How are below average Asian women able to snag a white guy no matter what, but practically impossible for Asian men to snag any women?!?!

[933127]

When it comes to interracial relationships AFWM seems to be the most common. The Asian female typically are below average or average looking. Most of them will snag weird looking white males who are either anime nerds or were unable to snag a white woman. However on occasion you will see a below average or average looking Asian woman snag a white male who is way out of her league looks wise/aesthetics wise. This mystifies me.

Asian men who are short, and have the stereotypical c***k look (slanted eyes, buck teeth, flat face), it’s pretty much a death sentence in the dating market. For Asian women who have those stereotypical features they can still snag a white guy. For Asian men to have even a small chance of dating anything, they need to be whitewashed, be tall, and K-pop their features.



The illustration perfectly portrays my point. The guy is clearly an 8/10 in looks. The Asian women he is engaged to clearly does not match up to him in the looks department. The deviation in aesthetics is way too striking. She has a flat face, flat button nose, oddly shaped eyes, chubby body and face with lack of defined facial features. An asian male who looks like that would have no chance at mating with anything other than his own pillow.



How are even below or average looking Asian women able to still have success not just in interracial dating but dating in general?!?!?!?

 

[RRM]

dnr its self explanatory

 

[sjnny404]

I actually dont know tbh. Its not that WMAF couples are weird inherently. But i notice a larger ratio of non-looksmatched couples with WMAF than other pairings, anecdotally. Either the guy is chopped and living in SEA with an attractive asian woman, or its a couple in a 1st world country where the guy is fine but the girl isnt as nice looking. It might just be that those couples are brought up online more often than other couples.

 

[933127]

dnr its self explanatory

Please elaborate and share the self explanatory answer

 

[RRM]

Please elaborate and share the self explanatory answer

males would do anything to get a female no matter how ugly she is but a female wouldn't

 

[933127]

I actually dont know tbh. Its not that WMAF couples are weird inherently. But i notice a larger ratio of non-looksmatched couples with WMAF than other pairings, anecdotally. Either the guy is chopped and living in SEA with an attractive asian woman, or its a couple in a 1st world country where the guy is fine but the girl isnt as nice looking. It might just be that those couples are brought up online more often than other couples.

Yeah that's the mystifying part of it. The WMAF couples most of the time are not looksmatched at all. So much deviation in aesthetics.

 

[933127]

males would do anything to get a female no matter how ugly she is but a female wouldn't

So for females the male has to be either looksmatched with her or better, right?

 

[sjnny404]

I have a friend who likes asians, latinas, whites, etc. But with asians specifically he is still attracted to someone who is maybe 4/10+ whereas with other races hed usually only get attracted if theyre, say, 6/10+. Idk. Maybe its because asian porn is big in western countries that even "less attractive" asian women have above average appeal

 

[RRM]

So for females the male has to be either looksmatched with her or better, right?

not even looksmatched if he's not better she'll never date him unless he's rich or has something she wants

 

[sjnny404]

males would do anything to get a female no matter how ugly she is but a female wouldn't

Nah but thats not it, because white men have more options than other races (just statistically via dating app data). If "males would do anything for a female" were the reason here, youd see an equal ratio of non-looksmatched couples of all racial pairings. But it's specifically WMAF that is incredibly not looksmatched. So it's not an option issue

 

[RRM]

Nah but thats not it, because white men have more options than other races (just statistically via dating app data). If "males would do anything for a female" were the reason here, youd see an equal ratio of non-looksmatched couples of all racial pairings. But it's specifically WMAF that is inctedibly not looksmatched. So it's not an option issue

any female ever > white men > other race men

 

[sjnny404]

any female ever > white men > other race men

But. Youd have to argue that if this were the main reason, then the non-looksmatched couples would be mostly of men of "less desirable" races and very chopped women, because these men would have the least options and would be more likely to settle for a less attractive woman. But thats not the case here. You have anywhere between a slightly below average to somewhat above average white guy (who has the best chance in dating, statistically) with a not as gl asian woman, and it seems more prevalent with this specific racial pairing. Its understandably confusing. Hell ive talked to asian women who also found it weird

 

[RRM]

But. Youd have to argue that if this were the main reason, then the non-looksmatched couples would be mostly of men of "less desirable" races and very chopped women, because these men would have the least options and would be more likely to settle for a less attractive woman. But thats not the case here. You have anywhere between a slightly below average to somewhat above average white guy with a not as gl asian woman, and it seems more prevalent with this specific racial pairing. Its understandably confusing. Hell ive talked to asian women who also found it weird

this has nothing to do with what I said

 

[karlsolvieg]

It's because male-female relationships are unbalanced, the sexual marketplace favors women, they have plenty of options, so men end up competing with each other, and some are forced to lower their standards. So average good looking women ( whatever the race ) > white men > others

 

[ricecelthegoat]

I think this is only in certain cases when the dating market becomes so inflated that white guys have to settle for girls who have lower smv than them. Im in high school and this shit litearlly does not happen at all, as in gl white guys mostly date gl white girls, or if theyre asian theyre still very good looking.

As an asian myself, i havent had the worst experience dating by far but im no chad either. I think it has to be a result of the hyperinflated dating market because if you look at the white guy/asian girl couple, you can tell theyre def not in hs or college, most likely in their 30s. i

 

[TheLich]

Some countries have an extremely high population deficit due to favoring sons, and in general the dating market in East Asia is heavily overinflated, because the culture makes it extremely difficult to navigate social situations even for people native to the country who are fairly NT so this means many men who are local will be extremely desperate and make the situation even worse once they start competing for someone.
Plus I've seen a lot of western and especially white men that really prefer women from other countries by default so they'll settle for less since her being foreign will likely make up some of the attraction, and they assume she'll be more of whatever they want that they cannot find where they are from.

 

[sjnny404]

Some countries have an extremely high population deficit due to favoring sons, and in general the dating market in East Asia is heavily overinflated, because the culture makes it extremely difficult to navigate social situations even for people native to the country who are fairly NT so this means many men who are local will be extremely desperate and make the situation even worse once they start competing for someone.
Plus I've seen a lot of western and especially white men that really prefer women from other countries by default so they'll settle for less since her being foreign will likely make up some of the attraction, and they assume she'll be more of whatever they want that they cannot find where they are from.

This id agree with. I havent really seen any non looksmatched WMAF couples where both were from the same western culture. Id reckon that the foreign asian culture is somehow appealing for the white men

 

[sjnny404]

this has nothing to do with what I said

What did you say, and how was what i said irrelevant?

 

[rand anon]

How are even below or average looking Asian women able to still have success not just in interracial dating but dating in general?!?!?!?

cause they, quite literally, worship huWhite men. No other race of women gives them that level of treatment

 

[sjnny404]

cause they, quite literally, worship huWhite men. No other race of women gives them that level of treatment

Do they really? Im from east asia. Women strongly prefer dating within their own race. They consider white men as a backup and other races aren't even considered, typically. The WMAF couples i have seen where the woman was less attractive was where the woman was from asia but they were assimilated into the west at a young age. So they still have their OG cultural characteristics but broke out of that preference for same ethnicity pairing.

WMAF couples where the woman was born in the west are more looksmatched than not, imo.

 

[sjnny404]

I dont even mean to insinuate that white men are weird for liking the foreign influence. Some people prefer that kind of dynamic, and that's fine. It's only weird when that becomes a superior/inferior thing that's driven more by idolization and control.

 

[repented]

Nothing even matters.

 

[TheLich]

Nothing even matters.

Real

 

[rand anon]

Do they really? Im from east asia. Women strongly prefer dating within their own race. They consider white men as a backup and other races aren't even considered, typically. The WMAF couples i have seen where the woman was less attractive was where the woman was from asia but they were assimilated into the west at a young age. So they still have their OG cultural characteristics but broke out of that preference for same ethnicity pairing.

Well I’m referring to WMAF in the west, cause it’s mostly irrelevant in east Asia as it isn’t a “melting pot” country

 

[rand anon]

cause they, quite literally, worship huWhite men. No other race of women gives them that level of treatment

@galaxygirl thoughts? This is just what I saw growing up around WMAF couples in the Bay Area

 

[galaxygirl]

@galaxygirl thoughts? This is just what I saw growing up around WMAF couples in the Bay Area

yeah i def also saw this happen esp in the bay area with so many asian concentrated in one place. and in fact white people actually began becoming a commodity since there were so many asians around that they actually began to outnumber whites

 

[rand anon]

yeah i def also saw this happen esp in the bay area with so many asian concentrated in one place. and in fact white people actually began becoming a commodity since there were so many asians around that they actually began to outnumber whites

Man it’s crazy the number of Lus I grew up with. Tons of ethnic girls had white fetishes but it was always Asian women that I saw take it to another level. Like I’d always hear them say cra shit like they’d never date an Asian guy cause they look like their brothers, stuff like that.

This was like in the 2000s and early 2010s, it kinda died out by the time I got to hs but I feel like late zoomers and gen alpha are bringing it back with the whole oxford study thing

 

[sjnny404]

Well I’m referring to WMAF in the west, cause it’s mostly irrelevant in east Asia as it isn’t a “melting pot” country

Gotcha. I think Asians in the west subconsciously draw in "white" influence via media. White men and women are usually the protagonists of any movie or tv series they watch in mainstream. Usually asians are the nerdy sidekicks (typically guys). And Asian women are portrayed as exotic and submissive. I think in any case, this kind of media portrayal influences greater pairings of WMAF couples. I just can't explain the non-looksmatchedness.

 

[rand anon]

Gotcha. I think Asians in the west subconsciously draw in "white" influence via media. White men and women are usually the protagonists of any movie or tv series they watch in mainstream. Usually asians are the nerdy sidekicks (typically guys). And Asian women are portrayed as exotic and submissive. I think in any case, this kind of media portrayal influences greater pairings of WMAF couples. I just can't explain the non-looksmatchedness.

Oh definitely lol, jooish media propaganda fucked over Asian guys hard in the west. Luckily east asian media swept in with kpop and single handedly saved East Asian guys from total smv annihilation

 

[sjnny404]

Oh definitely lol, jooish media propaganda fucked over Asian guys hard in the west. Luckily east asian media swept in with kpop and single handedly saved East Asian guys from total smv annihilation

Eeugh. Man. I lowkey hate kpop. It's like endless thirstraps but made into a music video format. The number of bulge grabs. The hair slick back. The sideways stare with the inhale and exhale of their chest visible. It's like getting licked all over your body by a non member of the preferred sex. Kpop boy groups are the human form of cooties.

 

[sugarpilled]

Eeugh. Man. I lowkey hate kpop. It's like endless thirstraps but made into a music video format. The number of bulge grabs. The hair slick back. The sideways stare with the inhale and exhale of their chest visible. It's like getting licked all over your body by a non member of the preferred sex. Kpop boy groups are the human form of cooties.

Plus it's to compensate for the amount of sexual abuse that goes on in EA countries- I've seen way too many male kpop idols with allegations against them

 

[sugarpilled]

Also IMO the couple looks looksmatched to me, it's kind of hard to tell since they're older

 

[CJ Central]

I actually dont know tbh. Its not that WMAF couples are weird inherently. But i notice a larger ratio of non-looksmatched couples with WMAF than other pairings, anecdotally. Either the guy is chopped and living in SEA with an attractive asian woman, or its a couple in a 1st world country where the guy is fine but the girl isnt as nice looking. It might just be that those couples are brought up online more often than other couples.

Pretty accurate.

 

[Mess]

Tell me how exactly this is important to your point.

 

[gymcel88.]

When it comes to interracial relationships AFWM seems to be the most common. The Asian female typically are below average or average looking. Most of them will snag weird looking white males who are either anime nerds or were unable to snag a white woman. However on occasion you will see a below average or average looking Asian woman snag a white male who is way out of her league looks wise/aesthetics wise. This mystifies me.

Asian men who are short, and have the stereotypical c***k look (slanted eyes, buck teeth, flat face), it’s pretty much a death sentence in the dating market. For Asian women who have those stereotypical features they can still snag a white guy. For Asian men to have even a small chance of dating anything, they need to be whitewashed, be tall, and K-pop their features.



The illustration perfectly portrays my point. The guy is clearly an 8/10 in looks. The Asian women he is engaged to clearly does not match up to him in the looks department. The deviation in aesthetics is way too striking. She has a flat face, flat button nose, oddly shaped eyes, chubby body and face with lack of defined facial features. An asian male who looks like that would have no chance at mating with anything other than his own pillow.



How are even below or average looking Asian women able to still have success not just in interracial dating but dating in general?!?!?!?

water
this literally applies to all women brochacho

 

[ricecelthegoat]

Do they really? Im from east asia. Women strongly prefer dating within their own race. They consider white men as a backup and other races aren't even considered, typically. The WMAF couples i have seen where the woman was less attractive was where the woman was from asia but they were assimilated into the west at a young age. So they still have their OG cultural characteristics but broke out of that preference for same ethnicity pairing.

WMAF couples where the woman was born in the west are more looksmatched than not, imo.

I think its 50/50

Ive seen asian girls only lust over asian guys, but ive also seen asian girls lust over white guys

I think it has to do with the proximity pill, because the majority of asian guys are literally chopped out of the wazoo, so the asian girls dont really have much of a choice. also whites tend to be more attractive and taller on average

However, coming from an asian guy you could see how this argument is suspectible to a fair amount of bias, so take my opinion with a grain of salt

 

[sjnny404]

water
this literally applies to all women brochacho

If it were applied to all women, you would hear this about any interracial pairing. But you don't, it tends to be WMAF. My question is, why?

 

[sjnny404]

I think its 50/50

Ive seen asian girls only lust over asian guys, but ive also seen asian girls lust over white guys

I think it has to do with the proximity pill, because the majority of asian guys are literally chopped out of the wazoo, so the asian girls dont really have much of a choice. also whites tend to be more attractive and taller on average

However, coming from an asian guy you could see how this argument is suspectible to a fair amount of bias, so take my opinion with a grain of salt

Yeah, I understand why the asian woman does it. Culturally they are brought up to date within their own race. If they are relatively assimilated, white guys are also acceptable (and if they escape the cultural influence enough, white guys are actually prioritized). SEA, indian, and black relationships are straight up not allowed by most traditional asian parents, in addition to media influence, so asian women will generally pick other asian men or white men.

The woman's reasons are within understanding. But wtf is of the guy? Like genuinely?

 

[ricecelthegoat]

Yeah, I understand why the asian woman does it. Culturally they are brought up to date within their own race. If they are relatively assimilated, white guys are also acceptable (and if they escape the cultural influence enough, white guys are actually prioritized). SEA, indian, and black relationships are straight up not allowed by most traditional asian parents, in addition to media influence, so asian women will generally pick other asian men or white men.

The woman's reasons are within understanding. But wtf is of the guy? Like genuinely?

I have no idea why that guy in the picture would date her, maybe security?

Thats the no 1 thing I look for in a girl tbh, someone that would worship me and never leave me, even above looks, body, etc

 

[sjnny404]

I have no idea why that guy in the picture would date her, maybe security?

Thats the no 1 thing I look for in a girl tbh, someone that would worship me and never leave me, even above looks, body, etc

Yeah I agree. I know girls who liked guys for their personality/intelligence straight up. I know guys who liked girls for that too. Compatibility is a crazy appeal factor. Honestly if they're happy, why not. I do notice that if couples are non-looksmatched like this, they usually met in college, where you have more time to develop feelings due to proximity, and not through dating apps.

 

[ricecelthegoat]

Yeah I agree. I know girls who liked guys for their personality/intelligence straight up. I know guys who liked girls for that too. Compatibility is a crazy appeal factor. Honestly if they're happy, why not. I do notice that if couples are non-looksmatched like this, they usually met in college, where you have more time to develop feelings due to proximity, and not through dating apps.

It definetely is. As long as you can get past the initial face, height, and later on, dick requirments, you're golden. Well not golden but it gives you more of a surviving chance than on dating apps and such. Proximity pill is legit.

 

[sugarpilled]

I have no idea why that guy in the picture would date her, maybe security?

Thats the no 1 thing I look for in a girl tbh, someone that would worship me and never leave me, even above looks, body, etc

Another thing may be career and education, I know plenty of asian women who have high paying j*bs in the US since the education in asian countries build a harder work ethic than most americans.

 

[reglazng]

asian persuasion propaganda

 

[ricecelthegoat]

Another thing may be career and education, I know plenty of asian women who have high paying j*bs in the US since the education in asian countries build a harder work ethic than most americans.

Thats true, to be honest she looks like somebody that would work in the med field, as a doctor or dentist.