Serious Controversial Relationship Dynamic

[Currycelloser]

Feminism. Some women hold the ideology that you should be independent and shouldn’t need or rely on a man for anything. They believe that reliance creates a power dynamic that can lead to manipulation and control.

false, feminism just says, men and women are equally important to the society, they should be equally respected and should have equal basic human rights, other than that, some feminists are just stupid tho

 

[trvecel]

so ur secretly a htn fooling us

No I'm literally jus average

 

[Deleted Member 110363]

false, feminism just says, men and women are equally important to the society, they should be equally respected and should have equal basic human rights, other than that, some feminists are just stupid tho

Agreed, women with that ideology aren’t feminists. But, I do agree that you have to be careful with these kinds of power dynamics, because it can lead to financial manipulation if the relationship turns sour.

 

[Deleted Member 110363]

No I'm literally jus average

“Average” - mltn

 

[iblamexyz]

Is it wrong for me to want a man who guides me—someone who tells me what to wear, how to do my hair and makeup, and what is good or bad to eat? I want someone who teaches me things I would have never known without him, who doesn’t belittle me but explains things patiently instead. I also want someone who helps me with things I should be able to do myself, like bathing, tying my shoes, or getting dressed. At the same time, I still want to be independent in some ways

This isn’t toxic this is how relationships should be like

 

[hurricane]

so bad

 

[trvecel]

Only a chopped manlet would complain abt a girl wanting a dominant man

son there's a difference between dominance and wanting your boyfriend to treat you like his kid are you good in the head

 

[Currycelloser]

This isn’t toxic this is how relationships should be like

subjective opinion but sure ig

 

[trvecel]

“Average” - mltn

Still getting mad because I stated a fact holy

 

[iblamexyz]

subjective opinion but sure ig

Ideally your wife is your servant and you die to protect her

 

[Deleted Member 110363]

Still getting mad because I stated a fact holy

I’m js trynna ragebait, is it working?

 

[Deleted Member 110363]

Ideally your wife is your servant and you die to protect her

Dream dynamic

 

[Currycelloser]

Ideally your wife is your servant and you die to protect her

no my wife is not my servent, and yes i would die to protect her

 

[Deleted Member 110363]

no my wife is not my servent, and yes i would die to protect her

Are there men out here who actually think this way

 

[Aryy]

Ideally your wife is your servant and you die to protect her

idk about the servant thing but u should be ready to die for your partner imo

 

[hurricane]

you are mentally ill, op. Get some help

 

[trvecel]

I’m js trynna ragebait, is it working?

Nah you jus seem like you're projecting tho, funny user

 

[trvecel]

u should be ready to die for your partner imo

Son

 

[iblamexyz]

idk about the servant thing but u should be ready to die for your partner imo

no my wife is not my servent, and yes i would die to protect her

As long as she’s putting you first and helping you out and you’ll do anything to protect her

 

[Aryy]

Son

what now

 

[Deleted Member 104212]

so you just want a new father that also occasionally fucks you

 

[bleeder]

Is it wrong for me to want a man who guides me—someone who tells me what to wear, how to do my hair and makeup, and what is good or bad to eat? I want someone who teaches me things I would have never known without him, who doesn’t belittle me but explains things patiently instead. I also want someone who helps me with things I should be able to do myself, like bathing, tying my shoes, or getting dressed. At the same time, I still want to be independent in some ways

i think thats rly sweet tbh

 

[trvecel]

what now

Guaranteed you would NOT die for your man bro

 

[bleeder]

why this n***a hmm reacting

 

[Aryy]

Guaranteed you would NOT die for your man bro

depends

 

[bleeder]

stupid bitch aryy

 

[trvecel]

depends

Exactly bro like you are NOT dying for him so why act like u would

 

[Evilemofoid]

sorry it was so honest of you i got caught off guard, ily

Bruh im honest cuz my trauma and my undebleivable bs it helps ppl tho
I shouldn't be put down bc in hurting myself alr to help others

 

[Deleted Member 110363]

idk about the servant thing but u should be ready to die for your partner imo

My idea of servant is cleaning, taking care of our children, cooking, doing whatever he asks of me (if it’s reasonable) because I believe he knows what’s best for me. And he’ll protect, provide, handle the financial stuff, help with the things I’m unable to do alone.

 

[Deleted Member 110363]

Exactly bro like you are NOT dying for him so why act like u would

Depends on the circumstances

 

[Huntergirl]

Right, so why blame the child who’s a victim of the abuse, and hasn’t done anything wrong, and not the parent who chose to have the child and actively decides to treat them poorly?

Idk how this is an excuse to act stupid and disabled

 

[Deleted Member 110363]

Bruh im honest cuz my trauma and my undebleivable bs it helps ppl tho
I shouldn't be put down bc in hurting myself alr to help others

I really appreciate you for being honest, it makes me feel less alone.

 

[bleeder]

I really appreciate you for being honest, it makes me feel less alone.

wait whats going on?

 

[Aryy]

Exactly bro like you are NOT dying for him so why act like u would

well
it really depends if we have kids whats needed etc
but if i marry someone ideally i would love them the most

 

[Aryy]

My idea of servant is cleaning, taking care of our children, cooking, doing whatever he asks of me (if it’s reasonable) because I believe he knows what’s best for me. And he’ll protect, provide, handle the financial stuff, help with the things I’m unable to do alone.

to each their own
but this can turn out bad

 

[Evilemofoid]

wait whats going on?

Context.
Context.
Context.
Read any of thread

 

[trvecel]

well
it really depends if we have kids whats needed etc
but if i marry someone ideally i would love them the most

So yoid value your husband over your life? Kinda retarded ngl

 

[bleeder]

Context.
Context.
Context.
Read any of thread

blud i cant read for shit
i get lost

 

[Zillophone]

Bruh im honest cuz my trauma and my undebleivable bs it helps ppl tho
I shouldn't be put down bc in hurting myself alr to help others

wtv u say king stacy does what stacy wants

 

[Aryy]

So yoid value your husband over your life? Kinda retarded ngl

so you would rather choose yourself over your wife?
i mean i guess it makes sense i think i have an idealistic view of marriages

 

[trvecel]

so you would rather choose yourself over your wife?

NO SHIT

 

[bleeder]

@ameliaisbasd ok i get it i think

 

[Aryy]

NO SHIT

i just have an idealistic view to live and die like together

 

[trvecel]

i just have an idealistic view to live and die like together

Even then why'd you put him before your life

 

[Deleted Member 104212]

you were right it sure is controversial

 

[Aryy]

Even then why'd you put him before your life

honestly cant answer that
its just idealism

 

[TonyDr]

Is it wrong for me to want a man who guides me—someone who tells me what to wear, how to do my hair and makeup, and what is good or bad to eat?

I personally prefer my woman when she can do her make-up and hair alone and wear whatever they want as long it's not whorish. I have my preferences in both of them but i can't tell her to always have the same hair the same clothes yk

Also yeah i prefer her to have an idea of what a healthy diet looks like, without ending-up with ED like starving or binge eating goy slop. I recognize i'm the one cooking in the relationship but she already knows what to buy for diet.

I want someone who teaches me things I would have never known without him, who doesn’t belittle me but explains things patiently instead. I also want someone who helps me with things I should be able to do myself, like bathing, tying my shoes, or getting dressed. At the same time, I still want to be independent in some ways

I can understand that. You mean a loving, caring gentleman.
I just hope you'll reciprocate the same way to him by being a loving, caring wife

Having your woman independent is important, even for a man, so you're more sure that she loves you for you, and not waiting and praying for your downfall to get any benefits after you die or y'all divorce

 

[Evilemofoid]

@ameliaisbasd ok i get it i think

Yk like
Everything's bad
Comfort is nice
But the form of comfort needed is diminishing and the prospect of needing such is diminishing and such

 

[bleeder]

Yk like
Everything's bad
Comfort is nice
But the form of comfort needed is diminishing and the prospect of needing such is diminishing and such

yeah i understand, but comfort is still always nice imo
no?

 

[Huntergirl]

so you would rather choose yourself over your wife?
i mean i guess it makes sense i think i have an idealistic view of marriages

There’s over 40% possibility of getting cheated on in a relationship. Choosing anyone over yourself is retarded