Does looksmaxxing help with confidence/loving yourself and can this lead to feeling less need for female validation?

[Darkfate124]

I find myself wanting to be lusted after desparately. Being rejected by a woman has always made me feel so worthless. I think it hurts because it confirms all of my insecurities.

If I got rid of the insecurities though, actually liked what I saw in the mirror, and looked great in photos, i feel like I could finally be comfy in my own skin. And I think I would have much more success with women.

I have dated some pretty hot women but i feel most of the work was done by my personality. And basically everything other than my looks. Im sick of that. If I could just get a woman to be interested in me without her having known me for years It would heal me I think.

Am I correct to think this way, what experience have you guys had?

 

[benny]

opposite i hate myself more and more every day because i know my flaws

 

[levithedudebro]

50/50 if you know youre attractive then youll feel a bit better about social scenarios but like at the same time youre more aware of your own flaws and if you grew up being unnatractive youll kinda have the same mindset if that makes sense like whenever a group of people glance my way i cant help but think its because they notice one of my flaws

 

[TFC]

I find myself wanting to be lusted after desparately. Being rejected by a woman has always made me feel so worthless. I think it hurts because it confirms all of my insecurities.

If I got rid of the insecurities though, actually liked what I saw in the mirror, and looked great in photos, i feel like I could finally be comfy in my own skin. And I think I would have much more success with women.

I have dated some pretty hot women but i feel most of the work was done by my personality. And basically everything other than my looks. Im sick of that. If I could just get a woman to be interested in me without her having known me for years It would heal me I think.

Am I correct to think this way, what experience have you guys had?

First before give you advice what do you look like (just put a black box over your eyes if you don’t wana face reveal)

 

[Darkfate124]

First before give you advice what do you look like (just put a black box over your eyes if you don’t wana face reveal)

 

[TFC]

It’s only because your tall… it has nothing to do with your personality

 

[Darkfate124]

It’s only because your tall… it has nothing to do with your personality

Thats not true man you guys hype being tall way too much. Most women just want a man who is taller than them so if youre avg height youll be fine.

Im 6'5 and can promise you it doesnt make as much of a difference as you think. Other men take more interest in my height than women do. Ive even been rejected a few times for being too tall.

 

[Thestral]

we are poles apart; I would like a woman to love me for who I am.

Sticking to the topic: the opposite is more likely. What are the purposes of looks? Self-esteem, social advantages…

 

[bloodprincess]

You will always feel bad if your emotions are dependant on your looks and there's no way out of it. If you're ugly you're sad because people treat you unjustly because of something you can't control and when you ascend you just get upset at people for only liking you because of your looks. It's corny but the only way you can be confident is to have other things in life to love.

 

[JDD8]

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