it does not get better

[virgile]

when I was at my lowest I would always tell myself that once I level up in life I'll start feeling good , since then I've lost a huge amount of weight , started looking better , had a couple experiences with girls , travelled , made decent amounts of money, built a decent social circle . I'll be the one to tell you , none of that shit matters , if you didn't thrive during your childhood / middle and high school it's over , leveling up later in life will never make up for the fact that you were lonely and miserable during the years that were supposed to be the best of your life , it's no surprise that when you ask older people about their best memories they always tell you stories about when they were kids or teenagers , I won't have story to remember about those times , now I'm just watching time fly looking for a sense of satisfaction that will never come

 

[Recai]

its not too late to have experience until like 25 i think

 

[Deleted Member 130616]

no it doesnt get better

 

[KHHV76]

time lost can never be gained back you already have done what I and many haven't by losing weight and building a good social circle, you can find love out there

 

[virgile]

time lost can never be gained back you already have done what I and many haven't by losing weight and building a good social circle, you can find love out there

the thing is if you HAVE to self improve to get those things it's just not the same as someone who experienced them naturally , I had to build a plan to have experiences that other people get by just living their lives , and I got those experiences later than them when it stopped mattering , getting those experiences as an adult are worthless because you're too aware, you're not candid anymore

 

[Lentil]

when I was at my lowest I would always tell myself that once I level up in life I'll start feeling good , since then I've lost a huge amount of weight , started looking better , had a couple experiences with girls , travelled , made decent amounts of money, built a decent social circle . I'll be the one to tell you , none of that shit matters , if you didn't thrive during your childhood / middle and high school it's over , leveling up later in life will never make up for the fact that you were lonely and miserable during the years that were supposed to be the best of your life , it's no surprise that when you ask older people about their best memories they always tell you stories about when they were kids or teenagers , I won't have story to remember about those times , now I'm just watching time fly looking for a sense of satisfaction that will never come

Probably because you’re a miserable person obviously it’s not better

 

[virgile]

Probably because you’re a miserable person obviously it’s not better

high iq lol , you're right let me stop being miserable , me being miserable is definitely not the result of my upbringing , you just changed my life bananachip thank you

 

[virgile]

Probably because you’re a miserable person obviously it’s not better

you're miserable ? just stop lmao @True Spaniard

 

[Lentil]

high iq lol , you're right let me stop being miserable , me being miserable is definitely not the result of my upbringing , you just changed your life bananachip thank you

If you’re constantly angry on the internet and raging abt shi obviously you’re not gonna feel great

 

[virgile]

If you’re constantly angry on the internet and raging abt shi obviously you’re not gonna feel great

you obviously can't relate to what I'm talking about so why are you interacting with it , why are you trying to disprove my life experiences and feelings

 

[Lentil]

you obviously can't relate to what I'm talking about so why are you interacting with it , why are you trying to disprove my life experiences and feelings

I’ve had similar experiences? You’re just an angry hateful person so that’s manifesting in your feelings about yourself/ your life

 

[virgile]

I’ve had similar experiences? You’re just an angry hateful person so that’s manifesting in your feelings about yourself/ your life

you think I just woke up that way ? how insensitive do you have to be to believe that people are just a certain way for no reason , you don't have to interact with whatever I say , just let me be miserable if it means you're just going to say things so blatant

 

[Deleted Member 130616]

how do remove the ''replied to thread'' notifs

 

[Lentil]

how do remove the ''replied to thread'' notifs

I forget where but it’s in your preferences

 

[virgile]

how do remove the ''replied to thread'' notifs

click on your profile then preferences and you'll find it there

 

[KHHV76]

the thing is if you HAVE to self improve to get those things it's just not the same as someone who experienced them naturally , I had to build a plan to have experiences that other people get by just living their lives , and I got those experiences later than them when it stopped mattering , getting those experiences as an adult are worthless because you're too aware, you're not candid anymore

I get what ur saying I mean love as a teen is fully different than as an adult. and ya I've seen a forum post almost echoing your statement the fact that we have to mindfully choose this path is a horrible truth its not fair

 

[Lentil]

you think I just woke up that way ? how insensitive do you have to be to believe that people are just a certain way for no reason , you don't have to interact with whatever I say , just let me be miserable if it means you're just going to say things so blatant

I can interact with the post if I want if you don’t want to reflect on yourself and work on yourself that’s on you

 

[virgile]

I can interact with the post if I want if you don’t want to reflect on yourself and work on yourself that’s on you

this is telling me that you either didn't read the post , you're genuinely stupid , or you're just egotistical and believe you know things better than everyone else , I'm aware of my flaws I reflect on the person I am everyday , and me working on myself is literally written in the post

 

[ZeroContrast]

when I was at my lowest I would always tell myself that once I level up in life I'll start feeling good , since then I've lost a huge amount of weight , started looking better , had a couple experiences with girls , travelled , made decent amounts of money, built a decent social circle . I'll be the one to tell you , none of that shit matters , if you didn't thrive during your childhood / middle and high school it's over , leveling up later in life will never make up for the fact that you were lonely and miserable during the years that were supposed to be the best of your life , it's no surprise that when you ask older people about their best memories they always tell you stories about when they were kids or teenagers , I won't have story to remember about those times , now I'm just watching time fly looking for a sense of satisfaction that will never come

sad reality for most of us

 

[KHHV76]

Probably because you’re a miserable person obviously it’s not better

aint u a smart cookie

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

But it does get better. Just not tipically by doing those things. It gets better by going to therapy, taking medication, and working on your selfworth. That's not to say all for this stuff on here doesn't matter, I mean im on thr forum after all, I believe in it, but if what you're seeking is joy and fulfilment, this is not the way.

 

[virgile]

aint u a smart cookie

i figured she's not worth interacting with, she's just the typical basic foid who saw the words "emotional intelligence" on TikTok and now she sees herself as someone capable of pyscho analyzing people while giving the most obvious statements ever

 

[KHHV76]

But it does get better. Just not tipically by doing those things. It gets better by going to therapy, taking medication, and working on your selfworth. That's not to say all for this stuff on here doesn't matter, I mean im on thr forum after all, I believe in it, but if what you're seeking is joy and fulfilment, this is not the way.

how would therapy actually help it seems like paying money for someone to act like they care about ur life

 

[virgile]

But it does get better. Just not tipically by doing those things. It gets better by going to therapy, taking medication, and working on your selfworth. That's not to say all for this stuff on here doesn't matter, I mean im on thr forum after all, I believe in it, but if what you're seeking is joy and fulfilment, this is not the way.

I agree with the self worth part , at the end of the day most of what I said in this post stems from that , but realistically it would take years of positive reinforcement to get to a good point , medication and therapy is pretty pointless imo

 

[KHHV76]

i figured she's not worth interacting with, she's just the typical basic foid who saw the words "emotional intelligence" on TikTok and now she sees herself as someone capable of pyscho analyzing people while giving the most obvious statements ever

nooo she was a philosphor at 8 and a p star at 20 thoughhhh

 

[virgile]

nooo she was a philosphor at 8 and a p star at 20 thoughhhh

she's so predictable she'd probably quote what I said saying "see this is why you're miserable "

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

how would therapy actually help it seems like paying money for someone to act like they care about ur life

So, as someone whos been going to therapy for years I see your point but I think this is a bit of a misconception. Therapists don't just sit there, listen and nod, they also give exersices and advice + can prescribed meds + teach you how to "override" your brain with certain conditions such as obsessive compulsive disorder or eating disorders, or teach you better coping mechanisms if you heavily rely on substances/self harm/or other generally unhealthy things to survive. I do see where you're coming from though.

 

[virgile]

So, as someone whos been going to therapy for years I see your point but I think this is a bit of a misconception. Therapists don't just sit there, listen and nod, they also give exersices and advice + can prescribed meds + teach you how to "override" your brain with certain conditions such as obsessive compulsive disorder or eating disorders, or teach you better coping mechanisms if you heavily rely on substances/self harm/or other generally unhealthy things to survive. I do see where you're coming from though.

I'm already on medication for my ocd and went to therapy for multiple years , It's just not for me brother

 

[Lentil]

this is telling me that you either didn't read the post , you're genuinely stupid , or you're just egotistical and believe you know things better than everyone else , I'm aware of my flaws I reflect on the person I am everyday , and me working on myself is literally written in the post

That’s all physical and material stuff obviously that’s not going to make you happy continue being miserable it doesn’t affect me lol

 

[virgile]

continue being miserable it doesn’t affect me lol

finally holy shit

 

[Lentil]

finally holy shit

You’re so misunderstood

 

[virgile]

You’re so misunderstood

why do you keep replying to me , you crave attention so bad you might be just as miserable as me

 

[Lentil]

why do you keep replying to me , you crave attention so bad you might be just as miserable as me

It’s late and I’m bored I’m a pretty happy gal

 

[virgile]

It’s late and I’m bored I’m a pretty happy gal

aww look at you all miserable and lonely , I get it now you're just like me

 

[Lentil]

aww look at you all miserable and lonely , I get it now you're just like me

We’re both so misunderstood

 

[virgile]

We’re both so misunderstood

you remind me of that Abi girl , so retarded and basic

 

[Lentil]

you remind me of that Abi girl , so retarded and basic

What a coincidence

 

[virgile]

What a coincidence

of course it's you , an iq this low aint that hard to spot

 

[KHHV76]

What a coincidence

this cant be worth either of urs time lol

 

[Lentil]

of course it's you , an iq this low aint that hard to spot

You’re so smart and misunderstood genius’s are always lonely huh

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

I'm already on medication for my ocd and went to therapy for multiple years , It's just not for me brother

Fair, works for some, doesn't for others. I hope you find what you need one day dude, wishing you the best!

 

[virgile]

You’re so smart and misunderstood genius’s are always lonely huh

trying to use sarcasm to gaslight yourself into believing you're superior , you're just textbook , keep trying to cope with humor

 

[Lentil]

trying to use sarcasm to gaslight yourself into believing you're superior , you're just textbook , keep trying to cope with humor

I will thank you wise one

 

[virgile]

this cant be worth either of urs time lol

at least I'm honest about the fact that I'm miserable , she's acting as If she's this fulfilled happy person but can't stop arguing with me its comical

 

[KHHV76]

at least I'm honest about the fact that I'm miserable , she's acting as If she's this fulfilled happy person but can't stop arguing with me its comical

lol i get that it doesn't make much sense to me we are all on a looksmaxing server at 2 am no one here is happy lol

 

[virgile]

lol i get that it doesn't make much sense to me we are all on a looksmaxing server at 2 am no one here is happy lol

foids can never let go of the facade

 

[KHHV76]

foids can never let go of the facade

its there defense mechanism ig

 

[True Spaniard]

you're miserable ? just stop lmao @True Spaniard

I dont really agree with your take on the first place ima be honest but misserable is wild icl