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Serious I'm gonna be a neet for a year and I need help

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nice opinion, did a youtuber give it to you?
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I have a gap year, the reason why is because my parents want me to live life before I do work. So they're gonna send me to NYC and taking me places before I choose my career

my options are the following

Navy + Firefighter
Programmer
College?

I legit dont know what to do, and I dont want to be a fucking bum like some of my family members. Right now during my gap year I mainly want to focus on training as school really hindered my growth tbh...
 
Navy + Firefighter
Do this if you haven't planned to date seriously women
You'll learn useful skills for your adult life also staying fit

Especially if your parents can fund your lifestyle
 
I have a gap year, the reason why is because my parents want me to live life before I do work. So they're gonna send me to NYC and taking me places before I choose my career

my options are the following

Navy + Firefighter
Programmer
College?

I legit dont know what to do, and I dont want to be a fucking bum like some of my family members. Right now during my gap year I mainly want to focus on training as school really hindered my growth tbh...
I kinda know my goal, it's to live a comfortable life with no regrets, I can choose all of these but when I'm 80 i'll probably regret doing one of them.
 
firefighting / navy are positions that are crucial and always needed. similar to healthcare, some private companies and government agencies will pay for your schooling or just give you money straight up. programming is something that’s very education based. which is nice for those who are looking for a challenge or enjoy developing their own software/websites/etc. but it’s admittedly over saturated. you would have to freelance even if you got some fancy degree or certifications for it. which isn’t bad to do on the side during free time.

regarding your goal of wanting to live a life with minimal regret, i think somebody’s biggest regrets tend to be over what they didn’t do not what they chose specifically. when you’re 80 you’re probably not thinking back being like “wow i wish i chose programming over being a firefighter or vice versa” it’s more of a “i wanted to try this thing and i never did. now i don’t feel as capable and i don’t know if i wanna use my remaining time trying to start.” because around 80, your body and mind is already going to be severely different even if you are the healthiest 80 year old on the face of the planet. your body ages and you have to adjust accordingly. i recommend trying a little bit of everything at least once. even if it’s not life changing in terms of a career, it shows your discipline and interest to solve problems in many different aspects of life. and it makes for a good story when you’re older. sometimes the most seemingly small decisions you’ll make will lead you somewhere you least expect it. having options is a sign of flexibility and ability, not the inability to choose.
 
firefighting / navy are positions that are crucial and always needed. similar to healthcare, some private companies and government agencies will pay for your schooling or just give you money straight up. programming is something that’s very education based. which is nice for those who are looking for a challenge or enjoy developing their own software/websites/etc. but it’s admittedly over saturated. you would have to freelance even if you got some fancy degree or certifications for it. which isn’t bad to do on the side during free time.

regarding your goal of wanting to live a life with minimal regret, i think somebody’s biggest regrets tend to be over what they didn’t do not what they chose specifically. when you’re 80 you’re probably not thinking back being like “wow i wish i chose programming over being a firefighter or vice versa” it’s more of a “i wanted to try this thing and i never did. now i don’t feel as capable and i don’t know if i wanna use my remaining time trying to start.” because around 80, your body and mind is already going to be severely different even if you are the healthiest 80 year old on the face of the planet. your body ages and you have to adjust accordingly. i recommend trying a little bit of everything at least once. even if it’s not life changing in terms of a career, it shows your discipline and interest to solve problems in many different aspects of life. and it makes for a good story when you’re older. sometimes the most seemingly small decisions you’ll make will lead you somewhere you least expect it. having options is a sign of flexibility and ability, not the inability to choose.
Damn even the sister started posting long text now
 
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Damn even the sister started posting long text now
i’ve started writing essays before random even knew what english was frfr. but i normally write them in off topic like a smooth brained idiot 💔
 
firefighting / navy are positions that are crucial and always needed. similar to healthcare, some private companies and government agencies will pay for your schooling or just give you money straight up. programming is something that’s very education based. which is nice for those who are looking for a challenge or enjoy developing their own software/websites/etc. but it’s admittedly over saturated. you would have to freelance even if you got some fancy degree or certifications for it. which isn’t bad to do on the side during free time.

regarding your goal of wanting to live a life with minimal regret, i think somebody’s biggest regrets tend to be over what they didn’t do not what they chose specifically. when you’re 80 you’re probably not thinking back being like “wow i wish i chose programming over being a firefighter or vice versa” it’s more of a “i wanted to try this thing and i never did. now i don’t feel as capable and i don’t know if i wanna use my remaining time trying to start.” because around 80, your body and mind is already going to be severely different even if you are the healthiest 80 year old on the face of the planet. your body ages and you have to adjust accordingly. i recommend trying a little bit of everything at least once. even if it’s not life changing in terms of a career, it shows your discipline and interest to solve problems in many different aspects of life. and it makes for a good story when you’re older. sometimes the most seemingly small decisions you’ll make will lead you somewhere you least expect it. having options is a sign of flexibility and ability, not the inability to choose.
Holy essay
 
Neeting is so pathetic just rope atp
 

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