Serious Need Advice - Ex GF messaging me again…

[Beanermaxxer]

A while ago she sent me a text message just asking to meet up to talk or something, I gave her excuses to not go and the conversation stopped there.

Today she messaged me again.

Started with “holaaa,” then a string of messages about wanting to talk, maybe meet up, maybe call, then she hit me said:

“quiero pedirte un mega favor.”

It didn’t feel random. It felt like she was being nice because she needed something. And yeah, part of me wants to ignore it.

But tbh I kinda still love her.

That’s what hurts the most. It’s not that she treated me like shit, or that it was some toxic relationship. We just didn’t work.

I’ve coped in my own way, hookups, one night stands, all that shit. (It doesn’t work)

We were too different, she lived a really though childhood and I honestly did not. We were bringed up in really different circumstances, our values, needs and wants were not compatible.

The breakup wasn’t dramatic, it was just sad. Like watching someone you care about slowly turn into a stranger, and now she’s texting me like nothing happened.

Some people you love deeply, but you just can’t build a future with them. That’s the truth.

So now I’m stuck. Half of me wants to meet up, see her face again, hear her voice, pretend things could be different. The other half knows better.

 

[slopslinger]

if you do, don't go in with any expectations

if you can't manage that just block her tbh

 

[swanneo]

quiero pedirte un mega favor sounds like she's just talking to u bc she needs something i would just ghost

 

[Beanermaxxer]

quiero pedirte un mega favor sounds like she's just talking to u bc she needs something i would just ghost

Yeah, I’m aware tbh

 

[thorns]

shes playing you block this hoe

 

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Fakecel

 

[NARCISSlST]

lamine yamal language

 

[PslAngel]

Fakecel

90% of the forum is

 

[Beanermaxxer]

quiero pedirte un mega favor sounds like she's just talking to u bc she needs something i would just ghost

She also sent some sexy ass pics of herself trying on some dresses for her college graduation ceremony. I know she is teasing me to make me go, I can see through her manipulation tactics really clearly. The thing is part of me does not give a fuck if she just needs something from me.

 

[swanneo]

She also sent some sexy ass pics of herself trying on some dresses for her college graduation ceremony. I know she is teasing me to make me go, I can see through her manipulation tactics really clearly. The thing is part of me does not give a fuck if she just needs something from me.

idk do u want to connect again, do u think she's being genuine with her intentions, do u just want to have sex?

 

[Beanermaxxer]

idk do u want to connect again, do u think she's being genuine with her intentions,

I don’t know if she is being genuine, “necesito un mega favor” threw me off, it felt like she was sugarcoating something transactional, I was crashing out I’m ngl.

But deep down I want to see her again, not even to try it again or shit like that, I just want to make sure she is doing okay, hear about her life, what’s changed, blah blah blah all that corny shit hahah

But I’m also not naive. I know how this goes. She probably just wants something.

do u just want to have sex?

Nah, I don’t really care if we fuck or not.

 

[swanneo]

I don’t

Nah, I don’t really care if we fuck or not.

it feels transactional to me too, which is why i think u should put ur dignity first. there'll always be other girls imo but maybe just wait to see what the favor is

 

[Beanermaxxer]

it feels transactional to me too, which is why i think u should put ur dignity first. there'll always be other girls imo but maybe just wait to see what the favor is

Man, I need some weed rn . Somehow I make less stupid decisions when I’m high

 

[Beanermaxxer]

it feels transactional to me too, which is why i think u should put ur dignity first. there'll always be other girls imo but maybe just wait to see what the favor is

I’m going to hang myself from my nutsack I am crashing he fuck out. I just asked her directly what she wants. She wants to borrow 5,000 pesos because she dipped into some savings money her family gave her to cover a psych emergency. Says she’ll pay me back after her graduation, even offered her laptop as collateral.

I blocked her.

This shit just fucking r***d my ego I can’t even lie… how can I fucking cope?

Now I just feel fucking stupid, part of me genuinely cared.

 

[swanneo]

I’m going to hang myself from my nutsack I am crashing he fuck out. I just asked her directly what she wants. She wants to borrow 5,000 pesos because she dipped into some savings money her family gave her to cover a psych emergency. Says she’ll pay me back after her graduation, even offered her laptop as collateral.

I blocked her.

This shit just fucking r***d my ego I can’t even lie… how can I fucking cope?

Now I just feel fucking stupid, part of me genuinely cared.

insane man to be so broke to ask for 5000 pesos lol. good that u blocked her, maybe the sour memory will help u forget faster. good things will come

 

[isimostar]

I’m going to hang myself from my nutsack I am crashing he fuck out. I just asked her directly what she wants. She wants to borrow 5,000 pesos because she dipped into some savings money her family gave her to cover a psych emergency. Says she’ll pay me back after her graduation, even offered her laptop as collateral.

I blocked her.

This shit just fucking r***d my ego I can’t even lie… how can I fucking cope?

Now I just feel fucking stupid, part of me genuinely cared.

Tell her you’ll pay it if you can fuck and nut inside her. Then after you fuck don’t pay.

 

[Beanermaxxer]

Tell her you’ll pay it if you can fuck and nut inside her. Then after you fuck don’t pay.

I don’t even want to see her face after ts tbh.

 

[Beanermaxxer]

insane man to be so broke to ask for 5000 pesos lol. good that u blocked her, maybe the sour memory will help u forget faster. good things will come

Yeah, this shit will definitely help me forget. Disrespect like that just fucking makes me nauseous, I can’t even believe why she thought I would fall for that shit. Pretending she missed me AAAAAA