everytime i vent to a friend it gets used against me. either they make a joke or something like that and its just so humiliating. they will do it to make women laugh or for some other sick reason. i can never fully trust another person so i feel like i cant vent to them, but since i dont know anyone on this forum irl i can say whatever i want and it cant be used against me irl. personally i think this is the best method of venting, or just write in notes app.