Rage Took y’all’s advice and failed

[candycaro]

Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.

 

[kim k]

he made u pay

 

[candycaro]

he made u pay

Looksmaxxing is pointless

 

[🪢]

Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.

Cuck

 

[🪢]

Cuck

You’re also a whore fym i loved him stfu

 

[candycaro]

You’re also a whore fym i loved him stfu

????

 

[muttthal_2]

So your life is doomed just because of a worthless guy?

 

[candycaro]

So your life is doomed just because of a worthless guy?

My life is doomed cause apparently I can’t find one that isn’t. And I would really like to…

 

[muttthal_2]

My life is doomed cause apparently I can’t find one that isn’t. And I would really like to…

You cannot have everything in life.

Guess what? Most of the guys here are virgins, yet they don't care much.

 

[over0]

Bruv wait. Lowering ur standards isn't what you should be doing, you can't force attraction. Imo you should be actually getting to know these guys before giving them a chance

 

[candycaro]

You cannot have everything in life.

Guess what? Most of the guys here are virgins, yet they don't care much.

Youre telling me I can’t have everything in life cause I want a partner. At the same time you’re referring to the same guys that would tell me I have it easy. Do you know how it feels to get told you can’t do something that’s supposed to be easy for you in everyone’s opinion. How it feels to see other girls do something with ease you keep failing horribly at. And also I think these guys do care about being virgins. Otherwise they wouldn’t be here.

 

[candycaro]

Bruv wait. Lowering ur standards isn't what you should be doing, you can't force attraction. Imo you should be actually getting to know these guys before giving them a chance

How do you get to know someone before giving them a chance bruh. You have to meet them to get to know them.

 

[candycaro]

Youre telling me I can’t have everything in life cause I want a partner. At the same time you’re referring to the same guys that would tell me I have it easy. Do you know how it feels to get told you can’t do something that’s supposed to be easy for you in everyone’s opinion. How it feels to see other girls do something with ease you keep failing horribly at. And also I think these guys do care about being virgins. Otherwise they wouldn’t be here.

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[Gengar]

Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.

It’s n*****s like that who ruin it for the truecels like me. Sometimes a woman is nice enough to give an ugly guy a shot but then he does something like this, which ends with women never looking at an ugly guy ever again. Sorry to hear about the awful experience. I don’t go on dates, but I’d make sure to pay. Not because I’m a guy, but because I’d feel bad if I made the other person pay hahaha. I’m a weirdo.

 

[ADAM]

Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.

It just takes time I guess cant force it you will eventually find someone

 

[candycaro]

It just takes time I guess cant force it you will eventually find someone

Somehow couldn’t tag you. And can’t delete comments either damn

 

[candycaro]

It just takes time I guess cant force it you will eventually find someone

People keep telling me this but it’s ridiculous I’m sorry

 

[ADAM]

People keep telling me this but it’s ridiculous I’m sorry

I mean unless your ugly as fuck or a complete bitch you will find someone

 

[over0]

How do you get to know someone before giving them a chance bruh. You have to meet them to get to know them.

Mf you don't have to date someone to get to know them. You can start out as friends of just friends of friends, colleagues, whatever. These guys probably also don't value you much partly cause of this, you're making it easy

 

[candycaro]

I mean unless your ugly as fuck or a complete bitch you will find someone

I’m literally neither. I’m ambitious, academic, I have friends that like me and care about me. As for my looks I’m no Stacy, but not sub5 either. Thought everyone saw my posts where I’m visible anyways. I’d tag you but there are people with the same name as you. Logically it should be possible to find someone to date but I’m going insane cause it’s not.

 

[candycaro]

Mf you don't have to date someone to get to know them. You can start out as friends of just friends of friends, colleagues, whatever. These guys probably also don't value you much partly cause of this, you're making it easy

This was a first date. Met through dating app. Guys don’t approach me irl ever. What am I supposed to do. How am I making it easy by going on a regular date omg.

 

[muttthal_2]

Youre telling me I can’t have everything in life cause I want a partner. At the same time you’re referring to the same guys that would tell me I have it easy. Do you know how it feels to get told you can’t do something that’s supposed to be easy for you in everyone’s opinion. How it feels to see other girls do something with ease you keep failing horribly at. And also I think these guys do care about being virgins. Otherwise they wouldn’t be here.

You compare yourself with other girls. Maybe they are failing where you excel. Failure gives you more better understanding next time.

Where are you from? Eastern Europe? In US, most of the girls don't even care about guys. You are grown up in wrong environment and toxic society.

If that's the case, change your country plzz.

 

[candycaro]

You compare yourself with other girls. Maybe they are failing where you excel. Failure gives you more better understanding next time.

Where are you from? Eastern Europe? In US, most of the girls don't even care about guys. You are grown up in wrong environment and toxic society.

If that's the case, change your country plzz.

I’m from Germany. Why wouldn’t girls care about guys. I’m healthy, work out (more drive) and I’m into guys. Sexually attracted to guys. Maybe if they aren’t that or are unhealthy with hormones all over the place I’d get that they don’t even care. Otherwise it makes no sense to me.

 

[Solmoonbear]

Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.

Maybe dont go on dates with broke ass sorry ass n*****s, maybe date a dude with values perchance

 

[over0]

This was a first date. Met through dating app. Guys don’t approach me irl ever. What am I supposed to do. How am I making it easy by going on a regular date omg.

It's almost like I said don't go on dates yet. Dating apps are ass I mean look at the statistics of satisfaction for both genders on there

 

[candycaro]

It's almost like I said don't go on dates yet. Dating apps are ass I mean look at the statistics of satisfaction for both genders on there

So your advice is sit around and wait. Cause that has been working out so well for me. Why do you think I even went on the app

 

[candycaro]

Maybe dont go on dates with broke ass sorry ass n*****s, maybe date a dude with values perchance

How was I supposed to know that?! He was extremely educated tbh. And had a side hustle as an assistant scientist at the colleague he is at. Seemed nice enough when we were texting. Way to blame it on me

 

[Solmoonbear]

How was I supposed to know that?! He was extremely educated tbh. And had a side hustle as an assistant scientist at the colleague he is at. Seemed nice enough when we were texting. Way to blame it on me

Maybe just date girls

 

[muttthal_2]

I’m from Germany. Why wouldn’t girls care about guys. I’m healthy, work out (more drive) and I’m into guys. Sexually attracted to guys. Maybe if they aren’t that or are unhealthy with hormones all over the place I’d get that they don’t even care. Otherwise it makes no sense to me.

If you have pale skin, blonde hair and blue eyes, you have better chance in other countries.

Men from Mediterranean and North Africa will treat you like a goddess. I don't know if you like their men or not. They give attention to Scandinavian looking tourists.

Lots of guys will def give you attention but that doesn't guarantee you won't be manipulated. You just don't understand how guys think. You still don't know how things work. You need lots of social experience before committing to relationship.

 

[Solmoonbear]

How was I supposed to know that?! He was extremely educated tbh. And had a side hustle as an assistant scientist at the colleague he is at. Seemed nice enough when we were texting. Way to blame it on me

Honestly just go somewhere free, or don’t take your wallet, he can’t even try to make you pay if you have nothing, or bring a gun so if he tries some of that bs threaten him

 

[candycaro]

If you have pale skin, blonde hair and blue eyes, you have better chance in other countries.

Men from Mediterranean and North Africa will treat you like a goddess. I don't know if you like their men or not. They give attention to Scandinavian looking tourists.

Lots of guys will def give you attention but that doesn't guarantee you won't be manipulated. You just don't understand how guys think. You still don't know how things work. You need lots of social experience before committing to relationship.

Obviously I don’t look like that. Also that’s so ughhh unfair. I need lots of social experience. Others don’t.

 

[muttthal_2]

Maybe just date girls

Tell her how can she become a lesbian. That's the only choice left for her.

 

[Solmoonbear]

Tell her how can she become a lesbian. That's the only choice left for her.

Idk, just be lesbian, I don’t have much experience with lesbians so

 

[muttthal_2]

Obviously I don’t look like that. Also that’s so ughhh unfair. I need lots of social experience. Others don’t.

Maybe you were less outgoing and social in your teenage years.

Better don't date guys before knowing them well. Take time, try to know them, then accept them.

 

[candycaro]

Maybe you were less outgoing and social in your teenage years.

Better don't date guys before knowing them well. Take time, try to know them, then accept them.

You give the same advice as over0. Telling me not to go on dating apps to date guys, at the same time guys don’t approach me irl

 

[over0]

So your advice is sit around and wait. Cause that has been working out so well for me. Why do you think I even went on the app

If ur under 27 no shit you're gonna be unsuccessful in terms of ltrs unless you've had 0 relationships ever you're good. You're not gonna find the love of ur life on a dating app. It's not sitting and waiting either. Go out to event, do hobbies, meet up with friends

 

[muttthal_2]

You give the same advice as over0. Telling me not to go on dating apps to date guys, at the same time guys don’t approach me irl

You should go to Brazil or Colombia

Guys there approach girls aggressively. You have the body shape of a typical Latina. You fit there. White guys are not a big fan of gym and strong built ladies. Asian and East Euro guys are least likely to find you attractive. Germany is in the middle path.

You will get lots of attention from guys but I doubt you will like them or not.

 

[candycaro]

If ur under 27 no shit you're gonna be unsuccessful in terms of ltrs unless you've had 0 relationships ever you're good. You're not gonna find the love of ur life on a dating app. It's not sitting and waiting either. Go out to event, do hobbies, meet up with friends

It’s just not working. Ik you don’t wanna believe me anyways. And even if I met a guy at an event (which I never do) I’d have to meet up with him to get to know him more which you told me not to do. So make it make sense. I go to the gym all the time, all I’ll maybe get is some older guys looking at me weird. And meeting up with my friend group made up of only girls and one guy who’s one of the girls and has a gf is not gonna lead to me meeting anybody.

 

[candycaro]

You should go to Brazil or Colombia

Guys there approach girls aggressively. You have the body shape of a typical Latina. You fit there. White guys are not a big fan of gym and strong built ladies. Asian and East Euro guys are least likely to find you attractive. Germany is in the middle path.

You will get lots of attention from guys but I doubt you will like them or not.

Brazil or Colombia is like the other side of the world from me. I’m not going there just to find a guy. It should be possible here.

 

[muttthal_2]

Brazil or Colombia is like the other side of the world from me. I’m not going there just to find a guy. It should be possible here.

Go and seek advice from some female PUA or females who have a good experience with guys

Guys cannot guide girls on dating men just like girls cannot guide guys on dating women. Most of the comments here are from guys. Wtf they know about women's success in dating?

 

[candycaro]

Go and seek advice from some female PUA or females who have a good experience with guys

Guys cannot guide girls on dating men just like girls cannot guide guys on dating women. Most of the comments here are from guys. Wtf they know about women's success in dating?

I thought over0 is a girl. Her/his advice is confusing though

 

[Solmoonbear]

Brazil or Colombia is like the other side of the world from me. I’m not going there just to find a guy. It should be possible here.

Saw your face, Hispanic guys will love you, but if you live in not America find a Rich old white guy

 

[candycaro]

Saw your face, Hispanic guys will love you, but if you live in not America find a Rich old white guy

I don’t want that

 

[Solmoonbear]

I don’t want that

The old men or Spanish guys

 

[candycaro]

The old men or Spanish guys

Obviously the old men. The Spanish guys are out of reach for me. I want someone around my age, maybe a bit older but not by a lot. Want them to be as educated and ambitious as me. And be my looksmatch or a bit below. Impossible to find btw.

 

[AuggyDauggy]

Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.

Ts frying me. Ltn made you pay for everything

 

[candycaro]

Ts frying me. Ltn made you pay for everything

Welcome to my world. And you were one of the ones saying it’s a mental thing on my part

 

[AuggyDauggy]

Welcome to my world. And you were one of the ones saying it’s a mental thing on my part

It probably still is. I’m drunk asf rn so what I’m saying might not make sense. But there’s no way mtns aren’t going to be interested in you. Wtf. You gotta show us these “lower looks level” guys bc I don’t believe it

 

[sufjan]

you’re not doomed for life bc of some weird n***a on a date, bad experiences happen to multiple women all the time regardless of how they look specially when using dating apps. give it a break because you certainly sound exhausted and try again other time


also sharing this here will just make the guys feel good some gorl is having bad dating experiences btw no help will come, better to talk to other girls

 

[candycaro]

you’re not doomed for life bc of some weird n***a on a date, bad experiences happen to multiple women all the time regardless of how they look specially when using dating apps. give it a break because you certainly sound exhausted and try again other time


also sharing this here will just make the guys feel good some gorl is having bad dating experiences btw no help will come, better to talk to other girls

They should hear it. Since otherwise they wouldn’t even believe bad dating experiences happen to girls as well