Serious Friends, am I a naive for thinking like this?

[Transposon]

I've thought of this since I gained sentience, perhaps. You can be disingenuous and say you're just above this but we all know if you're present in this space you think about this to some extent... What should I do with the issue of modern dating? My childhood naive purity - 'I will find a woman I love, someday, and not have sex with her till marriage as God would want of me', clashes with the cold experiences I have in real life, and with those I have read, various times on such forums. True love in this sense seems to be the forgotten and outdated ritual, a remnant of a world that was shaped by religious individuals in power. Does my simple thinking have no place in today's world? Is 'love' in the unconditional manner we've grown to romanticize a mass hallucination, perhaps to keep us simple folks bound to monogamous pairings?
If you come at this from a giving advice angle I'd genuinely appreciate..

 

[Deleted Member 80486]

just be Chad, this automatically solves whatever issue you have

 

[Transposon]

tagging high IQ people ik of -
@slopslinger @ItzyaboyJJ! @BlendedBlade🧿 @Anxietypilled@Randomized Shame @TonyDr @tuberculosisinmybal @EthiopianMaxxer @milkjar @Tumor @RRM @Mandy? @Rau Le Creuset @twinkdestroyer @dipenhydramine @drchad @Wilk @apatheia @NewFuckingDay @Knight @97baHater @kifykify @AuggyDauggy @JeezyTheSnowman

 

[Mandy?]

I simply don’t think a piece of paper is supposed to decide if you’re allowed to have sexual intercourse or not. Unfortunately,society is corrupt and no one cares about first bonding with a person before pulling their pants down.

 

[Transposon]

you can't be serious for the life of u bruh

just be Chad, this automatically solves whatever issue you have

 

[slopslinger]

you'll find someone eventually, some people get divorced and remarry several times before they figure it out.

 

[Transposon]

I simply don’t think a piece of paper is supposed to decide if you’re allowed to have sexual intercourse or not. Unfortunately,society is corrupt and no one cares about first bonding with a person before pulling their pants down.

Yeah I can get behind what you're saying. I was thinking about this exact point of contention myself. But the issue still remains. The tug and pull of selective traditionalism with ever increasing demands in terms of personal liberty has honestly been disastrous if we're talking about monogamous relationships. Divorce is a joke now

 

[Transposon]

you'll find someone eventually, some people get divorced and remarry several times before they figure it out.

Do you think 'love' in the abstract form truly exists? The fact that you can have a soulmate.

 

[Deleted Member 61421]

yes it does i hate unhopeful thinkers

 

[Transposon]

yes it does i hate unhopeful thinkers

Could you elaborate what you wanna convey?

 

[Deleted Member 61421]

Could you elaborate what you wanna convey?

No rn im retarded

 

[slopslinger]

Do you think 'love' in the abstract form truly exists? The fact that you can have a soulmate.

yeah but good luck finding her. that's always been 1 in a million even before modernity destroyed everyones ability to pair bond.

 

[Transposon]

yeah but good luck finding her. that's always been 1 in a million even before modernity destroyed everyones ability to pair bond.

I'd love to hear what you think about this. Thanks for what you've said so far.

 

[kifykify]

True love is way too rare for us, so I'll just statusmaxx by becoming famous in some way.
That way, I would be happy with myself and women will be a lower priority. I will eventually be back to thinking of finding "the right woman", but I'll be way more occupied and have more opportunities

 

[kifykify]

Do you think 'love' in the abstract form truly exists? The fact that you can have a soulmate.

I do

 

[Mandy?]

Yeah I can get behind what you're saying. I was thinking about this exact point of contention myself. But the issue still remains. The tug and pull of selective traditionalism with ever increasing demands in terms of personal liberty has honestly been disastrous if we're talking about monogamous relationships. Divorce is a joke now

It is at this point. And I don’t blame people’s actions that have led to this rather than population density,it’s everywhere. When I believe how a couple should be,like 2 birds flying around in the sky. But what happens when that sky is overrun by a flock of birds? Social media,social common ideas have destroyed and narrowed down personal prefrence to the point where we find only one thing attractive to us like robots. It’s not that there aren’t any good people left,it’s just that the crowd has conditioned them to follow them. I don’t know if you get the point,but hopefully it makes sense.

 

[Methodical]

Unlike a lot of people, I actually struggled a lot with dating, and I've been rejected and hurt many times. (Not politely declined, I've been brutalized.) I still found my relationship eventually, and I would say it was all worth it.

In regards of love, I do think it's possible. Everyone who's in a relationship will say that they've "found the one" and that "it's true love", so I could talk about my personal experiences but it would just be another meaningless anecdote to you.

No sex before marriage is just a hard sell; on yourself as well, not just for the other person. In theory you could achieve this, but it only works if the person or people involved are virgins. If you went to more religious places like a church often or even joined a more "serious" church like LSD (Mormons). Most casual Christians would not be able to go 6 months+ or even years not being physically intimate with their partner. It's why Mormons normally marry early.

 

[Deleted Member 80486]

you can't be serious for the life of u bruh

I was joking but it's partly true, 90% of your problems would be automatically solved if you were chad

 

[Jeezy]

I've thought of this since I gained sentience, perhaps. You can be disingenuous and say you're just above this but we all know if you're present in this space you think about this to some extent... What should I do with the issue of modern dating? My childhood naive purity - 'I will find a woman I love, someday, and not have sex with her till marriage as God would want of me', clashes with the cold experiences I have in real life, and with those I have read, various times on such forums. True love in this sense seems to be the forgotten and outdated ritual, a remnant of a world that was shaped by religious individuals in power. Does my simple thinking have no place in today's world? Is 'love' in the unconditional manner we've grown to romanticize a mass hallucination, perhaps to keep us simple folks bound to monogamous pairings?
If you come at this from a giving advice angle I'd genuinely appreciate..

Hey bhai! Look who has the green badge!

 

[Mandy?]

One day most people will settle down and be happy with who they end up being. It’s not something to think about,it’s a long and hard search or merely just a chance that will come sometime.

 

[Jeezy]

you can't be serious for the life of u bruh

Life begins at True Adam anyways

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

social media fucked up all types of relationships, the love like 50 years ago doesn't really exist.

if u want to chase it keep it going but i don't see the benefit in it tbh

 

[Cuckㅤ]

Stay true to your values, but be open to this 'shit' reality, look for someone who genuinely shares your outlooks instead of trying to fit into what's common today. Patience and honesty will serve you better then some bullshit compromise.
It will be unexpected when it comes around, don't throw your chances away when it happens because you got used to compromise.

 

[Transposon]

It is at this point. And I don’t blame people’s actions that have led to this rather than population density,it’s everywhere. When I believe how a couple should be,like 2 birds flying around in the sky. But what happens when that sky is overrun by a flock of birds? Social media,social common ideas have destroyed and narrowed down personal prefrence to the point where we find only one thing attractive to us like robots. It’s not that there aren’t any good people left,it’s just that the crowd has conditioned them to follow them. I don’t know if you get the point,but hopefully it makes sense.

Naw I get you completely. The problem really was the damn phone

 

[Dawn]

NlGGA.

 

[Deleted Member 71100]

I've thought of this since I gained sentience, perhaps. You can be disingenuous and say you're just above this but we all know if you're present in this space you think about this to some extent... What should I do with the issue of modern dating? My childhood naive purity - 'I will find a woman I love, someday, and not have sex with her till marriage as God would want of me', clashes with the cold experiences I have in real life, and with those I have read, various times on such forums. True love in this sense seems to be the forgotten and outdated ritual, a remnant of a world that was shaped by religious individuals in power. Does my simple thinking have no place in today's world? Is 'love' in the unconditional manner we've grown to romanticize a mass hallucination, perhaps to keep us simple folks bound to monogamous pairings?
If you come at this from a giving advice angle I'd genuinely appreciate..

TLDR pls

 

[Transposon]

Unlike a lot of people, I actually struggled a lot with dating, and I've been rejected and hurt many times. (Not politely declined, I've been brutalized.) I still found my relationship eventually, and I would say it was all worth it.

In regards of love, I do think it's possible. Everyone who's in a relationship will say that they've "found the one" and that "it's true love", so I could talk about my personal experiences but it would just be another meaningless anecdote to you.

No sex before marriage is just a hard sell; on yourself as well, not just for the other person. In theory you could achieve this, but it only works if the person or people involved are virgins. If you went to more religious places like a church often or even joined a more "serious" church like LSD (Mormons). Most casual Christians would not be able to go 6 months+ or even years not being physically intimate with their partner. It's why Mormons normally marry early.

Yeah I totally understand the last point, Ik it's a tough sell but I think there may be some value in it. Especially today. Btw I'd be happy to hear you talk about your personal experiences. That's partly why I think love is a weird concept for me too. I wanna believe in it. If you were perhaps, due to whatever small change paired with another woman, at least somewhat equally compatible like your current partner. Then you too would have believed that 'she' was the one made for you by the heavens. I don't wanna believe it's all chance either and we masquerade our initial sexual attraction to the point of maintaining a LTR.

 

[Mandy?]

Naw I get you completely. The problem really was the damn phone

I made a thread about this now,hopefully you’ll like it.

 

[Transposon]

Stay true to your values, but be open to this 'shit' reality, look for someone who genuinely shares your outlooks instead of trying to fit into what's common today. Patience and honesty will serve you better then some bullshit compromise.
It will be unexpected when it comes around, don't throw your chances away when it happens because you got used to compromise.

Wow, that's really well put.. I will think about this. Thank you!

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

you’re on the right side bro, even if your future girl isn’t a virgin you’re doing it for god anyways not for her.

 

[Transposon]

you’re on the right side bro, even if your future girl isn’t a virgin

Caged.

 

[A1AD3H]

I've thought of this since I gained sentience, perhaps. You can be disingenuous and say you're just above this but we all know if you're present in this space you think about this to some extent... What should I do with the issue of modern dating? My childhood naive purity - 'I will find a woman I love, someday, and not have sex with her till marriage as God would want of me', clashes with the cold experiences I have in real life, and with those I have read, various times on such forums. True love in this sense seems to be the forgotten and outdated ritual, a remnant of a world that was shaped by religious individuals in power. Does my simple thinking have no place in today's world? Is 'love' in the unconditional manner we've grown to romanticize a mass hallucination, perhaps to keep us simple folks bound to monogamous pairings?
If you come at this from a giving advice angle I'd genuinely appreciate..

Honestly I don't believe in true love it's just your hormones telling you to fuck

 

[Transposon]

TLDR pls

Is there a place for a soulmate, who you'd wanna stay a virgin for and she for you, in the modern day?

 

[Cuckㅤ]

Caged.

I think your ideology for virgin meets virgin is ideal.
But i think that shouldn't be the only thing on your mind given it's just lustfully thinking to a point.

 

[Transposon]

I think your ideology for virgin meets virgin is ideal.
But i think that shouldn't be the only thing on your mind given it's just lustfully thinking to a point.

Could you elaborate? I am not sure I understand the last sentence.

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Caged.

you’re a follower of god lol not a follower of her, you’ll never know if she’s a virgin or not anyways.

 

[Transposon]

you’re a follower of god lol not a follower of her, you’ll never know if she’s a virgin or not anyways.

n***a you legit were on about on discord that day, 'I fucked a girl when I was 18' or sum arent u Achilles on discord

 

[Transposon]

Life begins at True Adam anyways

Would love to hear your opinion btw.

 

[Jeezy]

Would love to hear your opinion btw.

Let me think on it boss!

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

n***a you legit were on about on discord that day, 'I fucked a girl when I was 18' or sum arent u Achilles on discord

Yah, how is that related ? I found out on accident, do you think all girls bleed on their first time ? It’s different jfl

 

[Transposon]

Honestly I don't believe in true love it's just your hormones telling you to fuck

Brutal

 

[Cuckㅤ]

Could you elaborate? I am not sure I understand the last sentence.

I get that your idea of virgin meets virgin is ideal and i agree, but I think it shouldn’t be the only thing you focus on, otherwise it starts feeling more like lust than love.

 

[Transposon]

Yah, how is that related ? I found out on accident, do you think all girls bleed on their first time ? It’s different jfl

You tellin me im on the right side boss but ur not virgin urself. I think that's mighty related

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

You tellin me im on the right side boss but ur not virgin urself. I think that's mighty related

Is me doing a mistake means that I can’t say what’s right ? I thought I was gonna marry this girl but it didn’t work out later on. You faggots are so retarded you’ll not be hearing anything personal from me anymore

 

[Transposon]

I get that your idea of virgin meets virgin is ideal and i agree, but I think it shouldn’t be the only thing you focus on, otherwise it starts feeling more like lust than love.

Oh yeah I am fully with you on that one. I wouldn't say it's a rule set in stone for me. On the contrary, I am at that stage in my life where I am making sense of what my ideals should be. I think personal character matters much more than checkboxes you can tick off. If she was indeed with another person was it unserious or did she go into that relationship too with a long term mindset? Is she just promiscuous or not is at the heart of it I think. Besides that I think character triumphs all. I think that as of now, anyways..

 

[Jeezy]

Yah, how is that related ? I found out on accident, do you think all girls bleed on their first time ? It’s different jfl

Fakecel?

 

[Jeezy]

Oh yeah I am fully with you on that one. I wouldn't say it's a rule set in stone for me. On the contrary, I am at that stage in my life where I am making sense of what my ideals should be. I think personal character matters much more than checkboxes you can tick off. If she was indeed with another person was it unserious or did she go into that relationship too with a long term mindset? Is she just promiscuous or not is at the heart of it I think. Besides that I think character triumphs all. I think that as of now, anyways.

I don't want a virgin anymore I want an experienced hot milf

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Fakecel?

Yah

 

[Transposon]

Is me doing a mistake means that I can’t say what’s right ? I thought I was gonna marry this girl but it didn’t work out later on. You faggots are so retarded you’ll not be hearing anything personal from me anymore

I was jus tryna understand the situation bro no need to get angry

 

[Jeezy]

I was jus tryna understand the situation bro no need to get angry

Don't debate with fakecels