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I've noticed a lot of users expressed their personal struggles to socialize with their peers. I was like that too a few years ago. Here's some tips that may help users.
- Practice talking in front of a mirror, this way you can notice what's your body behavior when you're interacting with people and correct it ( For exemple : hide your nervosity if you're the type to shake your leg or to play with their hands a bit too much during a conversation).
- Improve your speech flow, nervous people tend to accelerate their speech which may make what they're saying hard to understand. Also learn to limit your usage of filler words ( "um", "huh", "like", "y'know").
- Try engaging conversations with classmates. Considering a good majority of users here are still going to school, "Arent you in my _____ class ?" is a good conversation starter to get things going. If no one comes to you, you can always come to your classmates and try to talk with them during breaks.
- Have an interesting hobby.
Nobody wants to talk with someone bland and uninteresting that seems to stare at walls for a past time. Since you can't tell people you rot on looksmaxxing forums all day, good hobbies to connect with people can be music, climbing, going to the same gym, sports or fashion. Try to bring it smoothly into a conversation by asking them if they share the same hobby.
- Add people on your socials.
Teens most often times use IG or Snapchat. I would recommend getting IG, haven't downloaded Snapchat personally. This way even when you're at home you can still interact with them. You can ask them for their socials at the end of a conversation to show you're interested at having further conversations.
Conversations are generally natural and spontaneous. All you really need is just to be yourself and share a bit of who you are as a human being.
I ain't no NT Emperor, I myself was diagnosed autistic. I however improved my social skills drastically since I first started HS. Hope this helps an user or two.
- Practice talking in front of a mirror, this way you can notice what's your body behavior when you're interacting with people and correct it ( For exemple : hide your nervosity if you're the type to shake your leg or to play with their hands a bit too much during a conversation).
- Improve your speech flow, nervous people tend to accelerate their speech which may make what they're saying hard to understand. Also learn to limit your usage of filler words ( "um", "huh", "like", "y'know").
- Try engaging conversations with classmates. Considering a good majority of users here are still going to school, "Arent you in my _____ class ?" is a good conversation starter to get things going. If no one comes to you, you can always come to your classmates and try to talk with them during breaks.
- Have an interesting hobby.
Nobody wants to talk with someone bland and uninteresting that seems to stare at walls for a past time. Since you can't tell people you rot on looksmaxxing forums all day, good hobbies to connect with people can be music, climbing, going to the same gym, sports or fashion. Try to bring it smoothly into a conversation by asking them if they share the same hobby.
- Add people on your socials.
Teens most often times use IG or Snapchat. I would recommend getting IG, haven't downloaded Snapchat personally. This way even when you're at home you can still interact with them. You can ask them for their socials at the end of a conversation to show you're interested at having further conversations.
Conversations are generally natural and spontaneous. All you really need is just to be yourself and share a bit of who you are as a human being.
I ain't no NT Emperor, I myself was diagnosed autistic. I however improved my social skills drastically since I first started HS. Hope this helps an user or two.
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