n*****s who date online

[joestar]

Why like what does this even do for you are you retarded or just like braindead I don't get it irl is much better than online I would never commit myself to a random women that much to date online that I'll probably never see lol

 

[Hyaluronic]

Ye doesn’t make any sense unless you live close enough to be able to meet up at least once in a while

 

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[RottingCarrie]

Cuz no one irl will ever like me and eventually when I do meet up with my bf he wont like me anymore. Its a temporary solution to loneliness

 

[Hyaluronic]

Cuz no one irl will ever like me and eventually when I do meet up with my bf he wont like me anymore. Its a temporary solution to loneliness

Wait are you fr about the last part?

 

[RottingCarrie]

Wait are you fr about the last part?

Yeah, im a very very lonely person. I dont have freinds irl and never rlly have unless you count sitting with a few ppl at lunch. I was heavily bullied in elementary school because all my clothes were too big or too small and cuz of that I never made freinds

 

[Hyaluronic]

Yeah, im a very very lonely person. I dont have freinds irl and never rlly have unless you count sitting with a few ppl at lunch. I was heavily bullied in elementary school because all my clothes were too big or too small and cuz of that I never made freinds

No like how do you know he wont like you when you meet up?

 

[RottingCarrie]

No like how do you know he wont like you when you meet up?

Cuz no one irl likes me so why would a random guy I met online like me? Unless I decide to have sex with him when we meet which I want to wait and he knows that so I very much will not

 

[Hyaluronic]

Cuz no one irl likes me so why would a random guy I met online like me? Unless I decide to have sex with him when we meet which I want to wait and he knows that so I very much will not

Why do you want to wait tho?

 

[RottingCarrie]

Why do you want to wait tho?

Not until marriage i just dont wanna have sex within a week of meeting someone irl

 

[Hyaluronic]

Cuz no one irl likes me so why would a random guy I met online like me? Unless I decide to have sex with him when we meet which I want to wait and he knows that so I very much will not

Also regardless of having sex, wdym “random guy I met online”? This is fucking stupid, this is why online relationships are cagefuel jfl. If you call each other bf and gf you should not consider yourself randoms lol

 

[Hyaluronic]

Not until marriage i just dont wanna have sex within a week of meeting someone irl

“I dont wanna have sex within a week of meeting someone irl” is mental, again why would you call him a fucking bf then if you don’t trust/like him.

But yeah the marriage part is valid cuz then it’s just your morals that make sense

 

[RottingCarrie]

Also regardless of having sex, wdym “random guy I met online”? This is fucking stupid, this is why online relationships are cagefuel jfl. If you call each other bf and gf you should not consider yourself randoms lol

Hes not random but its different meeting someone online vs irl

 

[Hyaluronic]

Nothing wrong with waiting x amount of time before having sex, it’s just that it seems like you treat him like “a person that Id meet irl for the first time” rather than “my beloved bf that Ill finally be able to see and interact with irl”

 

[RottingCarrie]

“I dont wanna have sex within a week of meeting someone irl” is mental, again why would you call him a fucking bf then if you don’t trust/like him.

But yeah the marriage part is valid cuz then it’s just your morals that make sense

I do trust him and I love him I just dont wanna have sex is that wrong? Like if I didnt meet him online id still wait a few months after we started dating

 

[Hyaluronic]

Hes not random but its different meeting someone online vs irl

It is obviously different, but why would you even have an online bf then? Doesn’t make any sense, just have online friends lmao

 

[RottingCarrie]

Nothing wrong with waiting x amount of time before having sex, it’s just that it seems like you treat him like “a person that Id meet irl for the first time” rather than “my beloved bf that Ill finally be able to see and interact with irl”

Its both the random guy part is only when I think about sex and thats with literally anyone


All I wanna do when I meet him irl is go out to eat with him if he would like too and cuddle with him and spend time with him

 

[Hyaluronic]

I do trust him and I love him I just dont wanna have sex is that wrong? Like if I didnt meet him online id still wait a few months after we started dating

“My bf”
“Id still wait a few months after we started dating”
So he isn’t your bf he’s just a guy you know online lol. Which is fine btw, why would you call him a bf tho

 

[RottingCarrie]

It is obviously different, but why would you even have an online bf then? Doesn’t make any sense, just have online friends lmao

Cuz he was just a freind for a long time after meeting him but we both liked eachother

 

[RottingCarrie]

“My bf”
“Id still wait a few months after we started dating”
So he isn’t your bf he’s just a guy you know online lol. Which is fine btw, why would you call him a bf tho

No? I mean id wait for sex. Like if I met him irl and not online I wouldn't have sex with him until a few months after dating im sorry im not that great at explaining


So like if I started dating him in October I wouldnt have sex with him unit like January/February

 

[Hyaluronic]

Its both the random guy part is only when I think about sex and thats with literally anyone


All I wanna do when I meet him irl is go out to eat with him if he would like too and cuddle with him and spend time with him

Again, there’s nothing wrong with waiting whatever amount of time for sex.

Whats wrong/funny here is that you’re considering online relationships as something separate aka “whatever time I know him online doesn’t count”. Almost every single message of yours implies it. This is funny because it shows how useless online relationships are, again unless you live close enough and meet each other time to time

 

[Hyaluronic]

Cuz he was just a freind for a long time after meeting him but we both liked eachother

It’s crazy that people can even like each other on a long distance tbh, even though this is like 292828th time I see it

 

[RottingCarrie]

Again, there’s nothing wrong with waiting whatever amount of time for sex.

Whats wrong/funny here is that you’re considering online relationships as something separate aka “whatever time I know him online doesn’t count”. Almost every single message of yours implies it. This is funny because it shows how useless online relationships are, again unless you live close enough and meet each other time to time

Im considering the time it would take to know the difference of how someone acts irl vs online

 

[RottingCarrie]

It’s crazy that people can even like each other on a long distance tbh, even though this is like 292828th time I see it

I like him alot cuz he acts like he cares about me

 

[Deleted Member 74605]

It’s sad bro, like some 90 day fiancée shit

 

[Hyaluronic]

No? I mean id wait for sex. Like if I met him irl and not online I wouldn't have sex with him until a few months after dating im sorry im not that great at explaining


So like if I started dating him in October I wouldnt have sex with him unit like January/February

Again, waiting for sex is fine.

Starting the timer from the time you meet irl is not fine, it’s diabolical. Like sure you could take basic precautions and wait a few days or wtv but it’s the fact that you’re literally saying that youd wait the same amount of time after meeting irl as if youd wait if you never talked online.
This means that calling him “a bf” is just a convenient word for certain situations, aka a child’s play.

Again, nothing wrong with restraining yourself from sex, waiting untill marriage or wtv. But “online dating” that only applies to certain things is just straight up childish and funny, which I already knew but just wanted to see how it looks from the perspective of someone who actually does it

 

[RottingCarrie]

Again, waiting for sex is fine.

Starting the timer from the time you meet irl is not fine, it’s diabolical. Like sure you could take basic precautions and wait a few days or wtv but it’s the fact that you’re literally saying that youd wait the same amount of time after meeting irl as if youd wait if you never talked online.
This means that calling him “a bf” is just a convenient word for certain situations, aka a child’s play.

Again, nothing wrong with restraining yourself from sex, waiting untill marriage or wtv. But “online dating” that only applies to certain things is just straight up childish and funny, which I already knew but just wanted to see how it looks from the perspective of someone who actually does it

I dont think youre understanding me the "timer" has started and I am very much attracted to him i would just like to know if he acts alot different irl. And I would most likley NOT wait 3 months after meeting him irl but I would wait atleast a week

 

[Hyaluronic]

Im considering the time it would take to know the difference of how someone acts irl vs online

Yes but it should never be nearly the same amount of time that you would wait if youd never meet online.

“Waiting to see the difference of act” is a basic precaution that imo any “online couple” (jfl) should take and it’s completely normal. But it’s a different mechanism, unrelated to “waiting after you have started dating”. In one you’re trying to understand his persona, in the other you’re trying to verify whether his persona online wasn’t falsified

 

[RottingCarrie]

Again, waiting for sex is fine.

Starting the timer from the time you meet irl is not fine, it’s diabolical. Like sure you could take basic precautions and wait a few days or wtv but it’s the fact that you’re literally saying that youd wait the same amount of time after meeting irl as if youd wait if you never talked online.
This means that calling him “a bf” is just a convenient word for certain situations, aka a child’s play.

Again, nothing wrong with restraining yourself from sex, waiting untill marriage or wtv. But “online dating” that only applies to certain things is just straight up childish and funny, which I already knew but just wanted to see how it looks from the perspective of someone who actually does it

I call him my bf cuz I wanna be his gf irl, I wanna go out on dates with him, i wanna be able to cuddle with him, I wanna kiss i wanna do everything I just dont wanna immediately have sex

 

[Hyaluronic]

I dont think youre understanding me the "timer" has started and I am very much attracted to him i would just like to know if he acts alot different irl. And I would most likley NOT wait 3 months after meeting him irl but I would wait atleast a week

Ye makes sense now you just don’t know how to explain

 

[RottingCarrie]

Yes but it should never be nearly the same amount of time that you would wait if youd never meet online.

“Waiting to see the difference of act” is a basic precaution that imo any “online couple” (jfl) should take and it’s completely normal. But it’s a different mechanism, unrelated to “waiting after you have started dating”. In one you’re trying to understand his persona, in the other you’re trying to verify whether his persona online wasn’t falsified

But it isnt the same amount if time. And im not saying its falsified im saying in general people act different irl than online