Discussion Girls ignore you because of the physique?

[Cartman1]

Im trying to look better, I don't make troubles, I'm quiet, shy and I speak little and low, but it's my physique the problem or what? They can detect if you're ND and it's that? I don't understand what is the problem, I'm a good person but I can't get a girl, just friends at much, sometimes even nothing.

 

[Cartman1]

I have photos on others threads, but I can submit more here, but idk if itt my physique or what

 

[rand anon]

on't make troubles, I'm quiet, shy and I speak little and low

Poon repellent unfortunately, unless u hve other traits to compensate ofc

 

[Cartman1]

Poon repellent unfortunately, unless u hve other traits to compensate ofc

Why? I just want to be a good person, not destroy and annoying, why is that bad? And what traits help?

 

[Br4va]

Bring nd isn’t something you just detect

 

[rand anon]

Bring nd isn’t something you just detect

It becomes kinda obvious in convos though

 

[Br4va]

It becomes kinda obvious in convos though

Well of course

But not everyone gets to know someone that easily and well

 

[rand anon]

Why? I just want to be a good person, not destroy and annoying, why is that bad?

From what I’ve learned over the yrs, being good, bad, quiet, don’t rly hve an effect on attracting women. It’s all about whether ur NT and low inhib. All those other characteristics only matter for a relationship

And what traits help?

Like compensating traits? Looks, social status, money

 

[Cartman1]

Bring nd isn’t something you just detect

It's more because of the stare and speak, that and behavior, it's very obvious, but it depends on the person how much time you spend with that person

 

[rand anon]

Well of course

But not everyone gets to know someone that easily and well

I don’t just mean deep convos though, like if someone’s nd, u can usually tell even if ur just chitchatting

 

[Cartman1]

From what I’ve learned over the yrs, being good, bad, quiet, don’t rly hve an effect on attracting women. It’s all about whether ur NT and low inhib. All those other characteristics only matter for a relationship

Like compensating traits? Looks, social status, money

Well, idk how about money because I only study, but the problem is more the social status because I don't talk too much and have too many friends, idk if looks can help, or just drink alcohol or taking anything to low the inhibition and act like a NT, it can be exhausting but seems better than have no social life

 

[Br4va]

I don’t just mean deep convos though, like if someone’s nd, u can usually tell even if ur just chitchatting

Yea not everyone gets to even have a quick chit chat with tou

He was explaining it like you can tell from seeing you walk down the street