has anyone else ever felt a strong connection to someone only by looking at them?

[Nenestar]

i can only name two people like that. there was just something about them that was very intriguing to me. both were a bit shy and didn't really seem to belong to the group they were in. both seemed "hyper-observant" - not to be confused with hypervigilance. i don't know why i remember them so clearly; it felt like i "understood them" without ever talking to them. or i did talk to one of them (after this felt feeling) and there was a clear connection (i maybe could have dated her, but i had to move).

and no, they weren't just "good-looking" i'd say both were average in terms of looks

 

[Deleted Member 120131]

Yes, whenever I see a foid who has wife tendencies I get very attracted to her

 

[loox]

 

[BrazilianKen]

Any girl that pays attention to me for 2 seconds

 

[scotfield]

i can only name two people like that. there was just something about them that was very intriguing to me. both were a bit shy and didn't really seem to belong to the group they were in. both seemed "hyper-observant" - not to be confused with hypervigilance. i don't know why i remember them so clearly; it felt like i "understood them" without ever talking to them. or i did talk to one of them (after this felt feeling) and there was a clear connection (i maybe could have dated her, but i had to move).

and no, they weren't just "good-looking" i'd say both were average in terms of looks

Yeah but only 1 time

 

[paulyune]

i can only name two people like that. there was just something about them that was very intriguing to me. both were a bit shy and didn't really seem to belong to the group they were in. both seemed "hyper-observant" - not to be confused with hypervigilance. i don't know why i remember them so clearly; it felt like i "understood them" without ever talking to them. or i did talk to one of them (after this felt feeling) and there was a clear connection (i maybe could have dated her, but i had to move).

and no, they weren't just "good-looking" i'd say both were average in terms of looks

ya

 

[Aryy]

i can only name two people like that. there was just something about them that was very intriguing to me. both were a bit shy and didn't really seem to belong to the group they were in. both seemed "hyper-observant" - not to be confused with hypervigilance. i don't know why i remember them so clearly; it felt like i "understood them" without ever talking to them. or i did talk to one of them (after this felt feeling) and there was a clear connection (i maybe could have dated her, but i had to move).

and no, they weren't just "good-looking" i'd say both were average in terms of looks

yeah
i dont know what it is
but romantic feelings just from looks but they arent considered good looking just average

 

[scotfield]

ya

bpi ?

 

[paulyune]

bpi ?

no not at all

 

[Nenestar]

Yeah but only 1 time

what happened to him?

 

[jest]

yes my ex

 

[Nenestar]

yeah
i dont know what it is
but romantic feelings just from looks but they arent considered good looking just average

yeah, it's weird

for me i think it felt like they saw the world the same way i did. [pseudorant] -> maybe it has something to do with mirror neurons and if someone is very similar they just mimic your normal state and you feel more connected.

but i don't know

 

[PeoplePleaser]

Unhealthy, most of the time it's a fantasy drawn out in your mind but there's a possibility once you get to know them it's just not what you expected.

 

[scotfield]

what happened to him?

i don’t know, i moved to another area and i didn’t really have any way to stay in contact

 

[scotfield]

once you get to know them it's just not what you expected.

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