i cant like a guy who likes me

[Aryy]

i simply cant,
its like something idk i only like someone if i think they like me but its not sure
but if its sure they like me i dont like them (for long)
i wonder why

 

[nomi]

i simply cant,
its like something idk i only like someone if i think they like me but its not sure
but if its sure they like me i dont like them (for long)
i wonder why

idk if you've been thru any past relationships but stuff like this stems from unhealthy relationships/unfair treatment in general. it's also hard for me to accept someone genuinely likes me after all the shit that's happened to me

the guy that likes you (or guys in general) do you know them well? cus I can understand being confused with the fact someone likes you when you barely know them and they barely know you

 

[Deleted Member 74605]

Yeah im the same way

 

[kifykify]

Nobody likes you here doe, rite️

 

[Deleted member 77539]

no girl has ever liked me tbh

 

[kifykify]

no girl has ever liked me tbh

Geimaxx with Seven Kayne

 

[Aryy]

idk if you've been thru any past relationships but stuff like this stems from unhealthy relationships/unfair treatment in general. it's also hard for me to accept someone genuinely likes me after all the shit that's happened to me

the guy that likes you (or guys in general) do you know them well? cus I can understand being confused with the fact someone likes you when you barely know them and they barely know you

this has always been the case for me tbh,
i only liked my first ex after he confessed (i rejected) so he distanced himself so i started liking him
its just, i find it so hard to show affection
i remember with my ex i couldnt even say i love you it was so hard for me

maybe the fact that i need to show affection becomes too much for me

 

[Deleted member 77539]

Geimaxx with Seven Kayne
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I need to ascend holy

 

[nomi]

this has always been the case for me tbh,
i only liked my first ex after he confessed (i rejected) so he distanced himself so i started liking him
its just, i find it so hard to show affection
i remember with my ex i couldnt even say i love you it was so hard for me

maybe the fact that i need to show affection becomes too much for me

why is it hard for you to show affection? maybe that's something you need to work on before thinking about guys and relationships, all that's gonna do is make you overthink and wonder "what's wrong with me?" if you cant show affection rn try to understand yourself as in acknowledging things in the past that could've made you like that.

I hope things get better for u bby

 

[kifykify]

I need to ascend holy

To fuck twinks like Seven Kayne, or to be like them️

 

[Deleted member 77539]

To fuck twinks like Seven Kayne, or to be like them️

So I can slay foids

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

i simply cant,
its like something idk i only like someone if i think they like me but its not sure
but if its sure they like me i dont like them (for long)
i wonder why

Cooked

 

[Looksaretheproblem]

no girl has ever liked me tbh

Same "looksaretheproblem"

 

[Deleted member 77539]

Same "looksaretheproblem"

Indeed

 

[Aryy]

why is it hard for you to show affection? maybe that's something you need to work on before thinking about guys and relationships, all that's gonna do is make you overthink and wonder "what's wrong with me?" if you cant show affection rn try to understand yourself as in acknowledging things in the past that could've made you like that.

I hope things get better for u bby

i wish i knew why i cant,
im too shy i always hide my feelings or atleast try to
its really bad it has always affected my friendships and relationships even family

 

[Looksaretheproblem]

Indeed

Also being 6'2 isnt exactly a halo when i look like a turd

 

[Deleted member 77539]

Also being 6'2 isnt exactly a halo when i look like a turd

Brutal

 

[nomi]

i wish i knew why i cant,
im too shy i always hide my feelings or atleast try to
its really bad it has always affected my friendships and relationships even family

try to open up more little by little, you're a nice person imo so being more engaged with family and friends (if you're on good terms with them) will help out a lot. you don't have to be loud or try making jokes all the time but simply talking and hanging out with them can be considered as affection. im shy too whenever I'm around people I don't rlly know like that but just enjoy the moment ^^

 

[Aryy]

try to open up more little by little, you're a nice person imo so being more engaged with family and friends (if you're on good terms with them) will help out a lot. you don't have to be loud or try making jokes all the time but simply talking and hanging out with them can be considered as affection. im shy too whenever I'm around people I don't rlly know like that but just enjoy the moment ^^

even with friends i cant show affection,
even with my bestfriend i cant
i cant hang out with people too much, i always end up going quiet i like being alone.
i just feel like im doomed to be like forever, and i wouldnt even mind it but its not normal i think
i also feel like because this no one should actually like me in the sense they see a future with me,
id probably be horrible

 

[nomi]

even with friends i cant show affection,
even with my bestfriend i cant
i cant hang out with people too much, i always end up going quiet i like being alone.
i just feel like im doomed to be like forever, and i wouldnt even mind it but its not normal i think
i also feel like because this no one should actually like me in the sense they see a future with me,
id probably be horrible

well there has to be a reason why you have friends? thru being affectionate or not people still like you. it's good to be alone but when you do it too much you start isolating yourself from everyone.

don't say you "cant" give it a try and see how it goes
sometimes you have to force yourself to do it, easier said then done but still

 

[Aryy]

well there has to be a reason why you have friends? thru being affectionate or not people still like you. it's good to be alone but when you do it too much you start isolating yourself from everyone.

don't say you "cant" give it a try and see how it goes
sometimes you have to force yourself to do it, easier said then done but still

yeah im kinda isolating myself right now,
well im not bad at friendships atleast even if i dont show affection we still have fun
i just think in terms of relationships im doomed

 

[nonu]

DNR TBH

i simply cant,
its like something idk i only like someone if i think they like me but its not sure
but if its sure they like me i dont like them (for long)
i wonder why

 

[Aryy]

DNR TBH


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how n*****s change after getting a reply from angel

 

[nomi]

yeah im kinda isolating myself right now,
well im not bad at friendships atleast even if i dont show affection we still have fun
i just think in terms of relationships im doomed

oh okayy, aye you're still having fun tho imo you don't rlly need to focus on getting a boyfriend cus everytime you decide to get with someone (okay I'm not trying to sound rude I'm sorry) but unfortunately ppl get turned off by partners who aren't affectionate. they're gonna get hurt and you're also going to get hurt cus you'll constantly question why you can't show that type of emotion

 

[TonyDr]

i simply cant,
its like something idk i only like someone if i think they like me but its not sure
but if its sure they like me i dont like them (for long)
i wonder why

Women are wired backwards 101

 

[Aryy]

oh okayy, aye you're still having fun tho imo you don't rlly need to focus on getting a boyfriend cus everytime you decide to get with someone (okay I'm not trying to sound rude I'm sorry) but unfortunately ppl get turned off by partners who aren't affectionate. they're gonna get hurt and you're also going to get hurt cus you'll constantly question why you can't show that type of emotion

yeah exactly,
even if im obsessed over someone i will hide it but im only obsessed if they dont like me for sure only like a hint if they do
so its over either way lol
if someone likes me romantically clearly it turns me off after a while

 

[Galvatron]

I don’t really care?

 

[nomi]

I don’t really care?

shut your mouth

 

[nonu]

how n*****s change after getting a reply from angel

Check DC tho

 

[Spongebob CirclePants]

even with friends i cant show affection,
even with my bestfriend i cant
i cant hang out with people too much, i always end up going quiet i like being alone.
i just feel like im doomed to be like forever, and i wouldnt even mind it but its not normal i think
i also feel like because this no one should actually like me in the sense they see a future with me,
id probably be horrible

Damn, i also feel the same for some reason

I somehow like can't stick too long with someone/with a group without feeling like the odd one out and kind of watching from the sidelines while everyone talks with eachother

Do you have self-esteem problems? Do you bring yourself down often? Sorry if the questions are too personal

 

[Aryy]

Damn, i also feel the same for some reason

I somehow like can't stick too long with someone/with a group without feeling like the odd one out and kind of watching from the sidelines while everyone talks with eachother

Do you have self-esteem problems? Do you bring yourself down often? Sorry if the questions are too personal

i always feel odd in groups simply because i dont speak, i just prefer to watch
i dont know if i have self-esteem problems, i dont think i have them
i like myself i think
do u
but well, i think i wont speak much if im not sure if the other person likes me
probably why im so shy

 

[Spongebob CirclePants]

i always feel odd in groups simply because i dont speak, i just prefer to watch
i dont know if i have self-esteem problems, i dont think i have them
i like myself i think
do u
but well, i think i wont speak much if im not sure if the other person likes me
probably why im so shy

Then the problem is just so minimal like

If you are not sure if the other person likes you, try to ask yourself why you are with him/her/the group in the first place? By the impression you give here you seem a cool person, just get that off your mind and just talk like hes your best friend yk

 

[Aryy]

Then the problem is just so minimal like

If you are not sure if the other person likes you, try to ask yourself why you are with him/her/the group in the first place? By the impression you give here you seem a cool person, just get that off your mind and just talk like hes your best friend yk

well i know my friends like me
its also that im too lazy to pay attention in groups sometimes if it doesnt interest me
so i know theres a chance people will stop liking me because of it
thats why i try to hide what i feel i think

 

[eternal love]

I had a g**k gf, she liked me a lot but I found her disgusting

 

[pompompurino]

therapy

 

[eternal love]

DNR TBH


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[Spongebob CirclePants]

well i know my friends like me
its also that im too lazy to pay attention in groups sometimes if it doesnt interest me
so i know theres a chance people will stop liking me because of it
thats why i try to hide what i feel i think

If the discussion just doesn't interest you that's fine

And why would people just start hating you for being quieter? I assure you this almost never happens, and if it does they're probably not even worth it for you to consider them

 

[Aryy]

If the discussion just doesn't interest you that's fine

And why would people just start hating you for being quieter? I assure you this almost never happens, and if it does they're probably not even worth it for you to consider them

that has happened before,
when i was a child some girls tried talking to me but i really wasnt interested
what i hate is i cant fake interest or lie properly
so they hated me because of it,

 

[Spongebob CirclePants]

that has happened before,
when i was a child some girls tried talking to me but i really wasnt interested
what i hate is i cant fake interest or lie properly
so they hated me because of it,

Childhood is a whole other context, if the person you have near you has a bit of maturity eould even find your trait quirky or special

Just leave that behind man

 

[Aryy]

Childhood is a whole other context, if the person you have near you has a bit of maturity eould even find your trait quirky or special

Just leave that behind man

happened in early high school too
i used to sit with a girl, idk i dint like her humour i just used to smile
slowly she started hating me and stuff
i think people just dont like quiet people

 

[Spongebob CirclePants]

happened in early high school too
i used to sit with a girl, idk i dint like her humour i just used to smile
slowly she started hating me and stuff
i think people just dont like quiet people

Who cares about a random girl anyway?

 

[Aryy]

Who cares about a random girl anyway?

yeah but i think its a general thing
im too lazy or shy to talk in a way if im not interested
just makes me doomed in a way

 

[Spongebob CirclePants]

yeah but i think its a general thing
im too lazy or shy to talk in a way if im not interested
just makes me doomed in a way

It doesn't

It's not like you have no life

I just suggest you to not overthink it

 

[Aryy]

It doesn't

It's not like you have no life

I just suggest you to not overthink it

i mean,
it just has always impacted me and all my relationships

 

[iblamexyz]

i simply cant,
its like something idk i only like someone if i think they like me but its not sure
but if its sure they like me i dont like them (for long)
i wonder why

Even foids have a oneitis this is news to me

 

[Aryy]

Even foids have a oneitis this is news to me

not exactly like that

 

[iblamexyz]

not exactly like that

Water because you can get with any guy you want

 

[Spongebob CirclePants]

i mean,
it just has always impacted me and all my relationships

How much? And has it REALLY impacted your relationships by a margin abitually? If it did, it's most likely their problem. You can't just change your persona like that just for them, if they seemed really affected by it may them just fuck off you know

 

[Aryy]

How much? And has it REALLY impacted your relationships by a margin abitually? If it did, it's most likely their problem. You can't just change your persona like that just for them, if they seemed really affected by it may them just fuck off you know

has always affected it ngl,
i mean my friends are used to it but if i meet a new person they really arent
i can talk alot if well, we are close i like them etc
but with most of my irls i really dont care personally so it affects it yk

 

[perculez]

i remember liking a girl for about 2 years and when she finally showed some interest i lost feelings