How to stop hating on beautiful woman out of jealously

[ripjfk]

Idk if this Is allowed here but I don’t know where to post this.

I know how bad this will sound, but I have this deep hatred in me for beautiful girls or girls who hang around conventionally attractive men and always talk about how hot men are. I have this superiority complex where I feel so much better for not fawning over men, and I find them shallow. If I hear girls talking about for example wanting tall guys or lightskins or muscle guys I get so angry and think about the hypocrisy and unfairness but not because I want men to choose me. It’s because I just get so angry that they can have that opinion and it’s normal (not that I would have or want that opinion ).

I want to have a crush without feeling creepy or hopeless.i just want to be able to have a crush and it’s the usual crush. I have a huge fantasy of being able to hang around boys and have them silently think about how hot I am, but I can’t, so I end up hating everyone involved in that culture. I get so angry inside. I hate it so much. I can’t watch anything to do with movies that have “bombshells” or a sex‑sell element as I just start thinking disgusting slut and if I see clips of girls hanging around guys like Clav, I feel my anger take over and I have to breathe. Those girls make me so angry I am not jealous of that part I just get so angry I can’t explain it I sometimes cry out of the anger.

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d. It’s so bad but I can’t help it it’s my initial reaction I just feel so strongly about it, I pray it happens to them by someone they find conventionally unattractive someone they see at the bottom of their internal social hierarchy so it hurts them more.

I don’t think I’m a misogynist. If a guy is disrespecting a woman, I’ll defend her, and I 100% believe in equal rights. I feel like this stems from jealousy, and I wish it would stop. I wish I’d stop longing for the life and the face I can’t have. I act like a baby and bottle this hatred up.

 

[Mimichan]

Idk if this Is allowed here but I don’t know where to post this.

I know how bad this will sound, but I have this deep hatred in me for beautiful girls or girls who hang around conventionally attractive men and always talk about how hot men are. I have this superiority complex where I feel so much better for not fawning over men, and I find them shallow. If I hear girls talking about for example wanting tall guys or lightskins or muscle guys I get so angry and think about the hypocrisy and unfairness but not because I want men to choose me. It’s because I just get so angry that they can have that opinion and it’s normal (not that I would have or want that opinion ).

I want to have a crush without feeling creepy or hopeless.i just want to be able to have a crush and it’s the usual crush. I have a huge fantasy of being able to hang around boys and have them silently think about how hot I am, but I can’t, so I end up hating everyone involved in that culture. I get so angry inside. I hate it so much. I can’t watch anything to do with movies that have “bombshells” or a sex‑sell element as I just start thinking disgusting slut and if I see clips of girls hanging around guys like Clav, I feel my anger take over and I have to breathe. Those girls make me so angry I am not jealous of that part I just get so angry I can’t explain it I sometimes cry out of the anger.

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d.

 

[miss larpette]

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d

 

[aryy]

Idk if this Is allowed here but I don’t know where to post this.

I know how bad this will sound, but I have this deep hatred in me for beautiful girls or girls who hang around conventionally attractive men and always talk about how hot men are. I have this superiority complex where I feel so much better for not fawning over men, and I find them shallow. If I hear girls talking about for example wanting tall guys or lightskins or muscle guys I get so angry and think about the hypocrisy and unfairness but not because I want men to choose me. It’s because I just get so angry that they can have that opinion and it’s normal (not that I would have or want that opinion ).

I want to have a crush without feeling creepy or hopeless.i just want to be able to have a crush and it’s the usual crush. I have a huge fantasy of being able to hang around boys and have them silently think about how hot I am, but I can’t, so I end up hating everyone involved in that culture. I get so angry inside. I hate it so much. I can’t watch anything to do with movies that have “bombshells” or a sex‑sell element as I just start thinking disgusting slut and if I see clips of girls hanging around guys like Clav, I feel my anger take over and I have to breathe. Those girls make me so angry I am not jealous of that part I just get so angry I can’t explain it I sometimes cry out of the anger.

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d. It’s so bad but I can’t help it it’s my initial reaction I just feel so strongly about it, I pray it happens to them by someone they find conventionally unattractive someone they see at the bottom of their internal social hierarchy so it hurts them more.

I don’t think I’m a misogynist. If a guy is disrespecting a woman, I’ll defend her, and I 100% believe in equal rights. I feel like this stems from jealousy, and I wish it would stop. I wish I’d stop longing for the life and the face I can’t have. I act like a baby and bottle this hatred up.

bro..they dint even interact with you wtf this is scary

 

[ripjfk]

@aryy I know they didn’t interact with me. I’m just really jealous and insecure and sad , and I project that onto conventionally attractive women because I wish I had what they have. I’m not pretending it’s good or normal that’s literally the point of the post lol.

 

[aryy]

@aryy I know they didn’t interact with me. I’m just really jealous and insecure and sad , and I project that onto conventionally attractive women because I wish I had what they have. I’m not pretending it’s good or normal that’s literally the point of the post lol.

i know, im not judging you but really this is scary. the most advice you will get is to stop doing that, no one can force your thoughts in the end. why dont you try to improve instead?

 

[ripjfk]

View attachment 293862
You started badly, continued badly, got worse, and in the end you tried to improve but remained ridiculous.
If you have this idea and if you truly prayed it for God(to happen? What? ), and this crap isn't a copypasta from .org, you can be sure that your unfair life will continue to be unfair.
@TonyDr Banish this worm to the fifth circle of hell.

If I was a rapist (which I’m not I’m actually in the APAER community) and you just bullied me that would be a stressor and I could have became evil and got a victim why don’t you care what you say? why suppress someone when they are trying to open up

 

[zombiebeatz2006]

Based
Ty now I understand woman more
Very informative

 

[aryy]

Based
Ty now I understand woman more
Very informative

this is not a representation

 

[aryy]

If I was a rapist (which I’m not I’m actually in the APAER community) and you just bullied me that would be a stressor and I could have became evil and got a victim why don’t you care what you say? why suppress someone when they are trying to open up

why dont u try to improve instead genuinely

 

[ripjfk]

i know, im not judging you but really this is scary. the most advice you will get is to stop doing that, no one can force your thoughts in the end. why dont you try to improve instead?

I came here for advice from people who might feel the same way or know how to stop. I assume people here understand the psychology behind ‘looksmaxxing’ and everything surrounding it, and how damaging it can be to people’s minds, so I wanted to ask. If I could fix this on my own, I would but I can’t I’ve tried everything I feel controlled.

 

[ripjfk]

why dont u try to improve instead genuinely

Based
Ty now I understand woman more
Very informative

This is a bad part of me I can’t control this isn’t a representation of my gender at all that’s like saying if a male has depression all males are depressed

 

[aryy]

I came here for advice from people who might feel the same way or know how to stop. I assume people here understand the psychology behind ‘looksmaxxing’ and everything surrounding it, and how damaging it can be to people’s minds, so I wanted to ask. If I could fix this on my own, I would but I can’t I’ve tried everything I feel controlled.

well, i dont relate maybe a few will. hope you fix this

 

[zombiebeatz2006]

This is a bad part of me I can’t control this isn’t a representation of my gender at all that’s like saying if a male has depression all males are depressed

Sorry I apologize
Shouldn’t have made such a sexist comment
Much love to the female species
@moewzerz

 

[Kittystrophic]

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d.

You’re doing this consciously, you have time to think and sit in silence when you pray but you rather spew hatred.

I understand your feeling about anger and jealousy but THIS is a conscious decision and not just a feeling

 

[Kittystrophic]

If I was a rapist (which I’m not I’m actually in the APAER community) and you just bullied me that would be a stressor and I could have became evil and got a victim why don’t you care what you say? why suppress someone when they are trying to open up

So you’re blaming r**e on people who bully rapists…? go to therapy oh my god none of us here are psychologists or therapists that you can go to

 

[ripjfk]

Tsn

Sorry I apologize
Shouldn’t have made such a sexist comment
Much love to the female species
@moewzerz[/USERha
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So you’re blaming r**e on people who bully rapists…? go to therapy oh my god none of us here are psychologists or therapists that you can go to

I never said you guys are psychologists or therapists j just said I assume some know the psychology behind it. Also there’s different types of r**e and one type is more likely to happen when the person is stressed. Look it up.

 

[ripjfk]

It’s

You’re doing this consciously, you have time to think and sit in silence when you pray but you rather spew hatred.

I understand your feeling about anger and jealousy but THIS is a conscious decision and not just a feeling

not

You’re doing this consciously, you have time to think and sit in silence when you pray but you rather spew hatred.

I understand your feeling about anger and jealousy but THIS is a conscious decision and not just a feeling

It’s not as simple as that I feel guilty and horrible for having these thoughts but I can’t help them.

 

[ZenithZXV]

i know, im not judging you but really this is scary. the most advice you will get is to stop doing that, no one can force your thoughts in the end. why dont you try to improve instead?

Feminine horsecrap avi, cmon f****t change it so something better

 

[Galvatron]

I hear you brother but you need to get of the socials for a bit. I had the same problem until I realised most girls u see on socials are whores and only care about money and looks and obviously there is a lot in real life but on the same coin there are a lot of good women out there that don’t orbit attractive men. So stay off the socials a bit

Love bro

 

[ripjfk]

I hear you brother but you need to get of the socials for a bit. I had the same problem until I realised most girls u see on socials are whores and only care about money and looks and obviously there is a lot in real life but on the same coin there are a lot of good women out there that don’t orbit attractive men. So stay off the socials a bit

Love bro

I’m a girl and I don’t use social media I also don’t think that the girls are whores but thank you.

 

[aryy]

Feminine horsecrap avi, cmon f****t change it so something better

no? its a cute doll

 

[Galvatron]

I’m a girl and I don’t use social media I also don’t think that the girls are whores but thank you.

Most of them are lol. This wasn’t for you but snd

 

[Kittystrophic]

It’s not It’s not as simple as that I feel guilty and horrible for having these thoughts but I can’t help them.

It’s

not

It’s not as simple as that I feel guilty and horrible for having these thoughts but I can’t help them.

Yes but you can decide whether you fucking pray for something or not, intrusive thoughts exist but if you truely felt horrible you wouldn’t fucking PRAY for this, that’s such a grave sin.

Also, your other comment about stressors - it is nobody’s fault if someone rapes someone, it doesn’t matter whether it’s out of stress or whatever other bullshit you want to excuse it for, that person should deal with stress in a better way than go out and r**e people

 

[Ghoultune]

@TonyDr Banish this worm to the fifth circle of hell.

Is TonyDr God now?

 

[SASALELE]

I understand you, but asking God himself to act like satan is disgusting and incredibly disrespectful.
You need to go to a real therapist. Many here will relate to the source of your anger, but nobodys anger would be this extreme. That is the fault of whatever mental illness or issue you have that only a licensed psychologist would be able to identify and treat.

 

[ripjfk]

I understand you, but asking God himself to act like satan is disgusting and incredibly disrespectful.
You need to go to a real therapist. Many here will relate to the source of your anger, but nobodys anger would be this extreme. That is the fault of whatever mental illness or issue you have that only a licensed psychologist would be able to identify and treat.

I know I’m sorry

 

[Starlet]

I hate how you guys are hating on her for this. This girl is expressing her thoughts and feelings and she is getting shit on because they are “darker” thoughts and feelings. Everyone has them at times but often just don’t want to admit them and a lot of this is common but y’all are making her feel bad about it when she literally already knows it’s bad and wants advice.

 

[ripjfk]

I hate how you guys are hating on her for this. This girl is expressing her thoughts and feelings and she is getting shit on because they are “darker” thoughts and feelings. Everyone has them at times but often just don’t want to admit them and a lot of this is common but y’all are making her feel bad about it when she literally already knows it’s bad and wants advice.

thank you so much it feels so good for someone to be like you Thank you I really appreciate you and this you are so amazing

 

[Starlet]

It’s not as simple as that I feel guilty and horrible for having these thoughts but I can’t help them.

Girl one of the most important things I want you to know is that your thoughts do not define you, your actions do. I know what intrusive thoughts are like very well because I have OCD. You are not your intrusive thoughts and it does not automatically make you a bad person, if you do not act on it and choose kindness you will be good.

As for the first paragraph, I think a lot of is ok. There are a lot of things wrong with the culture nowadays and how people behave and maybe you just are someone who recognizes it.

As for the second paragraph, those desires are also completely normal. The desire to be desired. Hopefully by looksmaxxing and improving you will be able to reach these one day. The only thing would be to try to work on the active emotion of hate, because it can be consuming. Dislike is not the same as hate, disliking is fine but just don’t let it take over your life.

 

[aryy]

I hate how you guys are hating on her for this. This girl is expressing her thoughts and feelings and she is getting shit on because they are “darker” thoughts and feelings. Everyone has them at times but often just don’t want to admit them and a lot of this is common but y’all are making her feel bad about it when she literally already knows it’s bad and wants advice.

i agree, no one can force their thoughts. i dont know if its common to hope for this, i think thats why people cannot give a good reaction. but it is very hard to change your thoughts, until you force them out of your mind perhaphs?

 

[Vergil444]

I hate how you guys are hating on her for this. This girl is expressing her thoughts and feelings and she is getting shit on because they are “darker” thoughts and feelings. Everyone has them at times but often just don’t want to admit them and a lot of this is common but y’all are making her feel bad about it when she literally already knows it’s bad and wants advice.

You don't deserve your mod position, defending a girl who prayed for women to be r***d. What a shame, Starlet. and on top of that you gave me a warning! It's impossible that you didn't see the mess you made.

 

[mxri]

Idk man people like you are eternally hateful and unpleasant it’s probably best you keep quiet and to yourself while self improving or socialise and realise many pretty girls r cool and have their own shit going on

 

[aesense]

This isn’t healthy at all. Remember that a lot goes into someone’s appearance. Makeup, skincare, even surgery. You should be focusing on improving yourself to the level you want over these vindictive feelings towards others.

 

[Bloxy]

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d

I try my best to curse people that annoy me but close enough

 

[giga.mia]

I hate how you guys are hating on her for this. This girl is expressing her thoughts and feelings and she is getting shit on because they are “darker” thoughts and feelings. Everyone has them at times but often just don’t want to admit them and a lot of this is common but y’all are making her feel bad about it when she literally already knows it’s bad and wants advice.

I understood literally everything until she brought up the r**e lol

 

[ripjfk]

I k

This isn’t healthy at all. Remember that a lot goes into someone’s appearance. Makeup, skincare, even surgery. You should be focusing on improving yourself to the level you want over these vindictive feelings towards

now

This isn’t healthy at all. Remember that a lot goes into someone’s appearance. Makeup, skincare, even surgery. You should be focusing on improving yourself to the level you want over these vindictive feelings towards others.

thank you I understand it but my jealousy and brain just can't help but get mad I wish it would stop.

 

[HerculesJr.]

Idk if this Is allowed here but I don’t know where to post this.

I know how bad this will sound, but I have this deep hatred in me for beautiful girls or girls who hang around conventionally attractive men and always talk about how hot men are. I have this superiority complex where I feel so much better for not fawning over men, and I find them shallow. If I hear girls talking about for example wanting tall guys or lightskins or muscle guys I get so angry and think about the hypocrisy and unfairness but not because I want men to choose me. It’s because I just get so angry that they can have that opinion and it’s normal (not that I would have or want that opinion ).

I want to have a crush without feeling creepy or hopeless.i just want to be able to have a crush and it’s the usual crush. I have a huge fantasy of being able to hang around boys and have them silently think about how hot I am, but I can’t, so I end up hating everyone involved in that culture. I get so angry inside. I hate it so much. I can’t watch anything to do with movies that have “bombshells” or a sex‑sell element as I just start thinking disgusting slut and if I see clips of girls hanging around guys like Clav, I feel my anger take over and I have to breathe. Those girls make me so angry I am not jealous of that part I just get so angry I can’t explain it I sometimes cry out of the anger.

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d. It’s so bad but I can’t help it it’s my initial reaction I just feel so strongly about it, I pray it happens to them by someone they find conventionally unattractive someone they see at the bottom of their internal social hierarchy so it hurts them more.

I don’t think I’m a misogynist. If a guy is disrespecting a woman, I’ll defend her, and I 100% believe in equal rights. I feel like this stems from jealousy, and I wish it would stop. I wish I’d stop longing for the life and the face I can’t have. I act like a baby and bottle this hatred up.

@Rias Gremory how do you stop hating on beautiful women out of jealousy?

 

[Rias Gremory]

@Rias Gremory how do you stop hating on beautiful women out of jealousy?

HerculesJr., it's interesting that you're acknowledging this jealousy, which is a huge step forward. To be honest, I've never been one to harbor such feelings myself, but I can offer some advice. Recognize that your worth and value come from within, not from comparing yourself to others. Focus on building your own strengths and interests, and try to genuinely appreciate the qualities that make someone beautiful, rather than just their physical appearance.

 

[kismet]

Idk if this Is allowed here but I don’t know where to post this.

I know how bad this will sound, but I have this deep hatred in me for beautiful girls or girls who hang around conventionally attractive men and always talk about how hot men are. I have this superiority complex where I feel so much better for not fawning over men, and I find them shallow. If I hear girls talking about for example wanting tall guys or lightskins or muscle guys I get so angry and think about the hypocrisy and unfairness but not because I want men to choose me. It’s because I just get so angry that they can have that opinion and it’s normal (not that I would have or want that opinion ).

I want to have a crush without feeling creepy or hopeless.i just want to be able to have a crush and it’s the usual crush. I have a huge fantasy of being able to hang around boys and have them silently think about how hot I am, but I can’t, so I end up hating everyone involved in that culture. I get so angry inside. I hate it so much. I can’t watch anything to do with movies that have “bombshells” or a sex‑sell element as I just start thinking disgusting slut and if I see clips of girls hanging around guys like Clav, I feel my anger take over and I have to breathe. Those girls make me so angry I am not jealous of that part I just get so angry I can’t explain it I sometimes cry out of the anger.

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d. It’s so bad but I can’t help it it’s my initial reaction I just feel so strongly about it, I pray it happens to them by someone they find conventionally unattractive someone they see at the bottom of their internal social hierarchy so it hurts them more.

I don’t think I’m a misogynist. If a guy is disrespecting a woman, I’ll defend her, and I 100% believe in equal rights. I feel like this stems from jealousy, and I wish it would stop. I wish I’d stop longing for the life and the face I can’t have. I act like a baby and bottle this hatred up.

dude me too like to a T

 

[volcel]

Idk if this Is allowed here but I don’t know where to post this.

I know how bad this will sound, but I have this deep hatred in me for beautiful girls or girls who hang around conventionally attractive men and always talk about how hot men are. I have this superiority complex where I feel so much better for not fawning over men, and I find them shallow. If I hear girls talking about for example wanting tall guys or lightskins or muscle guys I get so angry and think about the hypocrisy and unfairness but not because I want men to choose me. It’s because I just get so angry that they can have that opinion and it’s normal (not that I would have or want that opinion ).

I want to have a crush without feeling creepy or hopeless.i just want to be able to have a crush and it’s the usual crush. I have a huge fantasy of being able to hang around boys and have them silently think about how hot I am, but I can’t, so I end up hating everyone involved in that culture. I get so angry inside. I hate it so much. I can’t watch anything to do with movies that have “bombshells” or a sex‑sell element as I just start thinking disgusting slut and if I see clips of girls hanging around guys like Clav, I feel my anger take over and I have to breathe. Those girls make me so angry I am not jealous of that part I just get so angry I can’t explain it I sometimes cry out of the anger.

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d. It’s so bad but I can’t help it it’s my initial reaction I just feel so strongly about it, I pray it happens to them by someone they find conventionally unattractive someone they see at the bottom of their internal social hierarchy so it hurts them more.

I don’t think I’m a misogynist. If a guy is disrespecting a woman, I’ll defend her, and I 100% believe in equal rights. I feel like this stems from jealousy, and I wish it would stop. I wish I’d stop longing for the life and the face I can’t have. I act like a baby and bottle this hatred up.

Honestly I don't mean this in a rude way at all but you should probably seek a psychiatrist to be diagnosed with something you may have and be medicated. They MIGHT put you in a psychiatric hospital but it'd like only be for a week usually and thats really only if you're saying your have homicidal thoughts and even then they usually cant force you to either unless you have a plan made out.

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

Idk if this Is allowed here but I don’t know where to post this.

I know how bad this will sound, but I have this deep hatred in me for beautiful girls or girls who hang around conventionally attractive men and always talk about how hot men are. I have this superiority complex where I feel so much better for not fawning over men, and I find them shallow. If I hear girls talking about for example wanting tall guys or lightskins or muscle guys I get so angry and think about the hypocrisy and unfairness but not because I want men to choose me. It’s because I just get so angry that they can have that opinion and it’s normal (not that I would have or want that opinion ).

I want to have a crush without feeling creepy or hopeless.i just want to be able to have a crush and it’s the usual crush. I have a huge fantasy of being able to hang around boys and have them silently think about how hot I am, but I can’t, so I end up hating everyone involved in that culture. I get so angry inside. I hate it so much. I can’t watch anything to do with movies that have “bombshells” or a sex‑sell element as I just start thinking disgusting slut and if I see clips of girls hanging around guys like Clav, I feel my anger take over and I have to breathe. Those girls make me so angry I am not jealous of that part I just get so angry I can’t explain it I sometimes cry out of the anger.

It’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to pray to God that they get r***d. It’s so bad but I can’t help it it’s my initial reaction I just feel so strongly about it, I pray it happens to them by someone they find conventionally unattractive someone they see at the bottom of their internal social hierarchy so it hurts them more.

I don’t think I’m a misogynist. If a guy is disrespecting a woman, I’ll defend her, and I 100% believe in equal rights. I feel like this stems from jealousy, and I wish it would stop. I wish I’d stop longing for the life and the face I can’t have. I act like a baby and bottle this hatred up.

I was with you until you started praying for them to be r***d, well whatever you're probably average and have a shot at a decent guy