everytime I have a crush it takes over my entire life

[kittycorn3]

How the fuck are you supposed to know it a guy likes you

I met him a few months ago we’re close we have a bunch in common like interests and music taste he’s super cute and he has the best accent ever and I just really feel like I can be myself around him he’s also nd and I feel like he gets me in a way that a lot of people don’t seem to anyway

he has friends who say he likes me but I think I know him better than a lot of them (not to sound weird) since we have a lot more in common/talk more about stuff I feel like he genuinely might just see me as a close friend and feel comfortable talking to me and the reason he replies fast and stuff is again bc of that

they’re saying he became a better person after talking to me but again that doesn’t mean he wants me and could be for sm reasons

anyway he hasn’t done anything super obvious besides asking to hang out (we saw a movie yesterday) but he didn’t make any moves or anything. im the only person irl he let follow him on tiktok and today he sent me a kind of romantic tiktok edit but it could also be the song or something? but he has no experience with girls before this so idk if expecting him to be obvious if he does like me is crazy

Mentioning this cuz I know someone would say “if he likes you you’ll know” but I don’t and I can also be slow OR delusional at times

anyway I like him a lot and I’ve been thinking about that stupid edit all day god I’m a loser

I had a dream about him last night and a lot of nights and I can’t stop thinking about him im so cooked

Im not low inhib enough to just shoot my shot im getting mixed signals how do I know

 

[rcamg]

sorry i did this to u

 

[dent]

How the fuck are you supposed to know it a guy likes you

I met him a few months ago we’re close we have a bunch in common like interests and music taste he’s super cute and he has the best accent ever and I just really feel like I can be myself around him he’s also nd and I feel like he gets me in a way that a lot of people don’t seem to anyway

he has friends who say he likes me but I think I know him better than a lot of them (not to sound weird) since we have a lot more in common/talk more about stuff I feel like he genuinely might just see me as a close friend and feel comfortable talking to me and the reason he replies fast and stuff is again bc of that

they’re saying he became a better person after talking to me but again that doesn’t mean he wants me and could be for sm reasons

anyway he hasn’t done anything super obvious besides asking to hang out (we saw a movie yesterday) but he didn’t make any moves or anything. im the only person irl he let follow him on tiktok and today he sent me a kind of romantic tiktok edit but it could also be the song or something? but he has no experience with girls before this so idk if expecting him to be obvious if he does like me is crazy

Mentioning this cuz I know someone would say “if he likes you you’ll know” but I don’t and I can also be slow OR delusional at times

anyway I like him a lot and I’ve been thinking about that stupid edit all day god I’m a loser

I had a dream about him last night and a lot of nights and I can’t stop thinking about him im so cooked

Im not low inhib enough to just shoot my shot im getting mixed signals how do I know

break the surface barrier for him ask about rels and stuff and if he starts reciprocating then he wants you, and try to flirt with him a bit in a friendly way it never hurts and then youll have your answer (if your above mmtb he wants you 100%)

 

[copevictim]

Inb4 dnr

don’t make any super obvious moves but subtly hint
do things like sending those kind of edits back to him, teasing, compliments etc
hope it works out for you two!!

 

[kittycorn3]

sorry i did this to u

lowkey so scared that he’ll get on com and see my threads about him

 

[Recai]

not even a letter

 

[rcamg]

lowkey so scared that he’ll get on com and see my threads about him

im already here boyo

 

[Evilthinker21]

Sometimes my resemblance to clav and chico do this to women sorry

 

[kittycorn3]

break the surface barrier for him ask about rels and stuff and if he starts reciprocating then he wants you, and try to flirt with him a bit in a friendly way it never hurts and then youll have your answer (if your above mmtb he wants you 100%)

I remember when we were in a group ages ago he said he wouldn’t want a gf during hs because they’d prob break up before college

But then when we were talking alone (ik im an idiot) I told him I couldn’t imagine myself in a relationship bc I always mess it up or never find someone who matches me properly and he said “he thinks I’ll change my mind soon” Idk how to quote that properly but his friends were going crazy over that

apparently a lot of girls have liked him but he’s always ignored them which is crazy bc im not that pretty or anything so idk why he is taking this interest in me or even bothering to talk to me or he just wasn’t interested in that before

Apparently he also ghosts his friends a lot but he doesn’t do that to me

I def don’t deserve him idk but it’s so easy to get delusional here

What type of things can I say??? I’ve never properly flirted irl before it’s so cooked everytime we talk I just end up giggling like an idiot he does too but there’s not a lot of substance

 

[kittycorn3]

Sometimes my resemblance to clav and chico do this to women sorry

He kinda looks like Ezra miller

 

[kittycorn3]

not even a letter

What does that mean

 

[Recai]

What does that mean

it meanbs go talk to him instead of posting here and thinking about it thats low t

 

[dent]

I remember when we were in a group ages ago he said he wouldn’t want a gf during hs because they’d prob break up before college

But then when we were talking alone (ik im an idiot) I told him I couldn’t imagine myself in a relationship bc I always mess it up or never find someone who matches me properly and he said “he thinks I’ll change my mind soon” Idk how to quote that properly but his friends were going crazy over that

apparently a lot of girls have liked him but he’s always ignored them which is crazy bc im not that pretty or anything so idk why he is taking this interest in me or even bothering to talk to me or he just wasn’t interested in that before

Apparently he also ghosts his friends a lot but he doesn’t do that to me

I def don’t deserve him idk but it’s so easy to get delusional here

What type of things can I say??? I’ve never properly flirted irl before it’s so cooked everytime we talk I just end up giggling like an idiot he does too but there’s not a lot of substance

start flirting with him bro he wants you no doubts at all

 

[kittycorn3]

it meanbs go talk to him instead of posting here and thinking about it thats low t

I asked him to go to a code geass pop up with me and he said smt but I’ve been too scared to open the notif

 

[kittycorn3]

start flirting with him bro he wants you no doubts at all

I don’t know how to flirt

 

[dent]

I don’t know how to flirt

spork

 

[kittycorn3]

Im a stupid idiot a while ago I told him playing the long game was bad bc when they find out u didn’t rly wanna be friends they’ll just leave

TALKING ABOUT MYSELF EVEN BACK THEN IVE LIKED HIM THJS WHOLE TIME I JUST ALSO LOVE THIS GUY AS A FRIEND TOO IN EVERY WAY

I CANT lose him if he doesn’t like me

I signed a contract with his friends and mine that I’ll ask him out in 4 months

he’s so different from everyone in my real life

This is what he sent me an edit of I sent this back and this is how he makes me feel

 

[kittycorn3]

i keep teasing him about his accent and like some very Aussie words he uses

but I hope it’s coming off flirty

i really do RECKON im in love with him

i RECKON he’d turn you all JBG if you saw him smile just once

 

[Recai]

I asked him to go to a code geass pop up with me and he said smt but I’ve been too scared to open the notif

xe wants you bro just say you liked him for a long time you hav e 99% cha nce

 

[rand anon]

not even a letter

Y

 

[kittycorn3]

not even a letter

I didn’t get what u mean but I do be writing this guy letters

I even decorated it with lace and bows and shi bruh im so cooked it’s 4pm been thinking about him all day long

 

[Recai]

Y

i hate when people feel something positive

 

[Recai]

I didn’t get what u mean but I do be writing this guy letters

I even decorated it with lace and bows and shi bruh im so cooked it’s 4pm been thinking about him all day long

go talk to xim n***a

 

[rand anon]

i hate when people feel something positive

Y

 

[Recai]

Y

bexUse i cant mayne

 

[kittycorn3]

i hate when people feel something positive

if a loser like me can get a guy this awesome to give me some time of his day it’s never even over bro

I’m so high masking around everyone here and being with him feels better than going home after a long day idk how to word it

Idk some girls here might relate to this but I wore my hair natural for the first time in years yesterday I feel so safe like obviously im still insecure but he makes me want to stop wearing makeup and wear comfortable clothes and be open about my interests around him

If I hop off the forum just know i fell in love for real he might’ve fixed me

 

[rand anon]

if a loser like me can get a guy this awesome to give me some time of his day it’s never even over bro

I’m so high masking around everyone here and being with him feels better than going home after a long day idk how to word it

Idk some girls here might relate to this but I wore my hair natural for the first time in years yesterday I feel so safe like obviously im still insecure but he makes me want to stop wearing makeup and wear comfortable clothes and be open about my interests around him

If I hop off the forum just know i fell in love for real he might’ve fixed me

Jbw
Just
Be
Woman

 

[kittycorn3]

bexUse i cant mayne

ur next bro last year i thought all guys were evil and i would die before junior year u got this

 

[kittycorn3]

Jbw
Just
Be
Woman

yeah just be an South Indian woman with audhd and you’ll fall in love easily

 

[kittycorn3]

yeah just be an South Indian woman with audhd and you’ll fall in love easily

zero smv this is full luck

 

[rand anon]

yeah just be an South Indian woman with audhd and you’ll fall in love easily

Jbw
Just
Be
Woman

 

[kittycorn3]

love has made me invincible to rage bait

if i get this one im never letting him go

or ill just end it after