Care

[tami_26]

I genuinely struggle to care about my appearance bcs idgaf about most ppl I’m around and bcs I jst feel doomed so how do you get yourself to care about basic appearances

 

[splanky]

I genuinely struggle to care about my appearance bcs idgaf about most ppl I’m around and bcs I jst feel doomed so how do you get yourself to care about basic appearances

wait no same like i acc can only do my makeup when ik someone i like is gonna see me

 

[tami_26]

wait no same like i acc can only do my makeup when ik someone i like is gonna see me

I never put effort in unless there is a big event or I’m seeing my bf but it takes so much out of me.it might be linked to my depression idk

 

[splanky]

I never put effort in unless there is a big event or I’m seeing my bf but it takes so much out of me.it might be linked to my depression idk

ohhh i see aw im sorry i hope u feel better : (

 

[tami_26]

ohhh i see aw im sorry i hope u feel better : (

It’s jst over even my dad pulled me out tdy to say I need to put my effort in my appearance or ppl r going to think I’m like homeless or like from crackhead home jfl it’s so over

 

[splanky]

It’s jst over even my dad pulled me out tdy to say I need to put my effort in my appearance or ppl r going to think I’m like homeless or like from crackhead home jfl it’s so over

it’s okay girl if ur going through smth that’s only to be expected, ofc it’s always good to put effort into how u look but so long as ur hygienic and clean that’s all that matters

 

[tami_26]

it’s okay girl if ur going through smth that’s only to be expected, ofc it’s always good to put effort into how u look but so long as ur hygienic and clean that’s all that matters

I think I’m jst used to going thru something I jst never like idk built a mindset of caring about anything anymore

 

[splanky]

I think I’m jst used to going thru something I jst never like idk built a mindset of caring about anything anymore

it’ll get better eventually don’t worry
maybe u js need to clear ur mind
u could talk to ur bf abt it too and im sure he’d be happy to help

 

[tami_26]

it’ll get better eventually don’t worry
maybe u js need to clear ur mind
u could talk to ur bf abt it too and im sure he’d be happy to help

that’s true,I jst hate opening up tbf I think I jst need to build good habits I find it hard to stay consistent tho bcs I genuinely never try unless I have to

 

[splanky]

that’s true,I jst hate opening up tbf I think I jst need to build good habits I find it hard to stay consistent tho bcs I genuinely never try unless I have to

yeah it can be rlly hard but u js gotta think abt how much it’ll benefit u in the end
and yea routines r GREAT i have trouble doing things outside of routines that i make for myself it’s so nice to have some familiarity in the things u do everyday
i remember u saying ur parents didnt want u to be medicated but id def recommend seeing a doctor or psychiatrist when ur older or at least have the independence to

 

[tami_26]

yeah it can be rlly hard but u js gotta think abt how much it’ll benefit u in the end
and yea routines r GREAT i have trouble doing things outside of routines that i make for myself it’s so nice to have some familiarity in the things u do everyday
i remember u saying ur parents didnt want u to be medicated but id def recommend seeing a doctor or psychiatrist when ur older or at least have the independence to

Yh I think I Lwk might need to bcs I barely can do like basic shit 🫩 but like my ethnic parents r not understanding at all

 

[splanky]

Yh I think I Lwk might need to bcs I barely can do like basic shit 🫩 but like my ethnic parents r not understanding at all

i wish u luck gyal