Story Online dating is brutal

[-Lockon-]

Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, exchanged numbers, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me and stopped texting me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but m/hmtn)

Fucking brutal man

 

[pauseboicarti]

should have escalated on first or 2nd date

 

[arniedagoats]

im scared of girls and im not even kidding
be like me and u wont run in such problems

 

[-Lockon-]

should have escalated on first or 2nd date

I'm not looking for a hookup, wanted an ltr out of it.

Which is pure hopium ik

 

[-Lockon-]

im scared of girls and im not even kidding
be like me and u wont run in such problems

Don't be scared of women bro. Nothing to be afraid of

 

[Gesandt]

Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, exchanged numbers, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me and stopped texting me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but m/hmtn)

Fucking brutal man

Broootal

 

[leea]

Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, exchanged numbers, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me and stopped texting me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but m/hmtn)

Fucking brutal man

Most women ghost or block randomly when online dating, we just get bored and lose interest when were not invested in our partner's life and dont see it going anywhere. Dont think too much of it

 

[-Lockon-]

Most women ghost or block randomly when online dating, we just get bored and lose interest when were not invested in our partner's life and dont see it going anywhere. Dont think too much of it

Thanks, just feel like I've been led on

Felt it in muh feels

 

[leea]

Thanks, just feel like I've been led on

Felt it in muh feels

Sorry to hear, we just hate confrontation and its easier to block or ghost

 

[-Lockon-]

Sorry to hear, we just hate confrontation and its easier to block or ghost

Na I get that, just would've liked some closure that's all. Would've appreciated a reason such as I'm no longer interested / I'm with someone else now.

If it was just a hookup I wouldn't gaf, but when its ltr it's pretty crushing ngl.

 

[leea]

Na I get that, just would've liked some closure that's all. Would've appreciated a reason such as I'm no longer interested / I'm with someone else now.

If it was just a hookup I wouldn't gaf, but when its ltr it's pretty crushing ngl.

Aw i understand, just focus on finding someone irl im sure you have the looks for it being a mtn and assuming its you on your profile, looks really nice so dont waste it on online dating it usually doesnt last

 

[Xoxo8]

Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, exchanged numbers, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me and stopped texting me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but m/hmtn)

Fucking brutal man

Frustrating I’m sry for u

 

[rand anon]

Yeah that’s why I kinda don’t even see the point of going on dates from OLD. Nearly every woman on there is prob dating like 3 dudes at once, even if she liked u there’s always someone who could be better

 

[-Lockon-]

Aw i understand, just focus on finding someone irl im sure you have the looks for it being a mtn and assuming its you on your profile, looks really nice so dont waste it on online dating it usually doesnt last

Yeah thanks, my profile pic is actually me. I'm currently at university, so next semester I will put more effort into irl dating once summer ends.

Started online dating this summer mostly out of boredom, but the likes/matches do hit me in muh dopamine. Maybe I got too carried away and thought I could get a legit ltr out of it.

 

[-Lockon-]

Yeah that’s why I kinda don’t even see the point of going on dates from OLD. Nearly every woman on there is prob dating like 3 dudes at once, even if she liked u there’s always someone who could be better

Yeah I'm starting to realise that

OLD is like playing on hard mode basically.

 

[rand anon]

Yeah I'm starting to realise that

OLD is like playing on hard mode basically.

I wish I could tell u irl is better but I hve no clue. I’d prob keep doing both, considering the number of couples who met online through old is skyrocketing nowadays

 

[leea]

Yeah thanks, my profile pic is actually me. I'm currently at university, so next semester I will put more effort into irl dating once summer ends.

Started online dating this summer mostly out of boredom, but the likes/matches do hit me in muh dopamine. Maybe I got too carried away and thought I could get a legit ltr out of it.

You look great and you deserve better its her loss

 

[-Lockon-]

I wish I could tell u irl is better but I hve no clue. I’d prob keep doing both, considering the number of couples who met online through old is skyrocketing nowadays

I won't completely give up on OLD. But I'm gonna definitely put it aside for now.

 

[-Lockon-]

You look great and you deserve better its her loss

Yeah thanks, I will probs be fully over it by the end of the week anyways.

 

[Rololongs]

Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, exchanged numbers, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me and stopped texting me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but m/hmtn)

Fucking brutal man

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