Hi
Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm at uni in the UK and have been dating a girl (19) for the last few months. Things were going really well and I was really hoping I'd finally lose my V with her. She had been reluctant as it would have been her V too but I was willing to wait as she actually came across a pretty traditional girl (conservative family, grew up in church), and she is a solid 8/10. She's blonde, blue eyed, nice skin, a bit heavier but almost entirely carries it on her breasts and hips so it's not a bad thing.
Then last month she hits me out of the blue saying she just doesn't see me how she thought she did and claims she just wants to be friends. I didn't react that well which I think is fair given she completely blue balled me but I agreed we could still be friends (which we kind of have to as we are in the same uni halls).
But then within a week I find out she's brought this Black guy home and is literally just fucking him. They aren't even together they are just fucking and I have to put up with seeing her bring him back to the uni halls. He's tall and well built but he's actually got an ugly face. I have no idea what she's doing with him.
But I kind of have to face the fact I still want her back. But how do I even start with that? How do I get rid of him? How do I get out of the friend zone? She must have seen me romantically at first so I know I can get back there.
Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm at uni in the UK and have been dating a girl (19) for the last few months. Things were going really well and I was really hoping I'd finally lose my V with her. She had been reluctant as it would have been her V too but I was willing to wait as she actually came across a pretty traditional girl (conservative family, grew up in church), and she is a solid 8/10. She's blonde, blue eyed, nice skin, a bit heavier but almost entirely carries it on her breasts and hips so it's not a bad thing.
Then last month she hits me out of the blue saying she just doesn't see me how she thought she did and claims she just wants to be friends. I didn't react that well which I think is fair given she completely blue balled me but I agreed we could still be friends (which we kind of have to as we are in the same uni halls).
But then within a week I find out she's brought this Black guy home and is literally just fucking him. They aren't even together they are just fucking and I have to put up with seeing her bring him back to the uni halls. He's tall and well built but he's actually got an ugly face. I have no idea what she's doing with him.
But I kind of have to face the fact I still want her back. But how do I even start with that? How do I get rid of him? How do I get out of the friend zone? She must have seen me romantically at first so I know I can get back there.
