Okay, Im gonna rant a bit, you can dnr if you want.
If a person pays for you in all aspects of everything , it shows your inferiority towards them. Making enough money to support a family in 2025 is infinitely harder than whatever other things will be left to do. Think about who has paid for your things all the time. Your parents. Could they control you to some degree? Yes. Could they restrict you? Yes. Were you highly influenced by their beliefs? Yes. Were you dependent on them? Yes. All of those are true for an average white family (might be a bit different in other cultures, idk).
Now, think about who is giving you money as an adult. Your boss! Is he richer/more powerful than you? Yes, absolutely. Who are you loaning the money from? The banks. The banks can cuck the shit out of you and control your whole life.
Notice how every time that you get money from somebody else you are in some way less powerful and inferior to them. They have some control over you. Why? Because money = power. If you’re living off of a man’s money you must trust him fully or deal with the consequences of him abusing you/leaving/cheating, because if you split up, you’re pretty much broke and worthless.
Obviously there are plenty of cases where men pay for their wives and both of them die married and in love. However, in order to be one of those cases, you either need to be extremely lucky or/and extremely patient. And so what are you going to do before you will find the right one? Beg for money on the street? Live off of your parents? Again, that’s just my opinion and Im not forcing it on anybody.
Personally, I wanna date an individual. An individual with passion and desire to improve themselves, chase their dreams. This is almost always accompanied by pursuing a career because most passions have jobs related to them. I don’t wanna be “better” than my wife/gf. I want to be equal, I want to respect and understand each other. I don’t want us to have completely different lives, as it would inevitably lead towards multiple misunderstandings and mindset differences. I believe that by turning my wife into a home cleaner I will take away her desire and need for improvement. Again, some might not agree or like that but as I said, Id only date a person with passion and they would not want me to take away such a necessary part of their life (freedom, self-responsibility and goal achievements).
Again, that’s just my view on life and it’s not representative of anything.