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Lost my gf to a black guy? Can I get her back?

Alex1415

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Hi

Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm at uni in the UK and have been dating a girl (19) for the last few months. Things were going really well and I was really hoping I'd finally lose my V with her. She had been reluctant as it would have been her V too but I was willing to wait as she actually came across a pretty traditional girl (conservative family, grew up in church), and she is a solid 8/10. She's blonde, blue eyed, nice skin, a bit heavier but almost entirely carries it on her breasts and hips so it's not a bad thing.

Then last month she hits me out of the blue saying she just doesn't see me how she thought she did and claims she just wants to be friends. I didn't react that well which I think is fair given she completely blue balled me but I agreed we could still be friends (which we kind of have to as we are in the same uni halls).

But then within a week I find out she's brought this Black guy home and is literally just fucking him. They aren't even together they are just fucking and I have to put up with seeing her bring him back to the uni halls. He's tall and well built but he's actually got an ugly face. I have no idea what she's doing with him.

But I kind of have to face the fact I still want her back. But how do I even start with that? How do I get rid of him? How do I get out of the friend zone? She must have seen me romantically at first so I know I can get back there.
 
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Hi

Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm at uni in the UK and have been dating a girl (19) for the last few months. Things were going really well and I was really hoping I'd finally lose my V with her. She had been reluctant as it would have been her V too but I was willing to wait as she actually came across a pretty traditional girl (conservative family, grew up in church), and she is a solid 8/10. She's blonde, blue eyed, nice skin, a bit heavier but almost entirely carries it on her breasts and hips so it's not a bad thing.

Then last month she hits me out of the blue saying she just doesn't see me how she thought she did and claims she just wants to be friends. I didn't react that well which I think is fair given she completely blue balled me but I agreed we could still be friends (which we kind of have to as we are in the same uni halls).

But then within a week I find out she's brought this Black guy home and is literally just fucking him. They aren't even together they are just fucking and I have to put up with seeing her bring him back to the uni halls. He's tall and well built but he's actually got an ugly face. I have no idea what she's doing with him.

But I kind of have to face the fact I still want her back. But how do I even start with that? How do I get rid of him? How do I get out of the friend zone? She must have seen me romantically at first so I know I can get back there.
Lmao cuck

There’s no getting her back just move on bro, you’re a second option… no, you’re not even on the list
 
Hi

Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm at uni in the UK and have been dating a girl (19) for the last few months. Things were going really well and I was really hoping I'd finally lose my V with her. She had been reluctant as it would have been her V too but I was willing to wait as she actually came across a pretty traditional girl (conservative family, grew up in church), and she is a solid 8/10. She's blonde, blue eyed, nice skin, a bit heavier but almost entirely carries it on her breasts and hips so it's not a bad thing.

Then last month she hits me out of the blue saying she just doesn't see me how she thought she did and claims she just wants to be friends. I didn't react that well which I think is fair given she completely blue balled me but I agreed we could still be friends (which we kind of have to as we are in the same uni halls).

But then within a week I find out she's brought this Black guy home and is literally just fucking him. They aren't even together they are just fucking and I have to put up with seeing her bring him back to the uni halls. He's tall and well built but he's actually got an ugly face. I have no idea what she's doing with him.

But I kind of have to face the fact I still want her back. But how do I even start with that? How do I get rid of him? How do I get out of the friend zone? She must have seen me romantically at first so I know I can get back there.
dnr
 
I'll admit it's possible. They did know each other. But she's such a nice and kind girl id need way more evidence to suspect that.
😂😂😂 you’re trolling

Ik there’s a chad behind this screen

You’re trolling right?
 
She didn't cheat. But how long do I wait?
just fucking say to her you really wanna be used and dumped or contact the opps of the n***a so they can shoot him dead
 
Hi

Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm at uni in the UK and have been dating a girl (19) for the last few months. Things were going really well and I was really hoping I'd finally lose my V with her. She had been reluctant as it would have been her V too but I was willing to wait as she actually came across a pretty traditional girl (conservative family, grew up in church), and she is a solid 8/10. She's blonde, blue eyed, nice skin, a bit heavier but almost entirely carries it on her breasts and hips so it's not a bad thing.

Then last month she hits me out of the blue saying she just doesn't see me how she thought she did and claims she just wants to be friends. I didn't react that well which I think is fair given she completely blue balled me but I agreed we could still be friends (which we kind of have to as we are in the same uni halls).

But then within a week I find out she's brought this Black guy home and is literally just fucking him. They aren't even together they are just fucking and I have to put up with seeing her bring him back to the uni halls. He's tall and well built but he's actually got an ugly face. I have no idea what she's doing with him.

But I kind of have to face the fact I still want her back. But how do I even start with that? How do I get rid of him? How do I get out of the friend zone? She must have seen me romantically at first so I know I can get back there.
seems like ur larping, if not, just move on
 
No I'm not fucking trolling! But I'm pretty sure they were together before we broke up. If you knew her you wouldn't think so either.
It’s over bro, I’m sorry. Just give it up. What would she think of you if you waited for her like some obedient puppy while she got raw dogged by Requis for months

I went through a break up too just this week, believe me. Although I didn’t get cheated on jfl
 
No please bro move on wtf 💔 never try to get back an ex that left u and especially for ANOTHER GUY
 
It’s over bro, I’m sorry. Just give it up. What would she think of you if you waited for her like some obedient puppy while she got raw dogged by Requis for months

I went through a break up too just this week, believe me. Although I didn’t get cheated on jfl
It's really hard to move on when I see her every day in the uni halls we live in.

And when we dated I got kind of obsessed with her. I really thought we had a future. And I just get filled with envy and anger when I see her being the n***** home.
 
It's really hard to move on when I see her every day in the uni halls we live in.

And when we dated I got kind of obsessed with her. I really thought we had a future. And I just get filled with envy and anger when I see her being the n***** home.
Damn that’s brutal, I’m not in uni yet but it must’ve been painful to see them around together

coming from a black guy, their thing isn’t gonna last. She’s probably there because he gives her a thrill she can’t seem to find elsewhere. You said she was innocent before right? I’ve seen this shit so many times.

Not larping ab being black btw

https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/thre...ike-melted-ice-cream-after-jaw-fillers.47068/
 
Damn that’s brutal, I’m not in uni yet but it must’ve been painful to see them around together

coming from a black guy, their thing isn’t gonna last. She’s probably there because he gives her a thrill she can’t seem to find elsewhere. You said she was innocent before right? I’ve seen this shit so many times.
Yeh very. She comes from a small village, dressed very modesty, went to church. Now she's kinda breaking bad. Last night she went out with him to the SU in the slittiest dress I've ever seen her wear.
 
Damn that’s brutal, I’m not in uni yet but it must’ve been painful to see them around together

coming from a black guy, their thing isn’t gonna last. She’s probably there because he gives her a thrill she can’t seem to find elsewhere. You said she was innocent before right? I’ve seen this shit so many times.
U are my favourite guy here no glaze but u seem like u always help people here and dont have ego. Kinda inspires me to be better . Seems like u would be great homie irl. U remind me one black fella that i used to besties with jfl
 
U are my favourite guy here no glaze but u seem like u always help people here and dont have ego. Kinda inspires me to be better . Seems like u would be great homie irl
dnr n***a
 
Yeh very. She comes from a small village, dressed very modesty, went to church. Now she's kinda breaking bad. Last night she went out with him to the SU in the slittiest dress I've ever seen her wear.
Brutallll :kekw::kekw:

Move on, she’s in her whore phase
 
U are my favourite guy here no glaze but u seem like u always help people here and dont have ego. Kinda inspires me to be better . Seems like u would be great homie irl. U remind me one black fella that i used to besties with jfl
Thanks homie, I fw with all of y’all too just saying
 
because your worth is more than that
That's nice of you to say but I'm hardly a high status guy. She's ridiculously beautiful and before now was actually really conservative. She'd be perfect for the long term if I can just get through this.
 
She is ridiculously hot though. If you saw her you'd understand. If it is just a phase why not wait?
You can’t be serious

If you were able to pull a baddie once you can do it again. When I baso dumped my girl who was htb with makeup on I thought the same, I was deadass considering going to a worse uni for her sake.

Just for me to pull a stunner a couple days later on Hinge.

Have more faith in yourself. Ik rn you feel incomplete without her but you’re worth more than that lil n***a
 
You can’t be serious

If you were able to pull a baddie once you can do it again. When I baso dumped my girl who was htb with makeup on I thought the same, I was deadass considering going to a worse uni for her sake.

Just for me to pull a stunner a couple days later on Hinge.

Have more faith in yourself. Ik rn you feel incomplete without her but you’re worth more than that lil n***a
It's not helped my self confidence that the n***** is rubbing it in my face.

She was the first girl I've really dated so it hurts.

Want to see her? I'll hide her face. It might make you get how fucked up this is for me.
 
It's not helped my self confidence that the n***** is rubbing it in my face.

She was the first girl I've really dated so it hurts.

Want to see her? I'll hide her face. It might make you get how fucked up this is for me.
this is pathetic bro come on u know it
 
It's not helped my self confidence that the n***** is rubbing it in my face.

She was the first girl I've really dated so it hurts.

Want to see her? I'll hide her face. It might make you get how fucked up this is for me.
My n***a you’re not the only one who’s lost a baddie but go on
 
I'll admit it's possible. They did know each other. But she's such a nice and kind girl id need way more evidence to suspect that.
Bro is giga cuck its crazy don't trust people so much, humans are cruel as fuck she did absolutely cheat on you
 

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n***a the black guy will break her bones just by smashing her ass
 
Hi

Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm at uni in the UK and have been dating a girl (19) for the last few months. Things were going really well and I was really hoping I'd finally lose my V with her. She had been reluctant as it would have been her V too but I was willing to wait as she actually came across a pretty traditional girl (conservative family, grew up in church), and she is a solid 8/10. She's blonde, blue eyed, nice skin, a bit heavier but almost entirely carries it on her breasts and hips so it's not a bad thing.

Then last month she hits me out of the blue saying she just doesn't see me how she thought she did and claims she just wants to be friends. I didn't react that well which I think is fair given she completely blue balled me but I agreed we could still be friends (which we kind of have to as we are in the same uni halls).

But then within a week I find out she's brought this Black guy home and is literally just fucking him. They aren't even together they are just fucking and I have to put up with seeing her bring him back to the uni halls. He's tall and well built but he's actually got an ugly face. I have no idea what she's doing with him.

But I kind of have to face the fact I still want her back. But how do I even start with that? How do I get rid of him? How do I get out of the friend zone? She must have seen me romantically at first so I know I can get back there.
average reddit post
 
Looks like the regular blonde from what I can see

@ragnarok787 what do you think bro?
 

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