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how do i talk to men

Koloocheh

Koloocheh

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i don’t go out a lot, and even when i do i’m always with my parents. i go to an all-girls school, i don’t post on social media, and my accounts are private, so i basically have no interaction with dudes
i thought it was normal to not talk to men or to have never had a bf, but i’ve realized every other girl my age has some experience with boys
honestly, i feel so embarrassed when my classmates ask me if i’m talking to anyone and my answer has always been no
although i had like one online talking stage two years ago and that’s it. icl i fumbled back then and he told me i was dry even though i genuinely thought i was being nice?
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Spuffy said:
if you dont go to school with them i would suggest to not even bother. thats going out of your way to talk to people that will only bring you stress that you dont need
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are u kidding?

do u think getting a boyfriend/talking to guys is a bad thing?
 
sleeprydr said:
jk but dont force it by going on dating apps and such, it never works out. if you’re a teen then its no big deal i would only be worried if you were in like your thirties
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Yeah im 16
tbh i dont really mind being single
Its just annoying when other people ask me why im not with anyone
 
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charm said:
are u kidding?

do u think getting a boyfriend/talking to guys is a bad thing?
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if youre in school and youre going out of your way to find boys who arent just naturally around and trying to form relationships with them, then yes, i think its added stress onto a students life for no reason. dating in high school is not ideal, especially when they dont go to your school. its usually always a distractor and stressor. this person said herself that she doesnt even mind being single.

its not a co-ed school, so its not like she would develop a crush in school and didnt have the courage to talk to him. it would be all of this extra effort for little reward or longevity. i would say the same to a male if they made this post
 
Spuffy said:
if youre in school and youre going out of your way to find boys who arent just naturally around and trying to form relationships with them, then yes, i think its added stress onto a students life for no reason. dating in high school is not ideal, especially when they dont go to your school. its usually always a distractor and stressor. this person said herself that she doesnt even mind being single.

its not a co-ed school, so its not like she would develop a crush in school and didnt have the courage to talk to him. it would be all of this extra effort for little reward or longevity. i would say the same to a male if they made this post
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fair enough

i guess i got lucky with teen relationships so i might have a different perspective to you (not saying you didnt necessarily but im just saying i had a very positive experience which shaped my views)
 
@Koloocheh you're 16yo you don't miss anything, especially if you don't want to have a bf for now, don't fold for the peer pressure of dating men to not get judged by other girls.

If you have to get a bf, it will be one you are truly attracted to and developp a bond with him.
 
charm said:
fair enough

i guess i got lucky with teen relationships so i might have a different perspective to you (not saying you didnt necessarily but im just saying i had a very positive experience which shaped my views)
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oh i do believe that its possible for a high school relationship to create good. there are many lessons to learn about how to treat yourself and others. 🐧
 
charm said:
are u kidding?

do u think getting a boyfriend/talking to guys is a bad thing?
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it’s really stressful and honestly not worth it majority of the time. almost always it’s a bad experience
 
U make them talk to men
Men like a chase
And they like to chose
Let him come to you
Learn laws of attraction and simple eye catching things ;3
 
Just start the convo unless your super weird or super ugly they will talk to you and probably reciprocate feelings
 
prob just wait till u go to college, like the other replies said you shouldn’t go out of your way to talk to them. if you really want to though maybe befriend some girls from ur school and go out with them to public places and try talking to males then if that doesn’t work download snap or smth
 
start posting on social media you'll for sure get dms then you can pratice on the subhuman loosers . After that you'll be able to understand the spieces and then be able to seduce men that are actually in your league .
 
Ur not a femcel btw and yall never be because they don’t exist. So stfu you corny ass poser trying to get validation form lusty men go kys ldar
 

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cckstacy said:
start posting on social media you'll for sure get dms then you can pratice on the subhuman loosers . After that you'll be able to understand the spieces and then be able to seduce men that are actually in your league .
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Yeha and all those guys in the dms will tell you to loose weight u fat fucking whore go ldar piggy loser
 
dont hangout with dudes at school only outside. And its completely normal btw to have no experience and dont make it feel like an obligation
 
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