Hypothesis How does your perception of people change after relationships end

[Aryy]

For friendship too,
do you admire them the same, see the good qualities

or feel blinded by any relationship/friendship you had and feel like they were completely different than you thought

I think it’s situational

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

I’m not braindead enough to be hypnotised by love I know full well my gf is a slut

 

[Aryy]

I’m not braindead enough to be hypnotised by love I know full well my gf is a slut

then why with her

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

then why with her

Cause she helps me fill out my bureaucracy papers I get in the mail weekly

 

[Penalizer69]

I think when someone chooses to move away from you, there will always be some kind of disdain and you can't help it

 

[kafka]

i guess we'll never know, my gf and i are never breaking up trust,
on everyones life

 

[Starlet]

For friendship too,
do you admire them the same, see the good qualities

or feel blinded by any relationship/friendship you had and feel like they were completely different than you thought

I think it’s situational

Wouldn’t that just depend entirely on how and what caused it to end?

 

[Aryy]

Wouldn’t that just depend entirely on how and what caused it to end?

yeah thats why i said its situational probably but idk also the concept of loving someone even if they leave

 

[chudlite67]

For friendship too,
do you admire them the same, see the good qualities

or feel blinded by any relationship/friendship you had and feel like they were completely different than you thought

I think it’s situational

yeah i think you'd be bitter at first and maybe later get over it and be able to see the good things

 

[Starlet]

but idk also the concept of loving someone even if they leave

It’s good to not hold on to active hatred yeah, and like taking the good out of the situation and accepting it so you don’t dwell on it. Wouldn’t call it love though more like appreciation. It’s the mature way and it’s much more indicative of real love if someone can do that because they’re putting the other person’s wellbeing over themselves rather than being vengeful and that’s what love is about

 

[Aryy]

It’s good to not hold on to active hatred yeah, and like taking the good out of the situation and accepting it so you don’t dwell on it. Wouldn’t call it love though more like appreciation. It’s the mature way and it’s much more indicative of real love if someone can do that because they’re putting the other person’s wellbeing over themselves rather than being vengeful and that’s what love is about

yeah i agree

 

[Lentil]

For friendship too,
do you admire them the same, see the good qualities

or feel blinded by any relationship/friendship you had and feel like they were completely different than you thought

I think it’s situational

Kill kill kill die

 

[LeoK]

Sometimes distance makes you realize you overlooked red flags because you cared about them but other times you appreciate the good parts of the relationship more once the emotions settle. Most people aren’t completely different than you thought they’re usually a mix of qualities you noticed and qualities you ignored

 

[Aryy]

Sometimes distance makes you realize you overlooked red flags because you cared about them but other times you appreciate the good parts of the relationship more once the emotions settle. Most people aren’t completely different than you thought they’re usually a mix of qualities you noticed and qualities you ignored

fully agree

 

[cripple]

Scary to think about

 

[jest]

For friendship too,
do you admire them the same, see the good qualities

or feel blinded by any relationship/friendship you had and feel like they were completely different than you thought

I think it’s situational

situational but usually nothing changes for me

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Depends on what I know about them at the end of the day my perception is very limited

 

[moonlight1]

For friendship too,
do you admire them the same, see the good qualities

or feel blinded by any relationship/friendship you had and feel like they were completely different than you thought

I think it’s situational

i usually start loving them more and yearning like a widow