Discussion interactions with men after ascending?

[powbird]

women who've already ascended at least a little bit, how has men's (and/or women's) behavior towards you changed? curious bc i although have a lot of male friends as a very low ltb i'm hoping to become more approachable to men/everyone in general after weight loss and ascension

 

[Whitepill]

Both genders simp harder if you ascend

 

[adn]

i used to be super ugly and guys would j pretend i dont exist but now i would say im average looking and i have male friends and ive gotten asked for my snap in public

 

[Deleted member 36300]

i used to be super ugly and guys would j pretend i dont exist but now i would say im average looking and i have male friends and ive gotten asked for my snap in public

@Whitepill the life of a MTB, brutal. Meanwhile chadlites struggle.

 

[Whitepill]

@Whitepill the life of a MTB, brutal. Meanwhile chadlites struggle.

chadlites dont struggle at all, but men are less likely to be approached

 

[Deleted member 36300]

chadlites dont struggle at all, but men are less likely to be approached

Obviously dumb , I was just making an exaggerated joke.

 

[Deleted member 42538]

women who've already ascended at least a little bit, how has men's (and/or women's) behavior towards you changed? curious bc i although have a lot of male friends as a very low ltb i'm hoping to become more approachable to men/everyone in general after weight loss and ascension

dont rlly think i have ascended but alot of people look at me when i wear my contacts in contrast to days when i dont wear them out thats all though just looks

 

[Deleted member 36300]

dont rlly think i have ascended but alot of people look at me when i wear my contacts in contrast to days when i dont wear them out thats all though just looks

W frauding, i’m gonna be like you one day!

 

[neymar]

i used to be super ugly and guys would j pretend i dont exist but now i would say im average looking and i have male friends and ive gotten asked for my snap in public

Fact: LTBs also get approached. You probably were extremely out of shape if you didnt.

 

[Lelemane]

women who've already ascended at least a little bit, how has men's (and/or women's) behavior towards you changed? curious bc i although have a lot of male friends as a very low ltb i'm hoping to become more approachable to men/everyone in general after weight loss and ascension

Guys used to make fun of me when I was fugly, now that I’m kinda pretty I guess they treat me like a human now. But with girls I’ve been having such major issues with jealousy but it may be because I look diff not sure tho,I just have a much harder time finding female friends. Some guy openly admitted he liked me which was awkward, guys actually open doors for me and wait for me and offer to do things for me, but god girls treat me like shit it’s so bad. Ppl stare at me a lot more as well

 

[tami_26]

women who've already ascended at least a little bit, how has men's (and/or women's) behavior towards you changed? curious bc i although have a lot of male friends as a very low ltb i'm hoping to become more approachable to men/everyone in general after weight loss and ascension

I used to be bullied and made fun of now they jst pretend I don’t exist or bully me still but jst not in the same way (went from being mistaken for an ugly man to looking like a below average girl)

 

[tami_26]

Guys used to make fun of me when I was fugly, now that I’m kinda pretty I guess they treat me like a human now. But with girls I’ve been having such major issues with jealousy but it may be because I look diff not sure tho,I just have a much harder time finding female friends. Some guy openly admitted he liked me which was awkward, guys actually open doors for me and wait for me and offer to do things for me, but god girls treat me like shit it’s so bad. Ppl stare at me a lot more as well

I would say that’s pretty relatable.Female friendship used to be hard before because they used to use me to look better in comparison and talk behind my back.However I would say overall my actually friendship with girls are better but my daily interactions with girls sre very different,instead of being seen as a freak,people gossip instead

 

[tami_26]

I used to be bullied and made fun of now they jst pretend I don’t exist or bully me still but jst not in the same way (went from being mistaken for an ugly man to looking like a below average girl)

I would say also they still bring up my past appearance,it always follows me I moved schools and even neighbourhoods and it still won’t go away.i jst started college and they already have snap stickers of pictures people took without my knowledge while I looked like a man

 

[97baHater]

dont rlly think i have ascended but alot of people look at me when i wear my contacts in contrast to days when i dont wear them out thats all though just looks

They don’t they just look at your ass

 

[97baHater]

They don’t they just look at your ass

Mb thot I was replying to PomPom

 

[ifsixwasnine]

I was invisible when I was ugly as shit. No one really was that much of an asshole to me but also the ppl who didn’t like me would talk shit behind my back and say I was ugly, both genders btw.

I soon transferred schools after ascending, boys were nicer to me. I started getting approached by guys at school, at concerts, etc. Girls were nicer too but nothing much changed from that. I lost a female friend group after ascending tho, and they started to treat me like shit. When I asked why, they said I “changed”. I think it’s obvious what they meant tho.

 

[Lelemane]

I would say also they still bring up my past appearance,it always follows me I moved schools and even neighbourhoods and it still won’t go away.i jst started college and they already have snap stickers of pictures people took without my knowledge while I looked like a man

Dude the same thing happened to me

 

[tami_26]

Dude the same thing happened to me

Twins

But Yh It’s really annoying because I feel like if I ascend or not it doesn’t matter bcs my past appearance will follow me

 

[dolphinn]

women who've already ascended at least a little bit, how has men's (and/or women's) behavior towards you changed? curious bc i although have a lot of male friends as a very low ltb i'm hoping to become more approachable to men/everyone in general after weight loss and ascension

Amazing for both genders(im bi). It definitely increased slowly as I started and I started gaining more attention overtime from more attractive people and just socially in general. I believe it also improved others respect for me. Ngl if u jus care for yourself and have self esteem others will respect that and naturally become attracted towards that. Also I notice even during normal interactions people have been nicer and more flirty towards me.
Also social maxxing is important after u ascend

 

[James Othy]

women who've already ascended at least a little bit, how has men's (and/or women's) behavior towards you changed? curious bc i although have a lot of male friends as a very low ltb i'm hoping to become more approachable to men/everyone in general after weight loss and ascension

Depends on what kind of men you fancy. If you're a girl that seems a certain kind of way, open to dating and confident, then men will approach you no matter what.

At my restaurant I once saw a big group of highschool nerds coms in. Guys and girls. They were gathered at the front of the reception desk and at the helm was a big old fat girl. And I mean very very fat. One of the nerds at the back of the group, a skinny little dweeb, nonchalantly came to the front of the group and put his arm around the girl. He said something to her and the girl gave him the meanest look and said something back that I couldn't make out. He immediately took his arm off her and went to the back of the group. Poor boy didn't say another word the whole time they were there. He shot his shot and got shot down, lol.

 

[Deleted Member 38468]

this one guy that ignored me two years ago keeps trying to request my instagram account (its been like 5 times he’s requested), another guy that rejected me tried to request me as well and messaged me on telegram, and more guys in general have been trying to talk to me overtime. this happened after i gymmaxxed (still am) + makeupmaxxed btw, i went from flat ass and looking flabby to having a fat ass and having some muscle definition. makeup helped my good features stand out a bit more. it’s worth it, people treat you better. when i’m at work my patients call me cute and beautiful.

 

[nr4tt]

women who've already ascended at least a little bit, how has men's (and/or women's) behavior towards you changed? curious bc i although have a lot of male friends as a very low ltb i'm hoping to become more approachable to men/everyone in general after weight loss and ascension

they start seeing you not just as a friend, if you post yourself on tiktok guys call you pretty in your comments and you get men in your dms. if you go to concerts or clubs you'll also notice guys look at you more or buy you stuff, one guy payed me 4 beers at the molchat doma concert on Paris, kissed my hand and called me pretty and that for sure wouldn't have happened if I still looked the same as I did two years ago before ascending.
The guy I had a huge crush on two/a year ago used to call me ugly and not his type and now he views my account frequently and comments "" emojis when I post new stuff
female friendship is also wayy easier, it became way easier to make friends even though my social skills suck. like I can barely even hold a conversation properly or talk nicely to people and they still try to be friends with me and I have a friend group of 8 girls, while some years ago i could try my best and be as nice and caring as i could to people and they'd dislike me purely because i was ugly

 

[Deleted Member 54608]

Sorry, but ascending just to please men is ridiculous. You ascend for yourself and rather for other women, if you want an external reason. I feel like women are much better at appreciating beauty than men.

 

[tami_26]

Sorry, but ascending just to please men is ridiculous. You ascend for yourself and rather for other women, if you want an external reason. I feel like women are much better at appreciating beauty than men.

I actually agree with this one,it becomes clear when you look at the male gaze vs what girls think is attractive on other girls

 

[ratedLTN2]

i got more cock once i looksmaxxed

 

[Deleted Member 38468]

Sorry, but ascending just to please men is ridiculous. You ascend for yourself and rather for other women, if you want an external reason. I feel like women are much better at appreciating beauty than men.

op just asked what people’s interactions looked like and didn’t say anything about ascending specifically for men tho
ur right tho, ascending for external validation will never work in the long term.