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How Watching Lots of Porn Affects Your Brain and Looksmaxxing Goals

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Thanks, I guess. I'd say I'm below average. I have a bad haircut, a big forehead, two scars around my eyes, negative canthal tilt and a bad face shape. The only thing I have going for me is my height, but since I live in the Netherlands, that doesn't matter anyway.
I bet if i would make a rating thread people will agree with me
 
I bet if i would make a rating thread people will agree with me
I find on looksmax there is a slight bias but irl I bet you would be considered higher than what people say. I try to account for real world attractiveness and not psl. Because psl is very cenert3d around photogenicness but not irl. Women like photogenic but irl matters much more in the end.
 
I was addicted to porn for the longest time. I knew it was hindering me so I took action. However for me I took an extra step and blocked porn sites on my home router and used apps that block it using a custom VPN that filters anything porn related. Of course if you absolutely couldn't keep it together. You would get past that but it was a good way to keep it away from easy access making it less accessible. This in turn made porn less part of my life. That's not to say I don't use porn but If I do it's purely off my girlfriend. I find that made me closer to her too.
What’s the vpn
 
Pi hole. It takes extra step but can effectively block anything on the internet related to porn or sexual content even images. Videos. It blocks ads too.
It’s on IOS?
 
Bru it costs money
Well you can make it if your technically inclined. I installed it on my windows PC for free. For your phone you need to get a dedicated device to function as the pi hole and re route your traffic to that through your router. It's for nerds tbh. But powerful
 
Well you can make it if your technically inclined. I installed it on my windows PC for free. For your phone you need to get a dedicated device to function as the pi hole and re route your traffic to that through your router. It's for nerds tbh. But powerful
Oh man I barely use my pc
 
That’s still bad imo but you could probably get away doing that with the soft core shit
yeah ik, its mostly for memes or someone who happened to post nsfw. and other accidental exposures. but its good to have strong will
 
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I find on looksmax there is a slight bias but irl I bet you would be considered higher than what people say. I try to account for real world attractiveness and not psl. Because psl is very cenert3d around photogenicness but not irl. Women like photogenic but irl matters much more in the end.
havent spoken to a women in 5 years
 
When thinking about improving your appearance, it's important to consider how watching a lot of porn can affect your brain. We often hear about how porn can mess with your mind, but looking at the changes it causes in your brain helps us understand why it's relevant to appearance improvement.

As many already know, porn isn't good for you, but understanding how it affects your brain is key.


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these are actual brain scans that show how much excessive porn usage Alters your brain structure and reward system in fact porn is so potent that it can damage and rewire your brain in the exact same way drug addiction would. How does pornography work, pornography triggers the release of dopamine a neurotransmitter responsible for pleasure and reward in the brain over time repeated exposure to pornography activates Delta fosb a molecule that regulates the reward system in your brain and accumulates when you engage in any addictive behavior this molecule basically acts like an electric switch in the brain and creates new neural Pathways in response to over stimulation AKA dopamine release from watching porn the more exposure to porn the more this switch goes off making it extremely difficult to quit the addiction because your brain is now wired to Crave it constantly the same way a person may crave a McDonald's cheeseburger or a hit of cocaine not in in that particular order if you notice that your urge for porn is persistent and even uncontrollable it may be time quit later more about that.


Why are so many people addicted to porn

One primary reason is that pornography triggers the brain's reward system by releasing dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reinforcement. This dopamine release creates a sense of euphoria and reinforces the behavior, leading to a cycle of craving and consumption similar to other addictive substances or activities. A person can develop a tolerance for pornography just as they would for alcohol or drugs, meaning they will continue to need more stimulation over time to achieve the same level of pleasure. This constant need for more stimulation can drive some people to seek out potentially dangerous sexual acts in real life.

Another contributing factor is psychological factors, such as stress, loneliness, or past trauma, which can also contribute to pornography addiction. For some individuals, pornography may serve as a coping mechanism or a way to escape from negative emotions or experiences.

Moreover, accessibility significantly contributes to the widespread addiction to pornography. With the proliferation of the internet and the anonymity it provides, accessing pornography has become easier than ever before. This accessibility, coupled with the variety and novelty of content available, can contribute to the development and escalation of addictive behaviors.

Overall, the addictive nature of pornography can be attributed to a complex interplay of biological, psychological, and social factors, making it a widespread and challenging issue to address.


Influences of Pornography on Brain Chemistry
Dopamine is not the only chemical in the brain affected by pornography. Other chemicals affected by pornography include norepinephrine, oxytocin, vasopressin, endorphins, and serotonin. When activated by porn, the combination of these chemicals can cause issues, including shrinkage, cravings, and chemical bonding. Shrinking of the brain’s frontal lobe can happen when someone abuses drugs, alcohol, or pornography. The frontal lobe is responsible for making rational decisions, so when this shrinkage occurs, so does a person’s ability to make sound decisions.

Furthermore, habituation to the effects of pornography over time can desensitize individuals, necessitating exposure to increasingly extreme content to achieve arousal. This escalation can progress from conventional pornography to more niche genres such as BDSM, fetish content, Transgender content and, alarmingly, illegal materials like child pornography. Such shifts in preferences are attributed to neuroadaptive changes in the brain's reward circuitry, exacerbating addictive tendencies and exacerbating the neurobiological alterations induced by pornography consumption.

The Impact of Pornography on Self-Image

Watching porn can also damage your self-image and self-esteem. When people constantly see unrealistic portrayals of bodies and sexual experiences in pornography, they may start comparing themselves unfavorably and feel inadequate. This can lead to feelings of insecurity, shame, and low self-worth. One reason this happens is because porn often features performers who have undergone extensive grooming, editing, and even cosmetic procedures to achieve a certain look. These idealized images create unrealistic standards that viewers may feel pressured to meet, leading to dissatisfaction with their own appearance and abilities.
Furthermore, watching a lot of porn can make people less sensitive to real intimacy and connection with others. This can make them see relationships in a distorted way, which can make them feel even worse about themselves. Studies back this up, showing a link between watching porn and feeling bad about yourself. Understanding how this works helps us see why it's important to learn how to think critically about media and build up our confidence.

Negative impact on relationships

if you've ever gone down the rabbit hole of pornography sites at least once in your life you probably know that there's a tremendous array of NSFW content Beyond any person's wildest imagination it's no wonder why real life sexual experiences and partners may have some trouble competing with the billions of porn images and videos available to the masses.
Research indicates that frequent consumption of pornography can indeed have negative consequences on real-life relationships. A study conducted by researchers at the University of Florida found that individuals who consumed pornography more frequently reported lower levels of relationship satisfaction and intimacy with their partners compared to those who consumed it less often or not at all.

One of the reasons for this is, excessive consumption of pornography can lead to desensitization and decreased arousal to real-life sexual stimuli. This can result in difficulties experiencing sexual satisfaction with a real-life partner, as the individual may require increasingly extreme or novel stimuli to become aroused.


Cognitive Impacts of Excessive Pornography Consumption
Excessive pornography consumption can also have detrimental effects on various aspects of life, including work, school, and cognitive functioning. When you spend significant amounts of time engaging with pornographic material, it can detract from their productivity and focus in academic or professional settings.

Moreover, frequent exposure to pornographic content can lead to cognitive impairments and reduced brain functionality. Studies have shown that excessive porn use can alter brain structure and function, affecting areas responsible for decision-making, impulse control, and cognitive processing. This can manifest as difficulties in concentrating, memory problems, and impaired judgment, ultimately impacting performance in academic or occupational endeavors.

Additionally, the addictive nature of pornography can lead to compulsive behaviors and cravings, further exacerbating distractions and impairments in cognitive function. As a result, individuals may experience difficulties in managing their time effectively, maintaining attention during tasks, and retaining information, all of which can have negative consequences for academic or professional success.


How can you quit porn
Recognizing and overcoming a porn addiction requires dedication, but with the right approach, it's possible to reclaim control over your life. Here's are some things you can do to try and help you quit.
  1. Distract yourself: When experiencing cravings for pornography, redirect your attention to alternative activities. Engage in physical exercise such as running, immerse yourself in reading a book, or clean your living space. Avoid using electronic devices during these times, as they can provide easy access to pornographic content and trigger urges.

  2. Build up social connections: Increase involvement in social activities to diminish the allure of pornography. Joining a gym, participating in sports, or becoming a member of a club can provide fulfilling experiences and divert attention away from pornographic material.

  3. Try incorporating mindfulness techniques into your daily routine to help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings and resist the urge to watch porn. You can start by practicing meditation when you wake up and before bed to clear your mind and build emotional strength. Taking cold showers might also help break your habit and reduce your desire to watch porn. The shock of the cold water can distract your brain and help you stay focused on staying sober.

  4. Limit social media usage: Reduce exposure to triggers by minimizing time spent on social media platforms. Social media often features content that can inadvertently stimulate cravings for pornography. By decreasing your online presence, you can mitigate the risk of encountering triggering material and better focus on healthier activities and interactions. Consider setting specific time limits for social media use or utilizing apps that block access to adult content. Redirect the time and energy saved from social media towards constructive pursuits that support your journey towards overcoming pornography addiction.

  5. Recognize Triggers: Identify the situations, emotions, or thoughts that typically precede the urge to engage with pornography. Understanding your triggers can empower you to develop effective coping strategies and alternative behaviors to manage cravings.

  6. Utilize supportive apps: Explore tools and resources designed to assist you in overcoming pornography addiction, such as the BrainBuddy app (available at brainbuddyapp.com). This app offers personalized support and guidance tailored to your specific needs and goals. With features including tracking progress, setting milestones, and accessing educational content, BrainBuddy can serve as a valuable companion on your journey to recovery.

  7. Engage in a community: Consider joining online forums such as the NoFap community (forum.nofap.com) where individuals striving to overcome pornography addiction gather to share experiences, offer encouragement, and provide accountability. Participating in such forums can offer a sense of solidarity and belonging as you connect with others facing similar challenges. By actively participating in discussions, sharing insights, and offering support to other users, you not only receive valuable guidance and motivation but also contribute to the collective effort towards recovery. Building a supportive network of like-minded individuals can empower you on your journey to break free from pornography addiction and foster lasting change in your life.
In conclusion

While porn might seem enjoyable, it carries risks. It can harm mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. So, it's important to be cautious and aware of its potential dangers, even if it's entertaining in the moment.

Lets quit porn together
Today is the day I commit to quitting porn. I'll share my journey and challenges here in the comments or update the thread as I go along.


(Also, if I've missed anything important in this post, please feel free to point it out since this is my first big post.)
great thread bro , I commit to quitting porn today too.
 
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When thinking about improving your appearance, it's important to consider how watching a lot of porn can affect your brain. We often hear about how porn can mess with your mind, but looking at the changes it causes in your brain helps us understand why it's relevant to appearance improvement.

As many already know, porn isn't good for you, but understanding how it affects your brain is key.


View attachment 29658

these are actual brain scans that show how much excessive porn usage Alters your brain structure and reward system in fact porn is so potent that it can damage and rewire your brain in the exact same way drug addiction would. How does pornography work, pornography triggers the release of dopamine a neurotransmitter responsible for pleasure and reward in the brain over time repeated exposure to pornography activates Delta fosb a molecule that regulates the reward system in your brain and accumulates when you engage in any addictive behavior this molecule basically acts like an electric switch in the brain and creates new neural Pathways in response to over stimulation AKA dopamine release from watching porn the more exposure to porn the more this switch goes off making it extremely difficult to quit the addiction because your brain is now wired to Crave it constantly the same way a person may crave a McDonald's cheeseburger or a hit of cocaine not in in that particular order if you notice that your urge for porn is persistent and even uncontrollable it may be time quit later more about that.


Why are so many people addicted to porn

One primary reason is that pornography triggers the brain's reward system by releasing dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reinforcement. This dopamine release creates a sense of euphoria and reinforces the behavior, leading to a cycle of craving and consumption similar to other addictive substances or activities. A person can develop a tolerance for pornography just as they would for alcohol or drugs, meaning they will continue to need more stimulation over time to achieve the same level of pleasure. This constant need for more stimulation can drive some people to seek out potentially dangerous sexual acts in real life.

Another contributing factor is psychological factors, such as stress, loneliness, or past trauma, which can also contribute to pornography addiction. For some individuals, pornography may serve as a coping mechanism or a way to escape from negative emotions or experiences.

Moreover, accessibility significantly contributes to the widespread addiction to pornography. With the proliferation of the internet and the anonymity it provides, accessing pornography has become easier than ever before. This accessibility, coupled with the variety and novelty of content available, can contribute to the development and escalation of addictive behaviors.

Overall, the addictive nature of pornography can be attributed to a complex interplay of biological, psychological, and social factors, making it a widespread and challenging issue to address.


Influences of Pornography on Brain Chemistry
Dopamine is not the only chemical in the brain affected by pornography. Other chemicals affected by pornography include norepinephrine, oxytocin, vasopressin, endorphins, and serotonin. When activated by porn, the combination of these chemicals can cause issues, including shrinkage, cravings, and chemical bonding. Shrinking of the brain’s frontal lobe can happen when someone abuses drugs, alcohol, or pornography. The frontal lobe is responsible for making rational decisions, so when this shrinkage occurs, so does a person’s ability to make sound decisions.

Furthermore, habituation to the effects of pornography over time can desensitize individuals, necessitating exposure to increasingly extreme content to achieve arousal. This escalation can progress from conventional pornography to more niche genres such as BDSM, fetish content, Transgender content and, alarmingly, illegal materials like child pornography. Such shifts in preferences are attributed to neuroadaptive changes in the brain's reward circuitry, exacerbating addictive tendencies and exacerbating the neurobiological alterations induced by pornography consumption.

The Impact of Pornography on Self-Image

Watching porn can also damage your self-image and self-esteem. When people constantly see unrealistic portrayals of bodies and sexual experiences in pornography, they may start comparing themselves unfavorably and feel inadequate. This can lead to feelings of insecurity, shame, and low self-worth. One reason this happens is because porn often features performers who have undergone extensive grooming, editing, and even cosmetic procedures to achieve a certain look. These idealized images create unrealistic standards that viewers may feel pressured to meet, leading to dissatisfaction with their own appearance and abilities.
Furthermore, watching a lot of porn can make people less sensitive to real intimacy and connection with others. This can make them see relationships in a distorted way, which can make them feel even worse about themselves. Studies back this up, showing a link between watching porn and feeling bad about yourself. Understanding how this works helps us see why it's important to learn how to think critically about media and build up our confidence.

Negative impact on relationships

if you've ever gone down the rabbit hole of pornography sites at least once in your life you probably know that there's a tremendous array of NSFW content Beyond any person's wildest imagination it's no wonder why real life sexual experiences and partners may have some trouble competing with the billions of porn images and videos available to the masses.
Research indicates that frequent consumption of pornography can indeed have negative consequences on real-life relationships. A study conducted by researchers at the University of Florida found that individuals who consumed pornography more frequently reported lower levels of relationship satisfaction and intimacy with their partners compared to those who consumed it less often or not at all.

One of the reasons for this is, excessive consumption of pornography can lead to desensitization and decreased arousal to real-life sexual stimuli. This can result in difficulties experiencing sexual satisfaction with a real-life partner, as the individual may require increasingly extreme or novel stimuli to become aroused.


Cognitive Impacts of Excessive Pornography Consumption
Excessive pornography consumption can also have detrimental effects on various aspects of life, including work, school, and cognitive functioning. When you spend significant amounts of time engaging with pornographic material, it can detract from their productivity and focus in academic or professional settings.

Moreover, frequent exposure to pornographic content can lead to cognitive impairments and reduced brain functionality. Studies have shown that excessive porn use can alter brain structure and function, affecting areas responsible for decision-making, impulse control, and cognitive processing. This can manifest as difficulties in concentrating, memory problems, and impaired judgment, ultimately impacting performance in academic or occupational endeavors.

Additionally, the addictive nature of pornography can lead to compulsive behaviors and cravings, further exacerbating distractions and impairments in cognitive function. As a result, individuals may experience difficulties in managing their time effectively, maintaining attention during tasks, and retaining information, all of which can have negative consequences for academic or professional success.


How can you quit porn
Recognizing and overcoming a porn addiction requires dedication, but with the right approach, it's possible to reclaim control over your life. Here's are some things you can do to try and help you quit.
  1. Distract yourself: When experiencing cravings for pornography, redirect your attention to alternative activities. Engage in physical exercise such as running, immerse yourself in reading a book, or clean your living space. Avoid using electronic devices during these times, as they can provide easy access to pornographic content and trigger urges.

  2. Build up social connections: Increase involvement in social activities to diminish the allure of pornography. Joining a gym, participating in sports, or becoming a member of a club can provide fulfilling experiences and divert attention away from pornographic material.

  3. Try incorporating mindfulness techniques into your daily routine to help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings and resist the urge to watch porn. You can start by practicing meditation when you wake up and before bed to clear your mind and build emotional strength. Taking cold showers might also help break your habit and reduce your desire to watch porn. The shock of the cold water can distract your brain and help you stay focused on staying sober.

  4. Limit social media usage: Reduce exposure to triggers by minimizing time spent on social media platforms. Social media often features content that can inadvertently stimulate cravings for pornography. By decreasing your online presence, you can mitigate the risk of encountering triggering material and better focus on healthier activities and interactions. Consider setting specific time limits for social media use or utilizing apps that block access to adult content. Redirect the time and energy saved from social media towards constructive pursuits that support your journey towards overcoming pornography addiction.

  5. Recognize Triggers: Identify the situations, emotions, or thoughts that typically precede the urge to engage with pornography. Understanding your triggers can empower you to develop effective coping strategies and alternative behaviors to manage cravings.

  6. Utilize supportive apps: Explore tools and resources designed to assist you in overcoming pornography addiction, such as the BrainBuddy app (available at brainbuddyapp.com). This app offers personalized support and guidance tailored to your specific needs and goals. With features including tracking progress, setting milestones, and accessing educational content, BrainBuddy can serve as a valuable companion on your journey to recovery.

  7. Engage in a community: Consider joining online forums such as the NoFap community (forum.nofap.com) where individuals striving to overcome pornography addiction gather to share experiences, offer encouragement, and provide accountability. Participating in such forums can offer a sense of solidarity and belonging as you connect with others facing similar challenges. By actively participating in discussions, sharing insights, and offering support to other users, you not only receive valuable guidance and motivation but also contribute to the collective effort towards recovery. Building a supportive network of like-minded individuals can empower you on your journey to break free from pornography addiction and foster lasting change in your life.
In conclusion

While porn might seem enjoyable, it carries risks. It can harm mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. So, it's important to be cautious and aware of its potential dangers, even if it's entertaining in the moment.

Lets quit porn together
Today is the day I commit to quitting porn. I'll share my journey and challenges here in the comments or update the thread as I go along.


(Also, if I've missed anything important in this post, please feel free to point it out since this is my first big post.)
quitting porn was one of the best things i ever did ik a lot of gay redpill self improvement guys say it a lot but it genuinely makes a difference
after some time
it deadass rots your brain and you cant see a female without thinking that typa stuff
 
No way in hell lmfao

Comparing porn to heroin is a joke

The study is BS, i thought it was a joke at first

To understand you need to do heroin (not rlly recommended)
giga necrobump, I don't think fapping is bad.

porn is bad for your mind, but heroin is a terrible drug that cant be compared
 
This site is inactive af, so necrobumps shouldnt be a warning reason. Its mod being an asshole if they warn
I'm not a mod, I just said necrobump because my ideas have changed significantly since then. Also necrobump isn't a warning reason if you give a good response to an old thread
 

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