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Hypergamy is a fucking meme

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ion think it is, its js a product of the patriarchy
 
It is so easy for foids to find someone to date, foids have it way easier.
I mean this as an actual question , technically the same number of men and women end up finding someone . Cause one couple would be one woman one man . I don't see how it's easier .
 

~—• @Yani •—~​


It is so easy for foids to find someone to date, foids have it way easier.

That's not hypergamy though, hypergamy is a person (and here it almost is exclusively women) dating up in mating, such as dating a man considered more objectively attractive than them, more wealthy than themselves, higher status, etc.

Hypergamy is exaggerated in these spaces.
 

~—• @Yani •—~​




That's not hypergamy though, hypergamy is a person (and here it almost is exclusively women) dating up in mating, such as dating a man considered more objectively attractive than them, more wealthy than themselves, higher status, etc.

Hypergamy is exaggerated in these spaces.
women should date up tho it’s so incel coded to think otherwise

we don’t have the risk of pregnancy and caring a baby for nine months just because of sex
 
Dating up is literally Hypergamy
yeah i know, hyperamy has been around since the dawn of time

it may be exaggerated by modern society, but it still should exist to an extent.

Complaining about it gets you no where it’s just a fact of life, and lowk how it should be
 

~—• @Yani •—~​




That's not hypergamy though, hypergamy is a person (and here it almost is exclusively women) dating up in mating, such as dating a man considered more objectively attractive than them, more wealthy than themselves, higher status, etc.

Hypergamy is exaggerated in these spaces.
Stop stop it's too much logic my brain is crumbling

I wish to be a victim
 
yeah i know, hyperamy has been around since the dawn of time

it may be exaggerated by modern society, but it still should exist to an extent.

Complaining about it gets you no where it’s just a fact of life, and lowk how it should be
I get why people complain, because it’s utter suffering
 

~—• @Yani •—~​




That's not hypergamy though, hypergamy is a person (and here it almost is exclusively women) dating up in mating, such as dating a man considered more objectively attractive than them, more wealthy than themselves, higher status, etc.

Hypergamy is exaggerated in these spaces.
what crime it is to try to guarantee a better future for your offspring

some men also do it anyway
 
what crime it is to try to guarantee a better future for your offspring

some men also do it anyway
Mostly women tho. If men try being a lil hypergamous they get rejected for obvious reasons
 
I get why people complain, because it’s utter suffering
yeah i guess i can understand and i definitely sympathize, but it could always be worse and you can always be better
 
If op is a foid no shit JFL her thinking it's a meme kek
 

~—• @unknown mtn •—~​





The more a couple is the same in each facet of their life, the less they run the risk of cheating, affairs, unloyal thoughts, dissatisfaction. (Not always the case by the way, but it can happen) There is literally studies on this.

Depends on what you mean by dating up though, if you mean dating up as in dating a responsible adult male who has the ability and resources to take care of himself and his family then I agree with you. But that would be quite unfair for the competent man if you have an incompetent woman. Incompetent partners should not have kids at all because they would do an absolute disservice to their kids.

If there is any hypergamy at all, it is more like the women date up in status and income and men date up in looks for LTR. Short term relationships are different however.



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Hypergamy spouted by todays manosphere:
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Although is chart is mainly for sexual partners, it also matches how mating works in real life.


yeah i agree it’s definitely exaggerated by modern society i just don’t understand the sense in complaining abt it instead of improving yourself to not be a victim of it
 

~—• @unknown mtn •—~​





The more a couple is the same in each facet of their life, the less they run the risk of cheating, affairs, unloyal thoughts, dissatisfaction. (Not always the case by the way, but it can happen) There is literally studies on this.

Depends on what you mean by dating up though, if you mean dating up as in dating a responsible adult male who has the ability and resources to take care of himself and his family then I agree with you. But that would be quite unfair for the competent man if you have an incompetent woman. Incompetent partners should not have kids at all because they would do an absolute disservice to their kids.

If there is any hypergamy at all, it is more like the women date up in status and income and men date up in looks for LTR. Short term relationships are different however.



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Hypergamy spouted by todays manosphere:
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Reality:

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Although is chart is mainly for sexual partners, it also matches how mating works in real life.



No it’s actually true, also Twitter is programmed to push discourse and division lmao

Most people don’t give a shit about dating up they just date whoever is in proximity to them

Look outside at who’s dating who

Who’s married to who
 
I don’t understand why folks waste their time online caring about all this dating and hypergamy bs it doesn’t affect reality

Life is not a rat race

Chill tf out and find someone who likes you for you
 

~—• @YesIamHuman •—~​


No it’s actually true, also Twitter is programmed to push discourse and division lmao

Most people don’t give a shit about dating up they just date whoever is in proximity to them

Look outside at who’s dating who

Who’s married to who
I don’t understand why folks waste their time online caring about all this dating and hypergamy bs it doesn’t affect reality

Life is not a rat race

Chill tf out and find someone who likes you for you

Wow an actual reasonable take on this forum?!
 
you literally cannot convince me otherwise .
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yea irl it’s the opposite usually
pretty girls dating average or below guys
every stacy married a guy that’s like mtn at best
i think its like a bell curve where uglyer girls and average girls want more attractive men while attractive women care less about looks
 
you literally cannot convince me otherwise .
Hypergamy exists in both gender. I mean look at dudes here, they wouldn't date a fatty ltb : They're hypergamist too, both gender try to get the best.

It is just more complex for women. In an ideal world women would like to found a 6'5 rich Chad who will treat her like a princess in public and like a whore in private. I mean this is the shelf of their favorite fantasy books.

IRL this man is extremely rare and he'll not even look at them. So they have to settle down for more normal, more average men, and the emotional attachement they have for him will overcompensate his lack of looks and his lack of money

You have also the girls who never got loved by their father, who haven't any ways to detect genuine love from the opposite gender, so they end-up dating the worst types of men (modern day moral wise) and could nuke the whole hypergamy theory. But we need to keep in mind that dating shit ass men today was probably the best survival genes thousand of years ago, well before that marriage contract exists, and well before men got involved with their biological kids.
 
tf bro its a product of women having way to high standads and being delusional tf r u talking abt
u sound retarted so i can understand why u think that way but usually when u dont have below average iq u can look into things further then their exact meaning, why do women have too high standards and why are they delusional, what caused that. sorry if this was too long for u im sure you have trouble comprehending this much info at once
 
u sound retarted so i can understand why u think that way but usually when u dont have below average iq u can look into things further then their exact meaning, why do women have too high standards and why are they delusional, what caused that. sorry if this was too long for u im sure you have trouble comprehending this much info at once
they do bc they overrate themselves. women overrate each other and boost their ego through the roof. yall trying to make everything mens fault huh
 
Most people aren’t actually hypergamous they date their looksmatch/status match/ IQ match/etc
this is true hypergamy is literally exaggerated and made up to make us feel like men unable to get a partner is a societal issue. also so much the male experience is centred over getting a woman and it comes to define their very masculinity and value in a way that getting a man for a woman doesnt. women are able to cope better with singleness than men (and are single at similar rates as men) and so the issue is not that women are hypergamous and we should blame them, its that men literally suck as coping with being alone and instead blame women for it.
 
they do bc they overrate themselves. women overrate each other and boost their ego through the roof. yall trying to make everything mens fault huh
this is a false problem even if women overrate each other most people end up with a similar looksmatch anyways. who cares if a girl thinks shes beautiful when she "really isn't" (whatever that means).
 

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