Experience Swiss girl part 2

[True Spaniard]

send it to me

i know bro i typed it on my phone i wasn’t doin allat

 

[True Spaniard]

first love?

Yeah pretty much

 

[benny]

The writer met an exchange student named Isa in school and quickly developed feelings for her. They started talking after hearing she thought he was attractive, became close friends, and spent a lot of time together. They went on two great dates, had deep conversations, and seemed to have strong chemistry. He felt she was almost the perfect match for him.


However, as her exchange stay in Spain got shorter and she faced stress from changing host families, she began doubting whether she wanted a relationship. When he tried to persuade her, she felt he wasn't considering her situation and eventually stopped talking to him.


Even after that, he still cared deeply about her. He gave her a thoughtful birthday gift and letter, which she appreciated, giving him some hope. But later, when she was collecting signatures on a Spanish flag before leaving, she didn't ask for his, which hurt him badly and made him feel unimportant to her despite everything they had shared.


After she returned to Switzerland, he messaged her during the summer about a possible trip there, and she left him on read. That was the final blow. Looking back, he still remembers the experience with sadness and nostalgia, but he doesn't regret it because he learned a lot from it. The story is essentially about a first love that felt very meaningful to him but ultimately wasn't reciprocated in the same way.

send it to me

 

[Aryy]

Yeah pretty much

you havwnt moved on?

 

[benny]

I hate to say it, but pretty much everyone has an experience like this. It's good you don't regret it, there's no such thing as mistakes (as long as you don't hurt someone) only lessons.

 

[True Spaniard]

you havwnt moved on?

Yes i have but i just recently saw a picture of her and it just brought me back those memories, just wanted to share the story with you guys

 

[True Spaniard]

I hate to say it, but pretty much everyone has an experience like this. It's good you don't regret it, there's no such thing as mistakes (as long as you don't hurt someone) only lessons.

Yeah you’re totally right, sometimes you just gotta experience it to get the lesson out of it even if it’ll hurt you

 

[Auggy]

So basically it all started on an economy class where they presented us a new student called isa who spoke like 9 languages, genuinely insane i was mirin, and when classes started passing by my friends told me she looked at me a lot and i just didn’t wanna hear anything about it tbh, not that i wasn’t attracted but my neurodivergency just couldn’t do it, but one day they told me she said to other girls a was handsome and shit, so i said ok fuck ima talk to her, so when class finished i just approached her and started talking to her, she was like very nice and open, so i felt very comfortable, i walked her to class and that was our first impression, then when i got home she requested me on insta, and we started talking on ig about lots of things, mostly school and mutual friends, i was genuinely doing backflips in my room from excitement, i also started accompanying her on breaks bc i didn’t want her to be searching all around the school for ppl to talk to, and we hit it off a lot, she was literally perfect personality wise for me, like she talked a lot, when i say a lot i mean a lot, like she led the conv 95% of the time, but i was really fine with that since i really i’m more of a listener, and she was very vibrant and active, she had adhd so that was one of the reasons why but i loved that tbh, so after that i just asked her if she wanted to go on a date and show her the city, so we went to the city, and it was phenomenal, we went near the river and sit there talking about our beliefs, and shit like that, very deep, then i bought us some ice cream and it was really good also, it finished with me getting her to the bus station and then i went home, pretty much we still had the same vibe at school so after some time i asked her on a second date since she asked if i wanted to go with her to look for a dress for the carnivals of our city, so i just agreed and asked her to go for dinner after that, so on the second date it also was awesome, we went through the whole city looking for shops with dresses and that stuff and it was super entertaining, mainly bc of her presencie, then we went into a park and she just started showing me things on her camera roll, then we went to a cafeteria and had coffe, there we talked about relationships and stuff and she said she didn’t know if she was ready to have a relationship in spain, like giving me a hint, i think im pretty persuasive so i just pretty much used some arguments to show her it wasn’t that crazy, and she gave me the reason while we both looked at each other knowing what that meant and laughed, then we went to the restaurant and eat typical spanish food with a steak, i paid also for this shit, my wallet was shivering atp, but i was willing to do that for her icl, so after dinner we just went into a pretty chill place to sit and we had our moment, then my parents picked us up and she really liked to talk with my mom and viceversa, she talked so much that she even outdid my mom that also talks a lot jfl, i was just mirin her and the way she talked tbh, then my mom played some music and she was so low inhib she started singing out loud and the music was ultra loud and i and my mom also started singing, after that we just left her home and i felt the most lucky man otw on that exact moment, so after that, as time passed by her time in spain was just shortening, and she came one break telling me that she wasn’t sure about this whole thing, i tried to convince her but she was really close minded this time, to put context she was changing families by that time and was really stressed, so by the end of the day i told her that she changed her mind really quien, so i just wanted her to give it a second thought, i just really liked her, but she went on defensive mode saying i wasn’t thinking about her and her situation and i was thinking too much about myself and my interests, tho it wouldn’t have stolen her not even 5 minutes of her time to just think about it, so she just didn’t want to talk to me anymore, and time went by and i was seeing her every break with other ppl, as beatiful as she was and i was getting more sad each day, so her birthday ( yes i remembered it ) was coming up and even if we wasn’t talking anymore i decided to make her a letter and give her a jesus figure since she was christian, i wasn’t really capable of giving her that after all that happened so i just asked a guy on his class to give it to her, after that she on a random day when i least expected it, came up to me and thanked me for the present, she thought it was really sweet and she told me that if i ever needed help with something or i was gonna visit switzerland i could text her, that was lifefuel for me even if a relationship wasn’t possible, so after that her time on spain was like super short, she was leaving in like 2 weeks and she appeared in class with a spanish flag and started to ask ppl of all promotion to sign it for her, typical thing an exchange student does, the thing that broke my heart is that after she noticed me, she didn’t ask for my signature, it was very heart breaking, after all i did for her it just felt like i was nothing for her in her period on spain, i felt so sad, genuinely i was crying every night about it, idk why am i even venting this but idgaf, so after she left, on summer i had an idea of going to switzerland with my parents, not to see her, but just for the countrie, so i just texted her on that regard and she left me on seen, it was really brutal and still remember it with nostalgia to this day, but i think i’ve learnt plenty of things after that experience so i don’t regret it at all

Wait n***a where’s part 1

 

[Auggy]

Nvm it’s a sentence long

 

[True Spaniard]

Nvm it’s a sentence long

Yeah i just posted it ab it and someone asked me to tell the story so i just vented like a mf jfl

 

[TonyDr]

So basically it all started on an economy class where they presented us a new student called isa who spoke like 9 languages, genuinely insane i was mirin, and when classes started passing by my friends told me she looked at me a lot and i just didn’t wanna hear anything about it tbh, not that i wasn’t attracted but my neurodivergency just couldn’t do it, but one day they told me she said to other girls a was handsome and shit, so i said ok fuck ima talk to her, so when class finished i just approached her and started talking to her, she was like very nice and open, so i felt very comfortable, i walked her to class and that was our first impression, then when i got home she requested me on insta, and we started talking on ig about lots of things, mostly school and mutual friends, i was genuinely doing backflips in my room from excitement, i also started accompanying her on breaks bc i didn’t want her to be searching all around the school for ppl to talk to, and we hit it off a lot, she was literally perfect personality wise for me, like she talked a lot, when i say a lot i mean a lot, like she led the conv 95% of the time, but i was really fine with that since i really i’m more of a listener, and she was very vibrant and active, she had adhd so that was one of the reasons why but i loved that tbh, so after that i just asked her if she wanted to go on a date and show her the city, so we went to the city, and it was phenomenal, we went near the river and sit there talking about our beliefs, and shit like that, very deep, then i bought us some ice cream and it was really good also, it finished with me getting her to the bus station and then i went home, pretty much we still had the same vibe at school so after some time i asked her on a second date since she asked if i wanted to go with her to look for a dress for the carnivals of our city, so i just agreed and asked her to go for dinner after that, so on the second date it also was awesome, we went through the whole city looking for shops with dresses and that stuff and it was super entertaining, mainly bc of her presencie, then we went into a park and she just started showing me things on her camera roll, then we went to a cafeteria and had coffe, there we talked about relationships and stuff and she said she didn’t know if she was ready to have a relationship in spain, like giving me a hint, i think im pretty persuasive so i just pretty much used some arguments to show her it wasn’t that crazy, and she gave me the reason while we both looked at each other knowing what that meant and laughed, then we went to the restaurant and eat typical spanish food with a steak, i paid also for this shit, my wallet was shivering atp, but i was willing to do that for her icl, so after dinner we just went into a pretty chill place to sit and we had our moment, then my parents picked us up and she really liked to talk with my mom and viceversa, she talked so much that she even outdid my mom that also talks a lot jfl, i was just mirin her and the way she talked tbh, then my mom played some music and she was so low inhib she started singing out loud and the music was ultra loud and i and my mom also started singing, after that we just left her home and i felt the most lucky man otw on that exact moment, so after that, as time passed by her time in spain was just shortening, and she came one break telling me that she wasn’t sure about this whole thing, i tried to convince her but she was really close minded this time, to put context she was changing families by that time and was really stressed, so by the end of the day i told her that she changed her mind really quien, so i just wanted her to give it a second thought, i just really liked her, but she went on defensive mode saying i wasn’t thinking about her and her situation and i was thinking too much about myself and my interests, tho it wouldn’t have stolen her not even 5 minutes of her time to just think about it, so she just didn’t want to talk to me anymore, and time went by and i was seeing her every break with other ppl, as beatiful as she was and i was getting more sad each day, so her birthday ( yes i remembered it ) was coming up and even if we wasn’t talking anymore i decided to make her a letter and give her a jesus figure since she was christian, i wasn’t really capable of giving her that after all that happened so i just asked a guy on his class to give it to her, after that she on a random day when i least expected it, came up to me and thanked me for the present, she thought it was really sweet and she told me that if i ever needed help with something or i was gonna visit switzerland i could text her, that was lifefuel for me even if a relationship wasn’t possible, so after that her time on spain was like super short, she was leaving in like 2 weeks and she appeared in class with a spanish flag and started to ask ppl of all promotion to sign it for her, typical thing an exchange student does, the thing that broke my heart is that after she noticed me, she didn’t ask for my signature, it was very heart breaking, after all i did for her it just felt like i was nothing for her in her period on spain, i felt so sad, genuinely i was crying every night about it, idk why am i even venting this but idgaf, so after she left, on summer i had an idea of going to switzerland with my parents, not to see her, but just for the countrie, so i just texted her on that regard and she left me on seen, it was really brutal and still remember it with nostalgia to this day, but i think i’ve learnt plenty of things after that experience so i don’t regret it at all

Read everything
You should have stopped noticing her once she stopped talking to you.
Women switch-ups are always brutal, but we move on bro, that's life

 

[CIark kent]

So basically it all started on an economy class where they presented us a new student called isa who spoke like 9 languages, genuinely insane i was mirin, and when classes started passing by my friends told me she looked at me a lot and i just didn’t wanna hear anything about it tbh, not that i wasn’t attracted but my neurodivergency just couldn’t do it, but one day they told me she said to other girls a was handsome and shit, so i said ok fuck ima talk to her, so when class finished i just approached her and started talking to her, she was like very nice and open, so i felt very comfortable, i walked her to class and that was our first impression, then when i got home she requested me on insta, and we started talking on ig about lots of things, mostly school and mutual friends, i was genuinely doing backflips in my room from excitement, i also started accompanying her on breaks bc i didn’t want her to be searching all around the school for ppl to talk to, and we hit it off a lot, she was literally perfect personality wise for me, like she talked a lot, when i say a lot i mean a lot, like she led the conv 95% of the time, but i was really fine with that since i really i’m more of a listener, and she was very vibrant and active, she had adhd so that was one of the reasons why but i loved that tbh, so after that i just asked her if she wanted to go on a date and show her the city, so we went to the city, and it was phenomenal, we went near the river and sit there talking about our beliefs, and shit like that, very deep, then i bought us some ice cream and it was really good also, it finished with me getting her to the bus station and then i went home, pretty much we still had the same vibe at school so after some time i asked her on a second date since she asked if i wanted to go with her to look for a dress for the carnivals of our city, so i just agreed and asked her to go for dinner after that, so on the second date it also was awesome, we went through the whole city looking for shops with dresses and that stuff and it was super entertaining, mainly bc of her presencie, then we went into a park and she just started showing me things on her camera roll, then we went to a cafeteria and had coffe, there we talked about relationships and stuff and she said she didn’t know if she was ready to have a relationship in spain, like giving me a hint, i think im pretty persuasive so i just pretty much used some arguments to show her it wasn’t that crazy, and she gave me the reason while we both looked at each other knowing what that meant and laughed, then we went to the restaurant and eat typical spanish food with a steak, i paid also for this shit, my wallet was shivering atp, but i was willing to do that for her icl, so after dinner we just went into a pretty chill place to sit and we had our moment, then my parents picked us up and she really liked to talk with my mom and viceversa, she talked so much that she even outdid my mom that also talks a lot jfl, i was just mirin her and the way she talked tbh, then my mom played some music and she was so low inhib she started singing out loud and the music was ultra loud and i and my mom also started singing, after that we just left her home and i felt the most lucky man otw on that exact moment, so after that, as time passed by her time in spain was just shortening, and she came one break telling me that she wasn’t sure about this whole thing, i tried to convince her but she was really close minded this time, to put context she was changing families by that time and was really stressed, so by the end of the day i told her that she changed her mind really quien, so i just wanted her to give it a second thought, i just really liked her, but she went on defensive mode saying i wasn’t thinking about her and her situation and i was thinking too much about myself and my interests, tho it wouldn’t have stolen her not even 5 minutes of her time to just think about it, so she just didn’t want to talk to me anymore, and time went by and i was seeing her every break with other ppl, as beatiful as she was and i was getting more sad each day, so her birthday ( yes i remembered it ) was coming up and even if we wasn’t talking anymore i decided to make her a letter and give her a jesus figure since she was christian, i wasn’t really capable of giving her that after all that happened so i just asked a guy on his class to give it to her, after that she on a random day when i least expected it, came up to me and thanked me for the present, she thought it was really sweet and she told me that if i ever needed help with something or i was gonna visit switzerland i could text her, that was lifefuel for me even if a relationship wasn’t possible, so after that her time on spain was like super short, she was leaving in like 2 weeks and she appeared in class with a spanish flag and started to ask ppl of all promotion to sign it for her, typical thing an exchange student does, the thing that broke my heart is that after she noticed me, she didn’t ask for my signature, it was very heart breaking, after all i did for her it just felt like i was nothing for her in her period on spain, i felt so sad, genuinely i was crying every night about it, idk why am i even venting this but idgaf, so after she left, on summer i had an idea of going to switzerland with my parents, not to see her, but just for the countrie, so i just texted her on that regard and she left me on seen, it was really brutal and still remember it with nostalgia to this day, but i think i’ve learnt plenty of things after that experience so i don’t regret it at all

Every molecule no dnr today

 

[lydia]

ngl, this was actually a really sweet read.

for what it's worth, i don't think she saw you as "nothing." nobody goes on multiple dates with someone, spends that much time talking to them, and then personally thanks them for a gift if they genuinely don't care at all

to me it sounds like she liked you but realized getting attached while living abroad and knowing she'd leave soon wasn't a good idea for her.

the flag thing and being left on seen were definitely brutal, though. i'd be hurt too.

at least you got a genuinely good memory out of it instead of spending years wondering "what if"

 

[True Spaniard]

Read everything
You should have stopped noticing her once she stopped talking to you.
Women switch-ups are always brutal, but we move on bro, that's life

Yeah but i was young and that was kind of my first love, so i just couldnt figure a future without her even if that sounds crazy, so i just went in every way possible to mantain her in my life as much time as possible, thanks for the insight tho tony

 

[1894]

I read the whole thing, foids be foiding man you just gotta be prepared for anyone in your life to leave at any point even if it’s very unlikely just assume the worst case scenario in your head just in case to be ready, your mistake was trying to convince her to stay if she said she wanted to leave you should just say okay or that’s just me tbh

 

[True Spaniard]

ngl, this was actually a really sweet read.

for what it's worth, i don't think she saw you as "nothing." nobody goes on multiple dates with someone, spends that much time talking to them, and then personally thanks them for a gift if they genuinely don't care at all

to me it sounds like she liked you but realized getting attached while living abroad and knowing she'd leave soon wasn't a good idea for her.

the flag thing and being left on seen were definitely brutal, though. i'd be hurt too.

at least you got a genuinely good memory out of it instead of spending years wondering "what if"

Thanks i appreciate it, yeah i also dont think it was that way but my brain just wanted to be dramatic and put myself in the worse case scenario to accept reality ig, those things hurt a lot but theyve built me stronger so im grateful, thank you a lot once again

 

[True Spaniard]

I read the whole thing, foids be foiding man you just gotta be prepared for anyone in your life to leave at any point even if it’s very unlikely just assume the worst case scenario in your head just in case to be ready, your mistake was trying to convince her to stay if she said she wanted to leave you should just say okay or that’s just me tbh

Yeah i now understand that, i dont really be giving women that much importance in my life due to this experience, but at the time i was young and that was my first love, i had no experience, so this just was a reality check, which we all need, thanks for the advice tho g

 

[Hector of Troy]

kind of a sad situation bhai, i'm sorry that it ended like this
but hey you're young and this was an experience
when it comes to situations like this,( a shortlived relation that for whatever reason cannot go on)
and ONLY, with a girl you actually see as worthy for a relationship, someone decent not a pump and dump whore because who cares what they think of you
when they come to you and say that it can't go on
what i would do is
at first be persuasive for a little bit (to show them that the relationship was important to you and you weren't like "okay, bye" the moment they gave you the bad news)
question their decision
and if they persist, accept gracefully

write a goodbye message
in this message, lower your guard, speak positively of them
and wish them the best in life

point is to try and leave a good impression at the end, a bittersweet ending
if they were interested indeed, they would think of you or reach you back in the future

Don't pour your heart out for a cold and distant foid, i'm assuming everything was going well untill she said she can't do this

you should've ended it right there, birthday present was overdoing it

 

[True Spaniard]

kind of a sad situation bhai, i'm sorry that it ended like this
but hey you're young and this was an experience
when it comes to situations like this,( a shortlived relation that for whatever reason cannot go on)
and ONLY, with a girl you actually see as worthy for a relationship, someone decent not a pump and dump whore because who cares what they think of you
when they come to you and say that it can't go on
what i would do is
at first be persuasive for a little bit (to show them that the relationship was important to you and you weren't like "okay, bye" the moment they gave you the bad news)
question their decision
and if they persist, accept gracefully

write a goodbye message
in this message, lower your guard, speak positively of them
and wish them the best in life

point is to try and leave a good impression at the end, a bittersweet ending
if they were interested indeed, they would think of you or reach you back in the future

Don't pour your heart out for a cold and distant foid, i'm assuming everything was going well untill she said she can't do this

you should've ended it right there, birthday present was overdoing it

Yeah i understand what youre saying, i hope i knew this when i was going through it but the actions i made just seemed right when i was living that moment and tbh i dont regret them, i appreciate you a lot for the insight tho man

 

[Hector of Troy]

Yeah i understand what youre saying, i hope i knew this when i was going through it but the actions i made just seemed right when i was living that moment and tbh i dont regret them, i appreciate you a lot for the insight tho man

you learn about relationships as you get older and more experienced bhai
mistakes help you learn
anytime man

 

[Nbernical]

Fakecel forum, forum moderator never gets approached.

 

[True Spaniard]

Fakecel forum, forum moderator never gets approached.

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