can the making friends tut drop already

[ltb]

i havent had more than 0-2 friends since i was in 5th grade and now im expected for it to be my only support system and i probably wont even find anyone who likes me i think i should seriously ropemaxx before the heartache

 

[ltb]

yeah fuck college pursue a start up

 

[ltb]

yeah fuck college pursue a start up

thanks so much for the support this is what i was thinking but want sure

 

[ltb]

thanks so much for the support this is what i was thinking but want sure

anytime

 

[pepsi cola]

i havent had more than 0-2 friends since i was in 5th grade and now im expected for it to be my only support system and i probably wont even find anyone who likes me i think i should seriously ropemaxx before the heartache

DW it's common I think idk I don't go outside

 

[naomimisora]

i havent had more than 0-2 friends since i was in 5th grade and now im expected for it to be my only support system and i probably wont even find anyone who likes me i think i should seriously ropemaxx before the heartache

just talk to people

 

[ilya]

i havent had more than 0-2 friends since i was in 5th grade and now im expected for it to be my only support system and i probably wont even find anyone who likes me i think i should seriously ropemaxx before the heartache

say hi and smile

 

[ltb]

DW it's common I think idk I don't go outside

no i actually thought this too but i looked up the stats

 

[ltb]

just talk to people

they will genuinely kill me with laser eyes and then talk shit about me and then nobody will want to look at me out of fear of getting the cheese touch

 

[ltb]

say hi and smile

and then they start recording me with meta glasses to clown on social media

 

[ilya]

and then they start recording me with meta glasses to clown on social media

 

[naomimisora]

they will genuinely kill me with laser eyes and then talk shit about me and then nobody will want to look at me out of fear of getting the cheese touch

bro what
do you look like an ogre or smth

 

[True Spaniard]

i havent had more than 0-2 friends since i was in 5th grade and now im expected for it to be my only support system and i probably wont even find anyone who likes me i think i should seriously ropemaxx before the heartache

Over for us nds

 

[ltb]

sounds like clav

 

[ltb]

bro what
do you look like an ogre or smth

i dont think its abt how i look tbh im average but im sososo shy and anxious i get too nervous to start conversations but im not pretty enough that anyone would initiate one with me yk

 

[ltb]

Over for us nds

based af

 

[naomimisora]

i dont think its abt how i look tbh im average but im sososo shy and anxious i get too nervous to start conversations but im not pretty enough that anyone would initiate one with me yk

you need exposure therapy
go to a public place and try to talk to someone your age
or if it’s easier talk to people on ometv

 

[Deleted Member 123330]

me too and i’ve been a neet for over a year so i gave up on finding friends

 

[oceauine]

What worked for me is jst getting comfortable being uncomfortable as corny as that sounds
A. Good starting point is just talking to your friends friends if you get the chance
Most people wont want to not talk to you usually especially if ur above average
If yoy cant though just hop on oxy or some other nootropics or just be drunk

 

[ltb]

you need exposure therapy
go to a public place and try to talk to someone your age
or if it’s easier talk to people on ometv

trvke its so embarrassing to do without any friends though like people are so mean i know theyll laugh about it after i leave i feel im disgracing my familys name

 

[naomimisora]

trvke its so embarrassing to do without any friends though like people are so mean i know theyll laugh about it after i leave i feel im disgracing my familys name

dawg it’s all in your head even if you have an embarassing conversation the other persons gonna forget about it in 10 min since everyone’s too focused on themselves to care

 

[ltb]

me too and i’ve been a neet for over a year so i gave up on finding friends

i feel like being a neet is the best time to find friends though cause if you try something and they people dont react well you never have to see them again but at work or school youre stuck

 

[Deleted Member 123330]

i feel like being a neet is the best time to find friends though cause if you try something and they people dont react well you never have to see them again but at work or school youre stuck

this is true only my city is super small and overpopulated with chavs there’s like no places or opportunities to find normal people i can actually get along with

 

[ltb]

What worked for me is jst getting comfortable being uncomfortable as corny as that sounds
A. Good starting point is just talking to your friends friends if you get the chance
Most people wont want to not talk to you usually especially if ur above average
If yoy cant though just hop on oxy or some other nootropics or just be drunk

im just average looking i think i might need oxy or something else bc my personality gets so boring when im anxious i cant think of anything to say normal or funny or anything but thanks

 

[ilya]

muh muh muh foid rambles

 

[ltb]

dawg it’s all in your head even if you have an embarassing conversation the other persons gonna forget about it in 10 min since everyone’s too focused on themselves to care

low inhib really is law

 

[ltb]

this is true only my city is super small and overpopulated with chavs there’s like no places or opportunities to find normal people i can actually get along with

ahh got you maybe try going to a class for something youre interested in theres always cool people at those so i hear but i also live in la so it might be theres just a lot of cool ppl here

 

[ltb]

i should've taken the ssris when i got the chance fuck me and me fucking stupid head and ideas and life

 

[oceauine]

im just average looking i think i might need oxy or something else bc my personality gets so boring when im anxious i cant think of anything to say normal or funny or anything but thanks

Yeah tbh social skills are always just built on practice
And theres a factor of who youre talking to and how much of the same interests you guys have
If you really cant find something to say say like “And what’d you think about that?” “Why’d you do that?” “Dang, you did ___?” Judt question shit

 

[ltb]

Yeah tbh social skills are always just built on practice
And theres a factor of who youre talking to and how much of the same interests you guys have
If you really cant find something to say say like “And what’d you think about that?” “Why’d you do that?” “Dang, you did ___?” Judt question shit

im going to gold rep spam you in the morning if i remember

 

[pepsi cola]

no i actually thought this too but i looked up the statsView attachment 405154

Ok I guess I'm lonely then

 

[ltb]

Ok I guess I'm lonely then

well be lonely together

 

[pepsi cola]

well be lonely together

Then we wouldn't be lonely

 

[TonyDr]

i havent had more than 0-2 friends since i was in 5th grade and now im expected for it to be my only support system and i probably wont even find anyone who likes me i think i should seriously ropemaxx before the heartache

I could elab on how finding friends but people don't like nor apply the methods. You need to force yourself but still

 

[ltb]

I could elab on how finding friends but people don't like nor apply the methods. You need to force yourself but still

wallahi i will apply the methods if you elab pls pls

 

[ilya]

I could elab on how finding friends but people don't like nor apply the methods. You need to force yourself but still

exposure + going with the flow tell 'em mr. antonio

 

[Br4va]

I heard you just need drugs to make friends

 

[TonyDr]

wallahi i will apply the methods if you elab pls pls

exposure + going with the flow tell 'em mr. antonio

Yeah like no care said, in short, expose yourself to social life for a long oeriod of time and stay the less isolated as possible : Joining a hobby (pottery, pilates who cares), find a job when you're forced to talk to customers and coworkers on the daily, join a charity, be helpful etc.

Plethora of options, but you have to force yourself doing it

 

[ltb]

I heard you just need drugs to make friends

brb abt to count how many ritalin i can spare

 

[Br4va]

brb abt to count how many ritalin i can spare

Ok

 

[pepsi cola]

brb abt to count how many ritalin i can spare

Bro just go and join a club

 

[ltb]

Yeah like no care said, in short, expose yourself to social life for a long oeriod of time and stay the less isolated as possible : Joining a hobby (pottery, pilates who cares), find a job when you're forced to talk to customers and coworkers on the daily, join a charity, be helpful etc.

Plethora of options, but you have to force yourself doing it

yes i mean i'll be going to uni so ill definitely have a lot of people to interact with i need to know how to learn to make them like me enough to invite me places or be less anxious im not that annoying when im normal

 

[ltb]

Bro just go and join a club

clubs are the worst everyone already knows eachother and i swear theyre never welcoming to even listen to me tell them my name let alone ask for theirs i think ill just get through orientation week and then piss off my roomate by bedrotting the rest of the time

 

[TonyDr]

yes i mean i'll be going to uni so ill definitely have a lot of people to interact with i need to know how to learn to make them like me enough to invite me places or be less anxious im not that annoying when im normal

Going to school isn't enough bud, what i said are practices when you're forced to be involved and talk/interact to people, while school you can be on your own, especially during courses and lectures and isolated

 

[ltb]

Going to school isn't enough bud, what i said are practices when you're forced to be involved and talk/interact to people, while school you can be on your own, especially during courses and lectures and isolated

ohh yeah i guess like clubs and organizations and stuff i have a lott of seminars too thanks tony