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Discussion Does someone still count as Stacy if they make up fraud like this?

because?
it makes you uncomfortable?
I'd say its a rather common trope on tt and social media in general.
Yeah I know the height pill is brutal I hate when girls say that stuff guy istg I am not like that it was just a bad moment 🥀🥀
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Like I hate these TikTok’s istg
 
the type of women that expect men to pay at the first date
i get your point but dude this is just expected in most of the world by both genders 😭 not saying its always correct but its the norm
 
i get your point but dude this is just expected in most of the world by both genders 😭 not saying its always correct but its the norm
We live under the patriarchy men should pay like…
 
i turned 19 recently
Oh, Ive never seen a single joking message from you. You give off boomer vibes cuz you’re always on some serious shi
 
If you think that paying is a man’s job then you support patriarchy
Said the incel… don’t u love the patriarchy? Plus we live under it might as well take advantage of it as much as we can
 
Said the incel… don’t u love the patriarchy? Plus we live under it might as well take advantage of it as much as we can
I don’t care about what’s happening in the world, I have my own views and will not follow society’s trends. I believe in flexible and logical 50/50 on everything, including money, homecare childcare etc.

You don’t live under it, no man without power can control you unless you willingly allow him to. You might have some restrictions due to you not being cis but that’s unrelated
 
I don’t care about what’s happening in the world, I have my own views and will not follow society’s trends. I believe in flexible and logical 50/50 on everything, including money, homecare childcare etc.
Oh hell nah
You don’t live under it, no man without power can control you unless you willingly allow him to. You might have some restrictions due to you not being cis but that’s unrelated
Bruh🫩come on Wdym financially 5050 what is this Cupid? Like help 💀
 
im a woman so its up for the men to decide what they want their role to be in a relationship. i think in todays world, both partners work a job so both should pay for things. who pays for what is up is an individual decision i suppose. even if the man decides to pay for everything i think its nice for a woman to still seldom pay for things because it shows care.
 
im a woman so its up for the men to decide what they want their role to be in a relationship. i think in todays world, both partners work a job so both should pay for things. who pays for what is up is an individual decision i suppose. even if the man decides to pay for everything i think its nice for a woman to still seldom pay for things because it shows care.
Girl I am sorry but they better pay like😭but yeah I do agree in general I would feel guilty if he paid for everything lmfao like I’d still expect it but yk ig it’s different when you’re married vs dating
 
Girl I am sorry but they better pay like😭but yeah I do agree in general I would feel guilty if he paid for everything lmfao like I’d still expect it but yk ig it’s different when you’re married vs dating
no i mean that makes perfect sense to you. if YOU want that out of a relationship (for him to be the one paying for things), thats fine and normal if you find a man who wants to do that too. others will tell you its wrong but it only is wrong if you expect all men to do that everywhere. just communicate and be understanding of one's salary, pretty simple

personally, i feel too bad when anyone pays for anything of mine, including my parents. id actually wish sometimes that id let people buy me things who offer, but it weighs on me heavily (especially a partner)
 
no i mean that makes perfect sense to you. if YOU want that out of a relationship (for him to be the one paying for things), thats fine and normal if you find a man who wants to do that too. others will tell you its wrong but it only is wrong if you expect all men to do that everywhere. just communicate and be understanding of one's salary, pretty simple
Yeah I get it I would still obviously have a job (you can’t really depend on a man for anything) but at the same time I would just expect him to offer to pay rather than actually just him doing everything idk if that makes sense
 
Oh hell nah

Bruh🫩come on Wdym financially 5050 what is this Cupid? Like help 💀
Okay, Im gonna rant a bit, you can dnr if you want.

If a person pays for you in all aspects of everything , it shows your inferiority towards them. Making enough money to support a family in 2025 is infinitely harder than whatever other things will be left to do. Think about who has paid for your things all the time. Your parents. Could they control you to some degree? Yes. Could they restrict you? Yes. Were you highly influenced by their beliefs? Yes. Were you dependent on them? Yes. All of those are true for an average white family (might be a bit different in other cultures, idk).
Now, think about who is giving you money as an adult. Your boss! Is he richer/more powerful than you? Yes, absolutely. Who are you loaning the money from? The banks. The banks can cuck the shit out of you and control your whole life.
Notice how every time that you get money from somebody else you are in some way less powerful and inferior to them. They have some control over you. Why? Because money = power. If you’re living off of a man’s money you must trust him fully or deal with the consequences of him abusing you/leaving/cheating, because if you split up, you’re pretty much broke and worthless.
Obviously there are plenty of cases where men pay for their wives and both of them die married and in love. However, in order to be one of those cases, you either need to be extremely lucky or/and extremely patient. And so what are you going to do before you will find the right one? Beg for money on the street? Live off of your parents? Again, that’s just my opinion and Im not forcing it on anybody.


Personally, I wanna date an individual. An individual with passion and desire to improve themselves, chase their dreams. This is almost always accompanied by pursuing a career because most passions have jobs related to them. I don’t wanna be “better” than my wife/gf. I want to be equal, I want to respect and understand each other. I don’t want us to have completely different lives, as it would inevitably lead towards multiple misunderstandings and mindset differences. I believe that by turning my wife into a home cleaner I will take away her desire and need for improvement. Again, some might not agree or like that but as I said, Id only date a person with passion and they would not want me to take away such a necessary part of their life (freedom, self-responsibility and goal achievements).

Again, that’s just my view on life and it’s not representative of anything.
 
i dont mean to come off as rude, i want to be polite. sometimes people think im triggered due to the way i respond but i rarely get offended on here. i just want to give insight and opinions or correct and help people
You’re not coming off as rude at all dw
 
Okay, Im gonna rant a bit, you can dnr if you want.

If a person pays for you in all aspects of everything , it shows your inferiority towards them. Making enough money to support a family in 2025 is infinitely harder than whatever other things will be left to do. Think about who has paid for your things all the time. Your parents. Could they control you to some degree? Yes. Could they restrict you? Yes. Were you highly influenced by their beliefs? Yes. Were you dependent on them? Yes. All of those are true for an average white family (might be a bit different in other cultures, idk).
Now, think about who is giving you money as an adult. Your boss! Is he richer/more powerful than you? Yes, absolutely. Who are you loaning the money from? The banks. The banks can cuck the shit out of you and control your whole life.
Notice how every time that you get money from somebody else you are in some way less powerful and inferior to them. They have some control over you. Why? Because money = power. If you’re living off of a man’s money you must trust him fully or deal with the consequences of him abusing you/leaving/cheating, because if you split up, you’re pretty much broke and worthless.
Obviously there are plenty of cases where men pay for their wives and both of them die married and in love. However, in order to be one of those cases, you either need to be extremely lucky or/and extremely patient. And so what are you going to do before you will find the right one? Beg for money on the street? Live off of your parents? Again, that’s just my opinion and Im not forcing it on anybody.


Personally, I wanna date an individual. An individual with passion and desire to improve themselves, chase their dreams. This is almost always accompanied by pursuing a career because most passions have jobs related to them. I don’t wanna be “better” than my wife/gf. I want to be equal, I want to respect and understand each other. I don’t want us to have completely different lives, as it would inevitably lead towards multiple misunderstandings and mindset differences. I believe that by turning my wife into a home cleaner I will take away her desire and need for improvement. Again, some might not agree or like that but as I said, Id only date a person with passion and they would not want me to take away such a necessary part of their life (freedom, self-responsibility and goal achievements).

Again, that’s just my view on life and it’s not representative of anything.
holy performative male
 
holy performative male
This isn’t even fucking performative, performative men want to pay and “respect” their wives. I want to be treated the same way Id treat her
 
This isn’t even fucking performative, performative men want to pay and “respect” their wives. I want to be treated the same way Id treat her
ye but it reads like it lowkey, next you’re gonna go on about how you read feminist literature
 
ye but it reads like it, next you’re gonna go on about how you read feminist literature
Not my fault that most men nowadays behave like lil monkeys and unless they send some weird big tits anime stepsis shit they’re seen as feminine or sum
 
Okay, Im gonna rant a bit, you can dnr if you want.

If a person pays for you in all aspects of everything , it shows your inferiority towards them. Making enough money to support a family in 2025 is infinitely harder than whatever other things will be left to do. Think about who has paid for your things all the time. Your parents. Could they control you to some degree? Yes. Could they restrict you? Yes. Were you highly influenced by their beliefs? Yes. Were you dependent on them? Yes. All of those are true for an average white family (might be a bit different in other cultures, idk).
Now, think about who is giving you money as an adult. Your boss! Is he richer/more powerful than you? Yes, absolutely. Who are you loaning the money from? The banks. The banks can cuck the shit out of you and control your whole life.
Notice how every time that you get money from somebody else you are in some way less powerful and inferior to them. They have some control over you. Why? Because money = power. If you’re living off of a man’s money you must trust him fully or deal with the consequences of him abusing you/leaving/cheating, because if you split up, you’re pretty much broke and worthless.
Obviously there are plenty of cases where men pay for their wives and both of them die married and in love. However, in order to be one of those cases, you either need to be extremely lucky or/and extremely patient. And so what are you going to do before you will find the right one? Beg for money on the street? Live off of your parents? Again, that’s just my opinion and Im not forcing it on anybody.


Personally, I wanna date an individual. An individual with passion and desire to improve themselves, chase their dreams. This is almost always accompanied by pursuing a career because most passions have jobs related to them. I don’t wanna be “better” than my wife/gf. I want to be equal, I want to respect and understand each other. I don’t want us to have completely different lives, as it would inevitably lead towards multiple misunderstandings and mindset differences. I believe that by turning my wife into a home cleaner I will take away her desire and need for improvement. Again, some might not agree or like that but as I said, Id only date a person with passion and they would not want me to take away such a necessary part of their life (freedom, self-responsibility and goal achievements).

Again, that’s just my view on life and it’s not representative of anything.
UUUHHH fine you win, but not even if I was like a rich housewife? Idk I just want to get married to a rich chaser and not have to work like a sugar baby! Basically, but whatever ig I should have a job too I can’t even baby trap him cuz I have to get a uterus transplant for that oof
 
UUUHHH fine you win, but not even if I was like a rich housewife? Idk I just want to get married to a rich chaser and not have to work like a sugar baby! Basically, but whatever ig I should have a job too I can’t even baby trap him cuz I have to get a uterus transplant for that oof
All I read is “you win”, mission completed
 
UUUHHH fine you win, but not even if I was like a rich housewife? Idk I just want to get married to a rich chaser and not have to work like a sugar baby! Basically, but whatever ig I should have a job too I can’t even baby trap him cuz I have to get a uterus transplant for that oof
But yeah ikwym tbh
 
But yeah ikwym tbh
Yk we live under the patriarchy men have the power it’s just fair they pay for everything I mean don’t get me wrong I don’t wanna be a flop I also wanna be a successful woman but at the same time I am not paying for no man…😵‍💫
 
Yk we live under the patriarchy men have the power it’s just fair they pay for everything I mean don’t get me wrong I don’t wanna be a flop I also wanna be a successful woman but at the same time I am not paying for no man…😵‍💫
Idk the exact definition of patriarchy, but the man aren’t controlling anything if you live in the west. Powerful and wealthy people take away your freedom but their gender is irrelevant. There are some restrictions but so are for men who can be forced to go fight in a war in plenty of countries
 
Idk the exact definition of patriarchy, but the man aren’t controlling anything if you live in the west. Powerful and wealthy people take away your freedom but their gender is irrelevant. There are some restrictions but so are for men who can be forced to go fight in a war in plenty of countries
And who build that system up?

Idk I just don’t want end up like my parents it’s never 50:50 for the woman maybe they both work and do the finances equally but taking care of the kids cooking cleaning etc is rarely done by the man
 

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