You are calling me too hopeful, and I think you are too pessimistic.
I am not saying this out of blind faith. I am saying this because it is proven time and time again and literally has huge scientific backing, tell me if you want it because I am not going to spend too much time garnering the sources unless you really want them and aren't convinced with what I am saying.
Sure, some people are "destined" to fail but it wasn't set in stone
predestined, like I said before our minds are
neuroplastic.
Of course there are exceptions but for the
average person it was not set in stone from birth.
Not everyone starts out equally of course, but
almost everyone can improve with what they are given. Their philosophy, their physical body, their mental.
Play with the cards that you are given.
Also if we do really care about someones situation and really want to help them, then
we need to be aware that not everyone has the same trigger that would push them to improve, everyone is different. We must acknowledge this and
garner interpersonal skills that assess individuals.
But that is also taking time away from ourselves, so I think the best middle ground is to make content that anyone can read or watch, but you make different types of content with the same point and with that combined it would reach the most people and help push them towards improvement.
You say "no matter how much we try to help them" but I say that maybe we repeatedly
try to help them in a way that won't work for them, and that is "the definition of insanity".
If we just give up on people, saying that people are born weak or strong and end it on that note then I think WE would be the weak ones here. I wouldn't call myself a truly helpful person if I believed that "predestined" belief. No, if I did care about people then I will find another way to reach them.
Think of the stories where a business man thinks their product is doomed to fail, gives up and puts their company up for sale only for the buyer to 10x or 100x the earnings of what the original businessman thought was a product doomed to fail.