I dont think i can like anyone

[Aryy]

i mean i can but its just attachment i cant fully trust them
just knowing they liked others before
its weird and i know everyone has liked someone before

but its just like think about it in detail

 

[victorique]

i mean i can but its just attachment i cant fully trust them
just knowing they liked others before
its weird and i know everyone has liked someone before

but its just like think about it in detail

you don't have to anyway

 

[TFC]

i mean i can but its just attachment i cant fully trust them
just knowing they liked others before
its weird and i know everyone has liked someone before

but its just like think about it in detail

your a foid, so this isn’t surprising

 

[icnone]

just knowing they liked others before

me when people who save themselves for marriage does not exist in 2026

 

[Nenestar]

i just want a lap to lay on

 

[icnone]

your a foid, so this isn’t surprising

nah tbh this is more incel behavior than foid behavior

 

[Deleted Member 121099]

i mean i can but its just attachment i cant fully trust them
just knowing they liked others before
its weird and i know everyone has liked someone before

but its just like think about it in detail

like yourself

 

[PeoplePleaser]

Best way to put it is this.
Most people with a shit social construction of relationships think like this, but you have to understand most that get into a relationship aren't perfect even if they dated before. You compromise and learn about does and don'ts and don't build trust immediately. It comes in time.

That's why some friendships that turn into a romantic relationship sometimes fail, because there is so much more to learn about the other person.


You're probably just kept to yourself and aren't understanding of your own emotional wants. You'll come around when you feel that infatuation with someone.

 

[Deleted Member 119067]

Arya ban may 1st

 

[Aryy]

That's why some friendships that turn into a romantic relationship sometimes fail, because there is so much more to learn about the other person.

thats probably the best way to get into a relationship

You'll come around when you feel that infatuation with someone.

probably but thinking of this stuff would make me upset

 

[Deleted Member 119067]

Arya ban may 1st

Nvm idk why I said that

 

[splanky]

i mean i can but its just attachment i cant fully trust them
just knowing they liked others before
its weird and i know everyone has liked someone before

but its just like think about it in detail

hi so i completely agree but i cant think rn can i come back tmr and give my input

 

[PeoplePleaser]

probably but thinking of this stuff would make me upset

Ask yourself questions about why it makes you upset and narrow it down to a better understanding.

 

[Nenestar]

i can adopt you

 

[Splankу]

i mean i can but its just attachment i cant fully trust them
just knowing they liked others before
its weird and i know everyone has liked someone before

but its just like think about it in detail

Retatded nih

 

[Aryy]

i can adopt you

3rd time

 

[Aryy]

Retatded nih

elaborate

 

[Splankу]

elaborate

Tf you mean you don’t like people that liked people before

 

[victorique]

elaborate

no need tbh

 

[Splankу]

no need tbh

Tbh

 

[Aryy]

Tf you mean you don’t like people that liked people before

its weird and i know everyone has liked someone before

 

[victorique]

Tbh

she just wants to please people

 

[Aryy]

she just wants to please people

how?

 

[Splankу]

she just wants to please people

Ooohhh she’s a people pleaser

 

[victorique]

how?

i'm joking arya

 

[junebug]

i mean i can but its just attachment i cant fully trust them
just knowing they liked others before
its weird and i know everyone has liked someone before

but its just like think about it in detail

welcome to the club

 

[TFC]

nah tbh this is more incel behavior than foid behavior

Getting attention and not giving giving it back = foid

Getting no attention and wanting to give attention to someone = incel

 

[icnone]

Getting attention and not giving giving it back = foid

Getting no attention and wanting to give attention to someone = incel

- caring about partner's past = incel trait
- anxious/disorganized attachment = incel (shit ton of bullying will do that to you)

 

[TFC]

- caring about partner's past = incel trait
- anxious/disorganized attachment = incel (shit ton of bullying will do that to you)

Incels don’t have partners, your trying to LARP and act like you have it bad and your just like a incel… your not.
I wouldn’t even call myself a incel and I am unable to get a partner while trying HARD. you got bullied and you have attachment problems does not make you anything close to a incel

 

[Penalizer69]

Imagine how you'd feel if noone ever gave you a chance just because you liked others before. Relationships end for a reason. especially during teen years most relationships are horrible, but they're neccasary for growth in every way. Simply put if they didn't have those experiences they wouldn't be the person you care about. The only thing that matters is being the best they ever had, which is fully in your control.

It's an irrational feeling likely routed in trauma and/or brainrot. You have to overcome it head first and stop your rumination. Understand the root of the problem and learn to control your thoughts.

The beauty of love is the fright of trust

 

[icnone]

Incels don’t have partners, your trying to LARP and act like you have it bad and your just like a incel… your not.
I wouldn’t even call myself a incel and I am unable to get a partner while trying HARD. you got bullied and you have attachment problems does not make you anything close to a incel

n***a I look subhuman too and have zero friends
if I have zero friends how can I even hope to even have a partner?

 

[UnconventionallyAutistic]

The guy who cracked for the first time:

His virginity was a major mental block affecting his self-image. After you came into his life and showed him how it required no effort at all, you enlightened him.

Now, his attention has shifted towards pursuing more "appealing" conquests.

 

[Aryy]

Imagine how you'd feel if noone ever gave you a chance just because you liked others before. Relationships end for a reason. especially during teen years most relationships are horrible, but they're neccasary for growth in every way. Simply put if they didn't have those experiences they wouldn't be the person you care about. The only thing that matters is being the best they ever had, which is fully in your control.

It's an irrational feeling likely routed in trauma and/or brainrot. You have to overcome it head first and stop your rumination. Understand the root of the problem and learn to control your thoughts.

The beauty of love is the fright of trust
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Thank you, you’re right i appreciate it