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Serious Do y’all ever get the urge

Starlet

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to cut everyone off and go ghost? Basically just completely disappearing. I get this way too often, I think I have a problem
 
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i did it many times but after a while people message me saying “hey why did we stop talking i was just thinking about you”
They dont remember what happened and just apologise even though it was definitely my fault but i dont tell them that
 
i did it many times but after a while people message me saying “hey why did we stop talking i was just thinking about you”
They dont remember what happened and just apologise even though it was definitely my fault but i dont tell them that
cool beans
 
to cut everyone off and go ghost? Basically just completely disappearing. I get this way too often, I think I have a problem
I feel what you mean
 
already done that
Logged out of most social media accounts
This is the fourth month haven’t talked any of my friends
 
to cut everyone off and go ghost? Basically just completely disappearing. I get this way too often, I think I have a problem
Yeah, but then it makes me not wanna come back
 
to cut everyone off and go ghost? Basically just completely disappearing. I get this way too often, I think I have a problem
I've done this way too many times, u're not alone dw
 
i did it many times but after a while people message me saying “hey why did we stop talking i was just thinking about you”
They dont remember what happened and just apologise even though it was definitely my fault but i dont tell them that
A lot of times I’ve gotten those messages and still ignored them but I find that if you do try to reconnect and apologize it’s just never the same after
 
Yeah, I've done that for the past 4 years or so. (Taken 6+month breaks from people). rn, I haven't talked to my friends in like 3 months, or some. I just don't see a reason
 
already done that
Logged out of most social media accounts
This is the fourth month haven’t talked any of my friends
I don’t have social media but same. I need to get over it because it’s not conducive to a functional life to drop off the face of the earth every other year, and all the periods where I have were shit

you think people care about you more than they actually do

I did it for 6 months and it was ok nothing matters
there are more scenarios than just friends, I’ve done it even with school where I suddenly stopped going at all for a couple months and it caused a lot of problems
 
when it comes to social media theres maybe 2ppl whod notice
same w irl, maybe 1 person
ill prolly do it in my mid twenties tho
 
I just don't see a reason
Is that it? I think usually it’s cause I get overwhelmed or people start knowing too much about me and then I feel the need to isolate myself
 
when it comes to social media theres maybe 2ppl whod notice
same w irl, maybe 1 person
ill prolly do it in my mid twenties tho
Why mid twenties?
 
I don’t have social media but same. I need to get over it because it’s not conducive to a functional life to drop off the face of the earth every other year, and all the periods where I have were shit
Don’t either, meant like WhatsApp and messaging apps
people isolate themselves sometimes, it’s a natural thing to do
You have to question why you’re getting the urge so often
Wanna reset everything and create better boundaries ?depression or simply want a little bit of lone time
Does it have to do with them or you?
These you should ask yourself
 
to cut everyone off and go ghost? Basically just completely disappearing. I get this way too often, I think I have a problem
Starlet doesn't want to talk to us guys.
Get it through your noggin

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Is that it? I think usually it’s cause I get overwhelmed or people start knowing too much about me and then I feel the need to isolate myself
I really don't feel that. For me it is that I just see the connection for what it really is. We play some game, and we share a long history together; nothing more than that. Then I start to feel less connected, I just don't see a reason to keep it going.

So for me it's not really what others now about me (not driven by avoidant attachment style). It's more that I just don't see the value in them, I guess.
 
Have you ever felt that way about com?
Yeah i left for a month in September/October because i was taking a step further with my now fiancé
 
to cut everyone off and go ghost? Basically just completely disappearing. I get this way too often, I think I have a problem
I do too.and have acted on these urges countless times
 
to cut everyone off and go ghost? Basically just completely disappearing. I get this way too often, I think I have a problem
yeah often
 


I love this song so much, it often goes along with and represents this feeling very well for me
 

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