I miss my bsf

[Aryy]

We used to be really close i mean i think after ur so close with someone u cant go back from that

but we used to always be on call, have all the same friends i dint use to go anywhere where she dint go/wasnt invited

it might be bad actually idk? being this close

 

[TonyDr]

it might be bad actually idk? being this close

Pretty much normal at your age
Why it stopped tho

 

[submissivechud]

We used to be really close i mean i think after ur so close with someone u cant go back from that

but we used to always be on call, have all the same friends i dint use to go anywhere where she dint go/wasnt invited

it might be bad actually idk? being this close

You should try reaching out again
No point in letting the connection go to waste

 

[Aryy]

Pretty much normal at your age
Why it stopped tho

We still are friends but i basically stopped going to school much and dint check any messages
so we arent that close anymore

 

[submissivechud]

We still are friends but i basically stopped going to school much and dint check any messages
so we arent that close anymore

Then text her n***a

 

[Aryy]

Then text her n***a

I need to get my life together first

 

[submissivechud]

I need to get my life together first

Youre acting like this shit is a relationship
Stop rotting on .com for 14 hours and maybe your life will get better

 

[Aryy]

Stop rotting on .com for 14 hours

if only i could control it

but i would slowly bring it down to a normal level trust me

 

[submissivechud]

if only i could control it

but i would slowly bring it down to a normal level trust me

Yeah how's that going for you right now

 

[emeraldpill]

If you were then you can be again

When people are extremely close with someone and also spend a lot of time with them / talking to them every single day you end up in a state of thinking you need that same level of contact and frequency of contact in order to maintain ur bond which is not the case despite how it might feel

obv i don’t mean to say nothing has changed or that u instantly bounce back to the same place you were at the peak of ur friendship but rather that it is recoverable

I find this to be the case even when people have done things to cause a relationship, be it platonic or romantic or familial, to end. When u have such a close connection with someone people underestimate what it takes to permanently sever said connection

 

[Aryy]

If you were then you can be again

When people are extremely close with someone and also spend a lot of time with them / talking to them every single day you end up in a state of thinking you need that same level of contact and frequency of contact in order to maintain ur bond which is not the case despite how it might feel

obv i don’t mean to say nothing has changed or that u instantly bounce back to the same place you were at the peak of ur friendship but rather that it is recoverable

I find this to be the case even when people have done things to cause a relationship, be it platonic or romantic or familial, to end. When u have such a close connection with someone people underestimate what it takes to permanently sever said connection

Yeah we have been friends for years i dont think it would go that easily even if circumstances chance
like
you just cant go back after that level of closeness to something else you know it feels weird
you just already have that comfort with that person

 

[splanky]

We used to be really close i mean i think after ur so close with someone u cant go back from that

but we used to always be on call, have all the same friends i dint use to go anywhere where she dint go/wasnt invited

it might be bad actually idk? being this close

i had something similar but i’ve never actually experienced that like super close girlhood ride or die friendship before but i think it’s the most important thing ever for any girl and im not gonna die until i experience it

try talking to her again!!! im sure you guys must’ve had a lot of fun together and i bet she misses you too, don’t take it for granted

i’m very jealous of your opportunity

 

[emeraldpill]

Yeah we have been friends for years i dont think it would go that easily even if circumstances chance
like

Yes

you just cant go back after that level of closeness to something else you know it feels weird

Wdym
Go back to being that close or

you just already have that comfort with that person

Yes
Even if it feels similar to forming a new friendship or relationship u already have a closeness and trust

 

[Aryy]

i had something similar but i’ve never actually experienced that like super close girlhood ride or die friendship before but i think it’s the most important thing ever for any girl and im not gonna die until i experience it

try talking to her again!!! im sure you guys must’ve had a lot of fun together and i bet she misses you too, don’t take it for granted

i’m very jealous of your opportunity

Yeah its great you should try to

 

[Aryy]

Wdym
Go back to being that close or

I mean after youre so close with someone if you talk with them again i feel like you cant be less close or some shit
yk like go back to being less close youll have the same level of closeness

 

[Cortisol]

Yeah how's that going for you right now

She got chicken curry infection main symptoms is that you rot here 18 hours a day

 

[submissivechud]

If you were then you can be again

When people are extremely close with someone and also spend a lot of time with them / talking to them every single day you end up in a state of thinking you need that same level of contact and frequency of contact in order to maintain ur bond which is not the case despite how it might feel

obv i don’t mean to say nothing has changed or that u instantly bounce back to the same place you were at the peak of ur friendship but rather that it is recoverable

I find this to be the case even when people have done things to cause a relationship, be it platonic or romantic or familial, to end. When u have such a close connection with someone people underestimate what it takes to permanently sever said connection

Yeah we have been friends for years i dont think it would go that easily even if circumstances chance
like
you just cant go back after that level of closeness to something else you know it feels weird
you just already have that comfort with that person

i had something similar but i’ve never actually experienced that like super close girlhood ride or die friendship before but i think it’s the most important thing ever for any girl and im not gonna die until i experience it

try talking to her again!!! im sure you guys must’ve had a lot of fun together and i bet she misses you too, don’t take it for granted

i’m very jealous of your opportunity

So much words

 

[Blackpillirony]

We used to be really close i mean i think after ur so close with someone u cant go back from that

but we used to always be on call, have all the same friends i dint use to go anywhere where she dint go/wasnt invited

it might be bad actually idk? being this close

I used to be really close, and I mean really close to a guy before. He unfollowed me on IG and never texted me back again

 

[emeraldpill]

So much words

Read it and weep

 

[emeraldpill]

and I mean really close

Just the tip bro!

 

[submissivechud]

Read it and weep

 

[Aryy]

He unfollowed me on IG and never texted me back again

randomly?

 

[Blackpillirony]

randomly?

Yeah, randomly. We spent tens of hours just talking face to face and he does this shit for no apparent reason.