Dry, thick and full hair. Need help!

[Alexnordic]

I dont like my hair at all, it is like a darker blonde thick dry hair, its kinda curly on the top which makes it have a lot of volume. I want it to be more straight, moisturized and less like the hair of a clown.i cant use shampoo or conditioners because it makes my hair so much more dryer and frizzy.What would you recommend for me?

 

[sigma]

put oil or special hair moisturizer (idk what its called) to help with the dryness

 

[Alexnordic]

put oil or special hair moisturizer (idk what its called) to help with the dryness

Mmm.. what kind of oil? Do i wash it of, and if so how long to i let it sink in?

 

[sigma]

Mmm.. what kind of oil? Do i wash it of, and if so how long to i let it sink in?

i used to use rosemary for my lashes bc they were medium, they grew and became thick and nice.
i would recommend ~2 hours and then wash, idk if you should leave it overnight bc it can touch your pillow