotlight sometimes

ong

 

[Deleted Member 120226]

Attention is the most valueable currency in the world

No money is stupid

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

I mean being social is one thing there is a healthy amount of attention seeking but when it’s all ur personality

 

[paulyune]

I mean being social is one thing there is a healthy amount of attention seeking but when it’s all ur personality

well ofc u shouldn't be insufferable ab it

 

[Starlet]

unless they're doing bad things to get said attention

that term is always coupled with that

 

[scotfield]

tbh humans r social creatures and are wired to want attention naturally, Idk why people consider attention a bad thing unless they're doing bad things to get said attention

Rose was joking as always anyway

 

[paulyune]

that term is always coupled with that

usually its not, term became meaningless

 

[Byro]

tbh humans r social creatures and are wired to want attention naturally, Idk why people consider attention a bad thing unless they're doing bad things to get said attention

I wouldn't go actively seeking attention. Getting it naturally is much better as it secures an actual connection for the long term, and idk "attention seeking" is gentrified in a more dramatisised way, meaning you need to be in the spotlight, or it feels somewhat bad

 

[paulyune]

I wouldn't go actively seeking attention. Getting it naturally is much better as it secures an actual connection for the long term, and idk "attention seeking" is gentrified in a more dramatisised way, meaning you need to be in the spotlight, or it feels somewhat bad

I get that

 

[Deleted Member 121099]

being social is one thing attention seeking is a whole different thing

 

[Starlet]

usually its not, term became meaningless

no one would call a singer performing to a crowd as attention seeking, posting your feet on an incel adjacent website is another story. There’s a difference

 

[Byro]

usually its not, term became meaningless

Every time I have heard "attention seeking" used, it usually refers to someone doing bad things to get said attention

 

[Orka]

No money is stupid

You can convert attention into money easier than you can convert money into attention

The more attention you have the more money you can get

 

[Deleted Member 120226]

You can convert attention into money easier than you can convert money into attention

The more attention you have the more money you can get

No.

 

[TFC]

tbh humans r social creatures and are wired to want attention naturally, Idk why people consider attention a bad thing unless they're doing bad things to get said attention

Are you arguing bein a attention whore is good?

 

[Deleted Member 121099]

No.

wow good point you’re really winning this argument

 

[vespertine]

You can convert attention into money easier than you can convert money into attention

The more attention you have the more money you can get

high iq

 

[Deleted Member 120226]

wow good point you’re really winning this argument

go suck roses dick

 

[Deleted Member 121099]

go suck roses dick

on my way

 

[paulyune]

Are you arguing bein a attention whore is good?

u missed the point, I indirectly am saying that people will call people attention whores for having basic human wants

 

[TFC]

u missed the point, I indirectly am saying that people will call people attention whores for having basic human wants

no, I have basic human wants of wanting to find someone who wants me
a foid is alrady wanted and want to be more wanted... AND also begs for the attention


wanting to find (healthy) attention - begging for attention while being obnoxious

 

[paulyune]

no, I have basic human wants of wanting to find someone who wants me
a foid is alrady wanted and want to be more wanted... AND also begs for the attention


wanting to find (healthy) attention - begging for attention while being obnoxious

I don't think ur comprehending but its ok

 

[Starlet]

I don't think ur comprehending but its ok

even if it’s “normal” and “natural”, that still doesn’t argue that it’s healthy or ok at all, in fact it’s usually manipulative and damaging in the long run

 

[paulyune]

even if it’s “normal” and “natural” that still doesn’t argue that it’s healthy or ok at all, in fact it’s usually manipulative and damaging in the long run

too much of something can be damaging

 

[TFC]

even if it’s “normal” and “natural”, that still doesn’t argue that it’s healthy or ok at all, in fact it’s usually manipulative and damaging in the long run

too much of something can be damaging

That’s a good way of explaining it, I was arguing the idea from a general view, you argued it was normal to feel that way, and stalet (like me) argues you can feel that way but begging for it is not ok… regardless of how accepted that behavior is