Serious how to quit masturbating as a girl?

[ragusit]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

 

[Superior]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

I can't even tell if this is serious or not

 

[ragusit]

I can't even tell if this is serious or not

its serious bro im struggling

 

[𐲀 𐲢 𐲠 𐲀 𐲇 𐲰]

Chastity cage

 

[ragusit]

Chastity cage

might be my only option atp

 

[𐲀 𐲢 𐲠 𐲀 𐲇 𐲰]

might be my only option atp

I’ll put it on dw

 

[ecoli]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

therapy or smth

 

[kimothy]

just don’t

 

[2R0I2P0]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

tbh, i don't see the problem if it is a coping mechanism, and the way to have another coping mechanism is developing another one, for me it was cutting or counting primes, doing something that involves repetition, focusing on something else or brings a sharp and intense pain.

so even if it sounds stupid praying actually works to calm down, dunking your head in water pinching your nose your arms and or feigning to smoke, as it works to regulate your breathing or actually smoking

 

[Deleted Member 80486]

@fashist she's perfection

 

[ifadbinimran]

Make urself in situations where u r sorrounded by people so u wont have the freedom to goon

 

[Starlet]

tbh, i don't see the problem if it is a coping mechanism, and the way to have another coping mechanism is developing another one, for me it was cutting or counting primes, doing something that involves repetition, focusing on something else or brings a sharp and intense pain.

so even if it sounds stupid praying actually works to calm down, dunking your head in water pinching your nose your arms and or feigning to smoke, as it works to regulate your breathing or actually smoking

not smoking or cutting though that’s just even worse

 

[2R0I2P0]

not smoking or cutting though that’s just even worse

well, both are copes that's just what im trying to get at. but doing something that involves repetition, focusing on something else or brings a sharp and intense pain. usually works they are called t.i.p.s abilities i was seeing that in therapy.

 

[fashist]

@fashist she's perfection

iprobably rookie numbers

 

[fashist]

anyway uhhhhhhh no idea same kind of without the sa part

 

[Blackpillirony]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

Looksmaxxing forum they said

 

[Starlet]

honestly you could look into SSRIS, they could help with any depression part and they usually lower your libido

 

[fashist]

honestly you could look into SSRIS, they could help with any depression part and they usually lower your libido

ye they seem to be helping me w this
the thing is its not entirely libido when its a coping mechanism, it just becomes a habit to source dopamine
so you still do it it’s just disappointing

 

[Starlet]

ye they seem to be helping me w this
the thing is its not entirely libido when its a coping mechanism, it just becomes a habit to source dopamine
so you still do it it’s just disappointing

true true, I’ve heard some people have difficulty orgasming at all on them. since it’s a habit the other thing would just have to be busying yourself with other things and making it harder to do for example by being outside more often

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

try adderall

 

[fashist]

true true, I’ve heard some people have difficulty orgasming at all on them. since it’s a habit the other thing would just have to be busying yourself with other things and making it harder to do for example by being outside more often

yeah definitely i go on walks when im bored or pace instead of doing it recently

 

[Kaligula567]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

Op is not a girl

 

[ragusit]

Op is not a girl

fuh naw do i have to pull out my id

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

people are so shocked by this post when ive seen "nofap" posts from guys all the time

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

jerks me

 

[1truth]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

if you're not getting any pleasure from it, i suggest you start overthinking it when you do it. like "oh ew what the hell am i doing".

and if you watch porn while doing it, watch something you are 100% not attracted to/disgusted by. if you pair that with the numbness and overthinking i guess it could slowly drive you away.

you could also do with "rubbing" it over your undies first, then pants, to slowly take away the strong sensation you get from it. this is definitely not reputable information and its just my advice

merry christmas

 

[Starlet]

if you're not getting any pleasure from it, i suggest you start overthinking it when you do it. like "oh ew what the hell am i doing".

and if you watch porn while doing it, watch something you are 100% not attracted to/disgusted by. if you pair that with the numbness and overthinking i guess it could slowly drive you away.

you could also do with "rubbing" it over your undies first, then pants, to slowly take away the strong sensation you get from it. this is definitely not reputable information and its just my advice

merry christmas

she said she already feels terrible why would you wanna make it worse

 

[1truth]

she said she already feels terrible why would you wanna make it worse

she wants to quit, i was trying to make her dislike masturbation. my bad if i said something stupid

 

[Deleted Member 91801]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

Try Birth control specifically with cyproterone acetate that should lower your T and nuke your sex drive

 

[tomahawk]

I can't even tell if this is serious or not

I feel it is I know a bunch of people just like her

 

[Deleted Member 99582]

a man typed this

 

[tomahawk]

Just change everything. The issue with people like you is usually not just masturbation and previous r**e but total lifestyle caused by it.

 

[kornfan]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

your username reminds me of a word in romanian lol

 

[ragusit]

your username reminds me of a word in romanian lol

because i am romanian lmfao my user is rava’s song if u know it

 

[kornfan]

because i am romanian lmfao my user is rava’s song if u know it

a lmao
nu ascult rava sau genul ala de muzica
sunt mai mult cu rock sau old rap gen paraziții, b.u.g. sau cheloo
mișto mișto tho românia best

 

[ragusit]

a lmao
nu ascult rava sau genul ala de muzica
sunt mai mult cu rock sau old rap gen paraziții, b.u.g. sau cheloo
mișto mișto tho românia best

stai linistit ca si eu ascult trap si rock in acelasi timp

 

[trueceljester]

a lmao
nu ascult rava sau genul ala de muzica
sunt mai mult cu rock sau old rap gen paraziții, b.u.g. sau cheloo
mișto mișto tho românia best

Si eu vorbesc romana LOL

 

[kornfan]

Si eu vorbesc romana LOL

ce tuff ce tuff

 

[trueceljester]

Holy shit Romanians are invading forums

 

[kornfan]

stai linistit ca si eu ascult trap si rock in acelasi timp

mișto mișto
see ya around

 

[kornfan]

Holy shit Romanians are invading forums

exact
azi era unul la introductions numit Raul

 

[kornfan]

i got sexually assaulted when i was very little and ever since ive been using masturbation as a coping mechanism to deal with stress but now its gotten to a point where i feel so numb and terrible when i do it
how the fuck do i stop once and for all? ive tried quitting multiple times and each time i ended up relapsing

nu-s expert dar o sugestie ar fi să te ții ocupată cu tot felul.
dacă faci altceva ce te interesează nu te mai gândești la aia, vorbești cu cineva, sau dacă ieși pe afară nu ai cum să faci aia.
idk doar sugestii

 

[trueceljester]

exact
azi era unul la introductions numit Raul

am nascut in Romania, dar m am mutat in Polonia cand am fost copil si romana mai ie proasta LOL

 

[ragusit]

Si eu vorbesc romana LOL

mor vere credeam ca nu i niciun roman pe forumuri de genu am vazut numai pe tiktok

 

[kornfan]

am nascut in Romania, dar m am mutat in Polonia cand am fost copil si romana mai ie proasta LOL

aaa okk

 

[kornfan]

mor vere credeam ca nu i niciun roman pe forumuri de genu am vazut numai pe tiktok

mai e unul, Raul, l-am vazut la introduction

 

[ragusit]

mai e unul, Raul, l-am vazut la introduction

dada il stiu

 

[trueceljester]

aaa okk

Inteleg romana, dar nu pot sa vorbesc, pot citi ce spiu dar am nevoie de google translate ca sa raspund

 

[kornfan]

Inteleg romana, dar nu pot sa vorbesc, pot citi ce spiu dar am nevoie de google translate ca sa raspund

nici nu cred ca ai nevoie in polonia don’t worry abt it
still niche if you know some

 

[Scul1]

its serious bro im struggling

What difference will stopping make?