Hypothesis How do you deal with someones death

[Aryy]

tbh ive never had someone close to me or in my family die

i dont know how it feels
i think i saw a girl whos father died in elementary it was heartbreaking to watch her everyday

 

[chudlite67]

tbh ive never had someone close to me or in my family die

i dont know how it feels
i think i saw a girl whos father died in elementary it was heartbreaking to watch her everyday

Not sure because I haven’t either
It’s probably sad

 

[thushebecame]

It’s genuinely not that bad, js disassociate with it and imagine you js got ghosted

 

[vamp]

This after the rony rope thread

 

[Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX]

tbh ive never had someone close to me or in my family die

i dont know how it feels
i think i saw a girl whos father died in elementary it was heartbreaking to watch her everyday

Idk it takes a while for it to really effect me. Sometimes it never affects me and I just kinda don't feel that strongly about it.

 

[True Spaniard]

tbh ive never had someone close to me or in my family die

i dont know how it feels
i think i saw a girl whos father died in elementary it was heartbreaking to watch her everyday

My grandma died like a year and a half ago already, its harsh but you eventually go through, i dont know about ppl who lose their dad or mom tho

 

[Aryy]

This after the rony rope thread

it got me thinking

 

[Aryy]

My grandma died like a year and a half ago already, its harsh but you eventually go through, i dont know about ppl who lose their dad or mom tho

i am very close to my grandma idk how i will deal with it

 

[Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX]

it got me thinking

It's okay I burst into tears right then and there too stay strong

 

[Lentil]

I’ve had a few family members but mostly pets pass and I just hide in my room for like a week and then go back to acting normal

 

[vamp]

But on a srs note, surpressing ur emotions will only lead to more damage later on.

Taking a break is needed, talk about it and dont forcefully move on.

Wait until it goes away naturally, accept the truth

 

[Aryy]

naturally, accept the truth

i dont get how people can just accept it ig

 

[vamp]

i dont get how people can just accept it ig

You dont, you gotta fully embrace it, be as dramatic as possible, you gotta make urself clear that this person will NEVER come back

 

[Deleted Member 126149]

This after the rony rope thread

what?

 

[Aryy]

what?

fake

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

tbh ive never had someone close to me or in my family die

i dont know how it feels
i think i saw a girl whos father died in elementary it was heartbreaking to watch her everyday

n***a the first thing I did as a baby was choke my twin brother to death

I’m stone cold since the womb

 

[Aryy]

n***a the first thing I did as a baby was choke my twin brother to death

I’m stone cold since the womb

What????

 

[knightmaxxer]

i wouldn’t know, not because i haven’t had people die on me no ive had people i loved very much die, but for me after someone dies thats sorta where my feelings for them abruptly end. like, i don’t think ive ever actually ever felt sad about someone or something (had a few pets die) dying. its more of a “oh thats a shame, no more time with them i guess” thing

 

[MongoloidJoe]

Ssris numbed me I can't feel anything for grandparents passing away , apathy and anhedonia they call it
Antipsychotics and antidepressants

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

What????

Everyone out there is ur enemy type beat u can’t let ur guard down n all dat

 

[vespertine]

n‎iggas jfl react anything

 

[draftLexy]

tbh ive never had someone close to me or in my family die

i dont know how it feels
i think i saw a girl whos father died in elementary it was heartbreaking to watch her everyday

You just live with it tbh
Like it never really stops hurting you just learn to live with it

 

[Aryy]

You just live with it tbh
Like it never really stops hurting you just learn to live with it

do you forget it after some time?

 

[vespertine]

do you forget it after some time?

not forget, just acclimate to the way it is. when my dog died almost a decade ago i was devastated but now i just see it as a sad period not something to continuously agonize over

 

[draftLexy]

do you forget it after some time?

Id say yes kinda of
Its like you make it into a background noise of sorts if you get what i mean
When my sister died i would lowk sometimes start bawling in the middle of the class for no reason because thats all i could think about for months
Now it has been 2 years i dont start havibg random breakdown in the middle of the class but whenever i remember at night i still cry

 

[vespertine]

Id say yes kinda of
Its like you make it into a background noise of sorts if you get what i mean
When my sister died i would lowk sometimes start bawling in the middle of the class for no reason because thats all i could think about for months
Now it has been 2 years i dont start havibg random breakdown in the middle of the class but whenever i remember at night i still cry

god thats heartbreaking

 

[Aryy]

Id say yes kinda of
Its like you make it into a background noise of sorts if you get what i mean
When my sister died i would lowk sometimes start bawling in the middle of the class for no reason because thats all i could think about for months
Now it has been 2 years i dont start havibg random breakdown in the middle of the class but whenever i remember at night i still cry

wait like biological sister?

 

[draftLexy]

wait like biological sister?

Yes

 

[Aryy]

Yes

i dont know how you can deal with someone so close to you just dying it sounds so painful, so sorry for your loss

but it just happens you cant prevent it you just have to deal with it

 

[Niggard]

Just realize they're gone and live your life

 

[rand anon]

Idk, my old neighbor died a few weeks ago

We were close but I hadn’t visited him in like 2 yrs, I don’t feel super sad, just very regretful. Maybe that’s how it goes I suppose

 

[levithedudebro]

allow yourself to slow down and grieve its okay to mourn someone

 

[Calcidoll]

my pet died last october and i have never been the same.

lost one of my friend this feb and it's like my whole identity shifted after seeing how his 2month long gf erased him from everything and started posting normal shit and even "new relationship", "i want a man" type shit within a week after he died.

 

[TFC]

tbh ive never had someone close to me or in my family die

i dont know how it feels
i think i saw a girl whos father died in elementary it was heartbreaking to watch her everyday

June 28th 9:32 PM
you know how it feels