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Serious i hate my girlfriend but i'm attached

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also i've talked to her about most of this. i never told her i hate her or wanting to leave, just that the past bothers me and her communication and availability issues
 
quartermaster said:
me and my girl been tg twice in the last year and a half. she cheated on me wit a woman at a party the first time and didn't break up with her old online bf and lied to everyone about it (me, her friends, etc). so i left her after that.

about 8 or so months after that we got back tg and it was chill until i noticed the following.

we're both young so we still live with our parents and we aren't able to see each other that much. like once every 1.5 months typically. she's very unavailable and is just a horrible communicator online. we never call because she's too tired from college or work, rarely hang out because of the reasons listed above, and her texting is terrible and inconsistent. i've talked to her about all of this multiple times and nothing has come of it.

she can't really change any of that because she's just busy.

because of what happened the first time around i constantly worried about her cheating on me again. only in the past day has that fear went away.

the reason i don't worry anymore is because i just feel nothing now. i don't feel love towards her like i used to, i just feel possessive. i don't want her to get with someone else, but at the same time i've grown to hate her and now i want to leave but i'm attached.

you guys will call me a cuck for staying with her but it made sense with me in my mind at the time.

the last time we met up i felt physically sick around her for the first half hour. i get frequent bouts of hatred towards her and how she acts.

part of what's keeping me stuck is that we broke up before it could get intimate since it'd be both our firsts. i've never experienced that with her so i'm always wondering if we got closer like that then things would change between us and we would get better.

now it almost feels like if she cheats again i can be free and leave without any what ifs.

i don't love my girlfriend. i just have this weird attachment to her. how do i stop it and move on with my life?
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You already know what u gotta do bro
 
quartermaster said:
me and my girl been tg twice in the last year and a half. she cheated on me wit a woman at a party the first time and didn't break up with her old online bf and lied to everyone about it (me, her friends, etc). so i left her after that.

about 8 or so months after that we got back tg and it was chill until i noticed the following.

we're both young so we still live with our parents and we aren't able to see each other that much. like once every 1.5 months typically. she's very unavailable and is just a horrible communicator online. we never call because she's too tired from college or work, rarely hang out because of the reasons listed above, and her texting is terrible and inconsistent. i've talked to her about all of this multiple times and nothing has come of it.

she can't really change any of that because she's just busy.

because of what happened the first time around i constantly worried about her cheating on me again. only in the past day has that fear went away.

the reason i don't worry anymore is because i just feel nothing now. i don't feel love towards her like i used to, i just feel possessive. i don't want her to get with someone else, but at the same time i've grown to hate her and now i want to leave but i'm attached.

you guys will call me a cuck for staying with her but it made sense with me in my mind at the time.

the last time we met up i felt physically sick around her for the first half hour. i get frequent bouts of hatred towards her and how she acts.

part of what's keeping me stuck is that we broke up before it could get intimate since it'd be both our firsts. i've never experienced that with her so i'm always wondering if we got closer like that then things would change between us and we would get better.

now it almost feels like if she cheats again i can be free and leave without any what ifs.

i don't love my girlfriend. i just have this weird attachment to her. how do i stop it and move on with my life?
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genuinely leave,the attachement and resentment will worsen with time
 
quartermaster said:
i shouldn't of gotten back with her. i regret letting the attachment come back. i made it so much harder than it had to be. i cut off so many women just to be with her
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leave now dont fall for the sunk cost fallacy
 
quartermaster said:
she's going to university across the country from me in a year as well. i'm in the UK so it's drivable but that'll make it even worse. it's so cooked
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say u dont want to be long distance,ik many ppl who broke up now before Alevel summer bcs of going to different unis.You have full control
 
quartermaster said:
me and my girl been tg twice in the last year and a half. she cheated on me wit a woman at a party the first time and didn't break up with her old online bf and lied to everyone about it (me, her friends, etc). so i left her after that.

about 8 or so months after that we got back tg and it was chill until i noticed the following.

we're both young so we still live with our parents and we aren't able to see each other that much. like once every 1.5 months typically. she's very unavailable and is just a horrible communicator online. we never call because she's too tired from college or work, rarely hang out because of the reasons listed above, and her texting is terrible and inconsistent. i've talked to her about all of this multiple times and nothing has come of it.

she can't really change any of that because she's just busy.

because of what happened the first time around i constantly worried about her cheating on me again. only in the past day has that fear went away.

the reason i don't worry anymore is because i just feel nothing now. i don't feel love towards her like i used to, i just feel possessive. i don't want her to get with someone else, but at the same time i've grown to hate her and now i want to leave but i'm attached.

you guys will call me a cuck for staying with her but it made sense with me in my mind at the time.

the last time we met up i felt physically sick around her for the first half hour. i get frequent bouts of hatred towards her and how she acts.

part of what's keeping me stuck is that we broke up before it could get intimate since it'd be both our firsts. i've never experienced that with her so i'm always wondering if we got closer like that then things would change between us and we would get better.

now it almost feels like if she cheats again i can be free and leave without any what ifs.

i don't love my girlfriend. i just have this weird attachment to her. how do i stop it and move on with my life?
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You should just sext her and try to make her attached to you and then cheat
 
tami_26 said:
say u dont want to be long distance,ik many ppl who broke up now before Alevel summer bcs of going to different unis.You have full control
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dat sunk cost fallacy thing you said got me thinking. i genuinely think i just got back with her because she's the only girl i felt compatible with

i am going to leave her and get my life back. just need to work up the courage. it'll be done though
 
quartermaster said:
genuinely think i just got back with her because she's the only girl i felt compatible with
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thats usually what it is unfortunately,however precipitation doesnt equal the truth
quartermaster said:
i am going to leave her and get my life back. just need to work up the courage. it'll be done though
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best choice of your life,the quicker the better.Dont waste your finite life on this
 
tami_26 said:
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brother threw the dayouth card so quick,astaggy
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quartermaster said:
me and my girl been tg twice in the last year and a half. she cheated on me wit a woman at a party the first time and didn't break up with her old online bf and lied to everyone about it (me, her friends, etc). so i left her after that.

about 8 or so months after that we got back tg and it was chill until i noticed the following.

we're both young so we still live with our parents and we aren't able to see each other that much. like once every 1.5 months typically. she's very unavailable and is just a horrible communicator online. we never call because she's too tired from college or work, rarely hang out because of the reasons listed above, and her texting is terrible and inconsistent. i've talked to her about all of this multiple times and nothing has come of it.

she can't really change any of that because she's just busy.

because of what happened the first time around i constantly worried about her cheating on me again. only in the past day has that fear went away.

the reason i don't worry anymore is because i just feel nothing now. i don't feel love towards her like i used to, i just feel possessive. i don't want her to get with someone else, but at the same time i've grown to hate her and now i want to leave but i'm attached.

you guys will call me a cuck for staying with her but it made sense with me in my mind at the time.

the last time we met up i felt physically sick around her for the first half hour. i get frequent bouts of hatred towards her and how she acts.

part of what's keeping me stuck is that we broke up before it could get intimate since it'd be both our firsts. i've never experienced that with her so i'm always wondering if we got closer like that then things would change between us and we would get better.

now it almost feels like if she cheats again i can be free and leave without any what ifs.

i don't love my girlfriend. i just have this weird attachment to her. how do i stop it and move on with my life?
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I used to be like this bru😭
 
quartermaster said:
me and my girl been tg twice in the last year and a half. she cheated on me wit a woman at a party the first time and didn't break up with her old online bf and lied to everyone about it (me, her friends, etc). so i left her after that.

about 8 or so months after that we got back tg and it was chill until i noticed the following.

we're both young so we still live with our parents and we aren't able to see each other that much. like once every 1.5 months typically. she's very unavailable and is just a horrible communicator online. we never call because she's too tired from college or work, rarely hang out because of the reasons listed above, and her texting is terrible and inconsistent. i've talked to her about all of this multiple times and nothing has come of it.

she can't really change any of that because she's just busy.

because of what happened the first time around i constantly worried about her cheating on me again. only in the past day has that fear went away.

the reason i don't worry anymore is because i just feel nothing now. i don't feel love towards her like i used to, i just feel possessive. i don't want her to get with someone else, but at the same time i've grown to hate her and now i want to leave but i'm attached.

you guys will call me a cuck for staying with her but it made sense with me in my mind at the time.

the last time we met up i felt physically sick around her for the first half hour. i get frequent bouts of hatred towards her and how she acts.

part of what's keeping me stuck is that we broke up before it could get intimate since it'd be both our firsts. i've never experienced that with her so i'm always wondering if we got closer like that then things would change between us and we would get better.

now it almost feels like if she cheats again i can be free and leave without any what ifs.

i don't love my girlfriend. i just have this weird attachment to her. how do i stop it and move on with my life
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break up with this whore

just channel ur energy into yourself itll be hard at first but youll find your stride and be glad you u did
 
quartermaster said:
me and my girl been tg twice in the last year and a half. she cheated on me wit a woman at a party the first time and didn't break up with her old online bf and lied to everyone about it (me, her friends, etc). so i left her after that.

about 8 or so months after that we got back tg and it was chill until i noticed the following.

we're both young so we still live with our parents and we aren't able to see each other that much. like once every 1.5 months typically. she's very unavailable and is just a horrible communicator online. we never call because she's too tired from college or work, rarely hang out because of the reasons listed above, and her texting is terrible and inconsistent. i've talked to her about all of this multiple times and nothing has come of it.

she can't really change any of that because she's just busy.

because of what happened the first time around i constantly worried about her cheating on me again. only in the past day has that fear went away.

the reason i don't worry anymore is because i just feel nothing now. i don't feel love towards her like i used to, i just feel possessive. i don't want her to get with someone else, but at the same time i've grown to hate her and now i want to leave but i'm attached.

you guys will call me a cuck for staying with her but it made sense with me in my mind at the time.

the last time we met up i felt physically sick around her for the first half hour. i get frequent bouts of hatred towards her and how she acts.

part of what's keeping me stuck is that we broke up before it could get intimate since it'd be both our firsts. i've never experienced that with her so i'm always wondering if we got closer like that then things would change between us and we would get better.

now it almost feels like if she cheats again i can be free and leave without any what ifs.

i don't love my girlfriend. i just have this weird attachment to her. how do i stop it and move on with my life?
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stop being a cuck should’ve completely left her after the first thing she did , I openly told my girl if I see her talk to another guy or be friends with another guy I’m breaking up w her, u should’ve communicated it before tbh
 
It hurts man I’ve been there. i wouldn’t even know where to start. When you want to leave but you can’t stomach being without them.

When I was younger I almost killed a girlfriend over something like this. She was such a bad communicator and ignored me so much. It made me feel so worthless and unlovable. One night when we were hanging out (once a month if lucky) we started kissing. I normally would choke her while we kissed but this time I just felt something telling me to grab onto her throat viciously. I wouldn’t let go. I kept kissing her the whole time too and she would try to pull away from me and I would just grab her neck harder and face it towards my lips. She started turning purple and I let go. I remember thinking she was going to call the cops on me or something as soon as I let go. She got up but only made it a few steps before falling. I held her from falling and sat her down and sat beside her holding her hand. We kissed a little after too but I think she was scared of me and just didn’t want me to become angered again.


If I had to give you a word of encouragement I would say “recognize these broods of vipers do not deserve your sensitive loving heart”.
 
I didnt really reae but if you dont like the person split your way
 
quartermaster said:
also i've talked to her about most of this. i never told her i hate her or wanting to leave, just that the past bothers me and her communication and availability issues
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The cuck throne is in the corner, if her communication skills and emotional availability are that bad you just need to cut your losses and leave
 
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