Got into a fight w my mom

[Aryy]

she keeps talking about adopting a baby (im probably gonna move out in 2027)

he may not even know me fully idk
i dont want one, im an only child i only have a cousin sister that lives close

 

[Currycelloser]

she keeps talking about adopting a baby (im probably gonna move out in 2027)

I have never seen an indian mother talk about 'adopting'

 

[Aryy]

I have never seen an indian mother talk about 'adopting'

yeah but my parents are divorced ig idk

 

[Currycelloser]

yeah but my parents are divorced ig idk

damn, thats so sad

 

[Anna]

fuck that for a laugh

how old will ur mum be in 2027?

 

[Aryy]

fuck that for a laugh

how old will ur mum be in 2027?

45

 

[TonyDr]

she keeps talking about adopting a baby (im probably gonna move out in 2027)

he may not even know me fully idk
i dont want one, im an only child i only have a cousin sister that lives close

Random side quest

Why are you against her adopting and what's her age

 

[chudlite67]

she keeps talking about adopting a baby (im probably gonna move out in 2027)

he may not even know me fully idk
i dont want one, im an only child i only have a cousin sister that lives close

maybe shes upset youre leaving

 

[Aryy]

damn, thats so sad

yeah idk what to do ig she wont be alone if we adopt a child

 

[Aryy]

Random side quest

Why are you against her adopting and what's her age

she is 43 rn
im just upset i feel like i will move out then the child will live with her and she may love him more
and the child wont even know me

 

[Currycelloser]

she is 43 rn
im just upset i feel like i will move out then the child will live with her and she may love him more
and the child wont even know me

man but I cant imagine, u are only like 16, witnessing ur parents divorcing is so sad honestly

 

[Aryy]

man but I cant imagine, u are only like 16, witnessing ur parents divorcing is so sad honestly

they divorced when i was 9 tbh

 

[Insomnia]

Remind her to take her pills

 

[Anna]

45

quite young tbf

 

[TonyDr]

she is 43 rn
im just upset i feel like i will move out then the child will live with her and she may love him more
and the child wont even know me

She prob wanted to have multiple kids so she will satisfy her mother instinct by adopting one. Tbh i would let her satisfy this instinct or she will be resentful to herself.

If you move-out you'll have to focus on YOUR life and build your life and future.

A +15years age gap will always create a weird sister/brother relationship but it can be positive even later in life

 

[Aryy]

A +15years age gap will always create a weird sister/brother relationship but it can be positive even later in life

thats also what i worry about
plus if i move out when hes 2 i would barely get to know him

Tbh i would let her satisfy this instinct or she will be resentful to herself.

true she always wanted 2 children, and she would feel less lonely when i move out

but im used to being an only child tbh idk how it will be

 

[misclick]

Got into a fight w my mom​

why

 

[Aryy]

she keeps talking about adopting a baby (im probably gonna move out in 2027)

he may not even know me fully idk
i dont want one, im an only child i only have a cousin sister that lives close

why

 

[misclick]

i tried to be funny sorry ary

 

[Aryy]

i tried to be funny sorry ary

i didnt mean to stay this long · From

 

[TonyDr]

thats also what i worry about
plus if i move out when hes 2 i would barely get to know him

It will not stop you to spend time with him later in life. Plus now there phones, facetime etc, always a solution to pair bond

but im used to being an only child tbh idk how it will be

Yeah it's just an ego/jealousy thing so. When you'll move out, you'll prob need your mom far less so

 

[Aryy]

It will not stop you to spend time with him later in life. Plus now there phones, facetime etc, always a solution to pair bond

Yeah it's just an ego/jealousy thing so. When you'll move out, you'll prob need your mom far less so

yeah i dont know what to do im jealous

 

[TonyDr]

yeah i dont know what to do im jealous

Don't be jealous tho, unless your mom is retarded, she will always loves you.

Adopting is cool imo, meaning a kid is gonna have a better life than what he was originally destined to

 

[Polyphemus]

I will adopt a child for u

 

[Aryy]

Don't be jealous tho, unless your mom is retarded, she will always loves you.

Adopting is cool imo, meaning a kid is gonna have a better life than what he was originally destined to

but she might love him more yk he will be younger too

 

[Nenestar]

i can adopt you

 

[Cougars]

Why are you against getting another sibling? You're moving out in a year.

 

[Aryy]

Why are you against getting another sibling? You're moving out in a year.

jealousy+ i wont really get to know my sibling since i will move out and idk how a 16 year age gap will work out

 

[TonyDr]

but she might love him more yk he will be younger too

At some point you'll have to build your life without your mom's love

 

[Aryy]

At some point you'll have to build your life without your mom's love

dont you miss it

 

[TonyDr]

dont you miss it

Every day
But i've to do my life without her, like, i have no other choices

 

[Aryy]

Every day
But i've to do my life without her, like, i have no other choices

sadly its life

cant imagine being the parent yourself

 

[TonyDr]

cant imagine being the parent yourself

I want to have kids so i'll be the parent myself at some point

 

[Aryy]

I want to have kids so i'll be the parent myself at some point

idk what it will feel like

like you were always a kid but then one day you need to be the parent for someone else

its probably good but no one will take care of you how your parents did

 

[TonyDr]

idk what it will feel like

like you were always a kid but then one day you need to be the parent for someone else

I think it's easier to me because i'm older and independent, that and the instinct to be a father
You're young and still with your parents so i haven't prepared yourself

its probably good but no one will take care of you how your parents did

We were kids, we are adults now
But it happens that Ms.tony can be very lovely dovely and it's enjoyable sometimes

 

[Aryy]

I think it's easier to me because i'm older and independent, that and the instinct to be a father
You're young and still with your parents so i haven't prepared yourself

true

We were kids, we are adults now
But it happens that Ms.tony can be very lovely dovely and it's enjoyable sometimes

yeah thats sweet
i just dont know yet