Sorry I have another question. I've never had a talking stage or even dated anyone and since im going to university next year Ive been trying to figure out why, could it be the case that im just not anyone around me's type? I am black and live in an area where its predominantly white however that doesnt mean that theyre arent a quite high number of any black and other ethnic students in my school for example. However it just seems like the girls who are white seem to pull every single race and are more 'dateable' as theyve been in multiple talking stages, while ive not been in one. I don't have any close black friends I can ask about this all my friends are either boys, white or mixed, so I'm not sure if because of my environment and the race I am that im just not as desirable as other people or it actually has nothing to do with that and in actuality I'm just not that attractive. Hope this makes sense sorry if not 
