The only way to truly be confident

[Deleted Member 90088]

In terms of confidence, it’s obviously a long process especially if you come from a background that was filled with negative reinforcement. It takes a lot of exposure and a lot of different ways of increasing neurogenesis in the brain to adapt to your current situation rather than dwelling on the past and letting that affect rumination and your behaviors.

Instead of going from 0 to 100, you need to work your way up. Start with something simple, such as approaching a friend you already know or talking to the elderly who tend to be positive and accepting. Eventually you’ll build your way up to where you can talk to girls with no difficulty.

It’s without saying that you should be looksmaxxing throughout this process and should already have a decent base with your height and looks

 

[America]

6'3 mtn saying ts shit btw.

 

[fashist]

6'3 mtn saying ts shit btw.

its true though, looks will gove you opportunities with girls but it’ll never be enough to entertain them and keep them around

 

[Deleted Member 90088]

6'3 mtn saying ts shit btw.

I’m not a Chad

 

[America]

I’m not a Chad

And what. Ur still above average. Say this to the local 5’7 mid ltn walking down the street

 

[America]

its true though, looks will gove you opportunities with girls but it’ll never be enough to entertain them and keep them around

Yeah I agree with it to some extent. But I don’t agree with what u said. Looks are defo enough to keep them around. Your “personality” is your looks

 

[fashist]

Yeah I agree with it to some extent. But I don’t agree with what u said. Looks are defo enough to keep them around. Your “personality” is your looks

not always, tbh its enough for whores and just slaying but if you actually want a ltr you need to be able to keep a conversation and be interesting, if youre antisocial and insecure asf you wont get anywhere past a talking stage