I hate my shit skin life

[milkjar]

I will never be able to get surgeries

I will never have a beautiful white partner

I will always be trapped in this ethnic prison

 

[Nbernical]

I will never be able to get surgeries

wdym

 

[Duracel]

I will never have a beautiful white partner

Idk where you live but go to Europe and you'll find your white girl bro

 

[milkjar]

wdym

dude surgeries when you convert the costs from USD is months worth of salary in 3rd world countries, I genuinely jfl when stupid shit skin teenagers on these forums think they'll realistically some how afford surgery one day despite living in the slums of karachi or some shit

 

[milkjar]

white girl

who's gonna tell him?

 

[🪢]

I will never be able to get surgeries

I will never have a beautiful white partner

I will always be trapped in this ethnic prison

Ova

 

[Quncho]

I will never be able to get surgeries

I will never have a beautiful white partner

I will always be trapped in this ethnic prison

Ye keep coping while me, @AuggyDauggy and @Sovvton X ascend. no excuses at the end of the day. I don't want to be on my death bed one day saying I didn't ascend cuz I was black.

 

[milkjar]

Ye keep coping while me, @AuggyDauggy and @Sovvton X ascend. no excuses at the end of the day. I don't want to be on my death bed one day saying I didn't ascend cuz I was black.

i'm not talking about white girls btw

 

[SoycietyReject]

I will never be able to get surgeries

I will never have a beautiful white partner

I will always be trapped in this ethnic prison

Film scat/degrading raceplay porn

 

[A_ron_koolaidcomversion]

Ye keep coping while me, @AuggyDauggy and @Sovvton X ascend. no excuses at the end of the day. I don't want to be on my death bed one day saying I didn't ascend cuz I was black.

The real cope is thinking everyone can ascend

 

[SoycietyReject]

The real cope is thinking everyone can ascend

Everyone can with surgery but it isn't possible for everyone because it isn't very cheap

 

[milkjar]

The real cope is thinking everyone can ascend

I'm not talking about getting girls btw

who's gonna tell yall

 

[Quncho]

The real cope is thinking everyone can ascend

Anyone and everyone can ascend as long as they are physically able. Which is the vast majority of the population. And if you're on this forum then there's a likely chance you can

 

[A_ron_koolaidcomversion]

Anyone and everyone can ascend as long as they are physically able. Which is the vast majority of the population. And if you're on this forum then there's a likely chance you can

But there is also the mental side. You can go on .org and look at even the users with 10k+ posts and they haven’t done anything to ascend. Most people arent meant to ascend because of this

 

[apatheia]

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But there is also the mental side. You can go on .org and look at even the users with 10k+ posts and they haven’t done anything to ascend. Most people arent meant to ascend because of this

But they still have the ability to.

 

[milkjar]

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But they still have the ability to.

bro forgot to switch accounts

 

[A_ron_koolaidcomversion]

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But they still have the ability to.

Physically yes. But genetic determinism goes fruther then looks. Most people don’t ascend because it’s simply just not in them. There has to be backround characters in every story

 

[Sovvton X]

I will never be able to get surgeries

I will never have a beautiful white partner

I will always be trapped in this ethnic prison

Atp its just larp for rep and thats sad

 

[apatheia]

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Physically yes. But genetic determinism goes fruther then looks. Most people don’t ascend because it’s simply just not in them. There has to be backround characters in every story

I'm assuming you are saying that we are born with set traits that we cannot change. While we do have some set traits such as introversion and extraversion, we also have a lot of traits that is neuroplastic, motivation and discipline are both one of those traits.

This is what is beautiful about the neuroplastic brain, is that it destroys "set-in-stone" genetic determinism. That we can change, that we can improve. Genetic determinism is mostly just a defeatist mindset used to cope and take away the blame from yourself and for your own failures, blaming external factors.

 

[A_ron_koolaidcomversion]

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I'm assuming you are saying that we are born with set traits that we cannot change. While we do have some set traits such as introversion and extraversion, we also have a lot of traits that is neuroplastic, motivation and discipline are both one of those traits.

This is what is beautiful about the neuroplastic brain, is that it destroys "set-in-stone" genetic determinism. That we can change, that we can improve. Genetic determinism is mostly just a defeatist mindset used to cope and take away the blame from yourself and for your own failures, blaming external factors.

Hmm I would have to have @Blackpillirony to confirm this. Only his opinion is right

 

[apatheia]

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Hmm I would have to have @Blackpillirony to confirm this. Only his opinion is right

What are your thoughts though? I can also back my claims both anecdotally and scientifically. (If you want me to elaborate.)

 

[idkrandomhere]

But there is also the mental side. You can go on .org and look at even the users with 10k+ posts and they haven’t done anything to ascend. Most people arent meant to ascend because of this

they can still ascend they’re just lazy

 

[A_ron_koolaidcomversion]

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What are your thoughts though? I can also back my claims both anecdotally and scientifically.

I agree that you can change your personality and your traits to some extent. But I have seen to many people wether it's irl or on the internet that literally just don't go the full way. No matter how much you help them. At the end of the day, whether you like it or not. There are weak people, and there are strong people. That's primarily why I don't often go into rating sections anymore. People 99% of the time don't take your advice.

 

[A_ron_koolaidcomversion]

they can still ascend they’re just lazy

That's my point tho. Most people are lazy, atleast when it comes to looksmaxxing. Most people are not willing to go to countless of doctors trying to get x drug to fix x thing that can cause a shit ton of side effects and you might only see the results in a couple years. Or work countless of hours to get a surgery. And they will never change

 

[apatheia]

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I agree that you can change your personality and your traits to some extent. But I have seen to many people wether it's irl or on the internet that literally just don't go the full way. No matter how much you help them. At the end of the day, whether you like it or not. There are weak people, and there are strong people. That's primarily why I don't often go into rating sections anymore. People 99% of the time don't take your advice.

If they don't go the full way out of satisfaction with themselves then that is fine. If they don't go the full way because they are dissatisfied but lazy with themselves then they won't change unless they, themselves want to change. You can't help someone who doesn't want to change. That is literally step 1 to growth.

 

[A_ron_koolaidcomversion]

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If they don't go the full way out of satisfaction with themselves then that is fine. If they don't go the full way because they are dissatisfied but lazy with themselves then they won't change unless they, themselves want to change. You can't help someone who doesn't want to change. That is literally step 1 to growth.

I like that you're hopeful. But I just truly believe that some people are just destined to not ascend. Because it's just not in them to do so. They don't have the will, the guts, the discipline, the smarts and so on. And this is not me trying to hate. I wish it was a fair world. And everybody had an equal chance but truth is. Some people just don't got it. Some people do. And considering you seem to be putting in the work to ascend. You are one of those people who do have it.

 

[apatheia]

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I like that you're hopeful. But I just truly believe that some people are just destined to not ascend. Because it's just not in them to do so. They don't have the will, the guts, the discipline, the smarts and so on. And this is not me trying to hate. I wish it was a fair world. And everybody had an equal chance but truth is. Some people just don't got it. Some people do. And considering you seem to be putting in the work to ascend. You are one of those people who do have it.

You are calling me too hopeful, and I think you are too pessimistic.
I am not saying this out of blind faith. I am saying this because it is proven time and time again and literally has huge scientific backing, tell me if you want it because I am not going to spend too much time garnering the sources unless you really want them and aren't convinced with what I am saying.

Sure, some people are "destined" to fail but it wasn't set in stone predestined, like I said before our minds are neuroplastic.

Of course there are exceptions but for the average person it was not set in stone from birth.

"I wish everyone had an equal chance"

Not everyone starts out equally of course, but almost everyone can improve with what they are given. Their philosophy, their physical body, their mental. Play with the cards that you are given.

Also if we do really care about someones situation and really want to help them, then we need to be aware that not everyone has the same trigger that would push them to improve, everyone is different. We must acknowledge this and garner interpersonal skills that assess individuals.

But that is also taking time away from ourselves, so I think the best middle ground is to make content that anyone can read or watch, but you make different types of content with the same point and with that combined it would reach the most people and help push them towards improvement.

You say "no matter how much we try to help them" but I say that maybe we repeatedly try to help them in a way that won't work for them, and that is "the definition of insanity".

If we just give up on people, saying that people are born weak or strong and end it on that note then I think WE would be the weak ones here. I wouldn't call myself a truly helpful person if I believed that "predestined" belief. No, if I did care about people then I will find another way to reach them.

Think of the stories where a business man thinks their product is doomed to fail, gives up and puts their company up for sale only for the buyer to 10x or 100x the earnings of what the original businessman thought was a product doomed to fail.

 

[SoycietyReject]

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You are calling me too hopeful, and I think you are too pessimistic.
I am not saying this out of blind faith. I am saying this because it is proven time and time again and literally has huge scientific backing, tell me if you want it because I am not going to spend too much time garnering the sources unless you really want them and aren't convinced with what I am saying.

Sure, some people are "destined" to fail but it wasn't set in stone predestined, like I said before our minds are neuroplastic.

Of course there are exceptions but for the average person it was not set in stone from birth.



Not everyone starts out equally of course, but almost everyone can improve with what they are given. Their philosophy, their physical body, their mental. Play with the cards that you are given.

Also if we do really care about someones situation and really want to help them, then we need to be aware that not everyone has the same trigger that would push them to improve, everyone is different. We must acknowledge this and garner interpersonal skills that assess individuals.

But that is also taking time away from ourselves, so I think the best middle ground is to make content that anyone can read or watch, but you make different types of content with the same point and with that combined it would reach the most people and help push them towards improvement.

You say "no matter how much we try to help them" but I say that maybe we repeatedly try to help them in a way that won't work for them, and that is "the definition of insanity".

If we just give up on people, saying that people are born weak or strong and end it on that note then I think WE would be the weak ones here. I wouldn't call myself a truly helpful person if I believed that "predestined" belief. No, if I did care about people then I will find another way to reach them.

Think of the stories where a business man thinks their product is doomed to fail, gives up and puts their company up for sale only for the buyer to 10x or 100x the earnings of what the original businessman thought was a product doomed to fail.

You're too hopeful

 

[apatheia]

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You're too hopeful

What is your take?

 

[A_ron_koolaidcomversion]

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You are calling me too hopeful, and I think you are too pessimistic.
I am not saying this out of blind faith. I am saying this because it is proven time and time again and literally has huge scientific backing, tell me if you want it because I am not going to spend too much time garnering the sources unless you really want them and aren't convinced with what I am saying.

Sure, some people are "destined" to fail but it wasn't set in stone predestined, like I said before our minds are neuroplastic.

Of course there are exceptions but for the average person it was not set in stone from birth.



Not everyone starts out equally of course, but almost everyone can improve with what they are given. Their philosophy, their physical body, their mental. Play with the cards that you are given.

Also if we do really care about someones situation and really want to help them, then we need to be aware that not everyone has the same trigger that would push them to improve, everyone is different. We must acknowledge this and garner interpersonal skills that assess individuals.

But that is also taking time away from ourselves, so I think the best middle ground is to make content that anyone can read or watch, but you make different types of content with the same point and with that combined it would reach the most people and help push them towards improvement.

You say "no matter how much we try to help them" but I say that maybe we repeatedly try to help them in a way that won't work for them, and that is "the definition of insanity".

If we just give up on people, saying that people are born weak or strong and end it on that note then I think WE would be the weak ones here. I wouldn't call myself a truly helpful person if I believed that "predestined" belief. No, if I did care about people then I will find another way to reach them.

Think of the stories where a business man thinks their product is doomed to fail, gives up and puts their company up for sale only for the buyer to 10x or 100x the earnings of what the original businessman thought was a product doomed to fail.

I know it seems pessimistic. But I'm just telling it from experience. Maybe you had a different experience with people. But this is how it is for me. I think most people can improve yes absolutely. But I'm just saying past the barrier of just loosing fat and doing skincare. 99% of people won't take the extra steps. And also with your point about our brains being neuroplastic. A good ammount of our neuroplasticity is gone by our mid teens. As a child you absorb everything from your parents. And simply if you have mediocre parents which most people do. You will yourself only strive for mediocracy. Only very few manage to push past that programming you get as a child, and become exceptional.