Experience Torment

[LostCause]

Ever since august ended in have been tormented by nostalgia;

I was blessed this summer to have made lots of friends in a resort i went on holiday for.

I was lucky to meet a girl from my same town whom i am still in contact with, though everyone else is on the other side of the country.

Out of all the good memories i still have today, one particular regret still plagues my mind: while everyone there had some kind of defect and turned out to be a different person compared to what they displayed on vacation, this one guy, let's call him Joe, was truly one of the nicest and funniest people out there

Looking back at it, i'm saddened that i took our time together for granted and didn't spend more time with him, and that i lost contact with him

He is also 700+km away from me so re-meeting soon is almost impossible if i manage to talk more with him again

Tldr: its over

@The Dark Passenger
@Molotongo

 

[Destined to be forgotten]

Ever since august ended in have been tormented by nostalgia;

I was blessed this summer to have made lots of friends in a resort i went on holiday for.

I was lucky to meet a girl from my same town whom i am still in contact with, though everyone else is on the other side of the country.

Out of all the good memories i still have today, one particular regret still plagues my mind: while everyone there had some kind of defect and turned out to be a different person compared to what they displayed on vacation, this one guy, let's call him Joe, was truly one of the nicest and funniest people out there

Looking back at it, i'm saddened that i took our time together for granted and didn't spend more time with him, and that i lost contact with him

He is also 700+km away from me so re-meeting soon is almost impossible if i manage to talk more with him again

Tldr: its over

@The Dark Passenger
@Molotongo

Oh man nostalgia sure can be one hell of a drug,I also miss a lot of things of when I was a child but you know I can't blame myself for not enjoying it enough.

Time passes and it's okay, it's a natural cycle.
Sure missing a friend must be hard but they are probably okay and don't even miss you.

So instead of focusing on the past I think you should focus on the present and invest on your future.

 

[Destined to be forgotten]

Oh man nostalgia sure can be one hell of a drug,I also miss a lot of things of when I was a child but you know I can't blame myself for not enjoying it enough.

Time passes and it's okay, it's a natural cycle.
Sure missing a friend must be hard but they are probably okay and don't even miss you.

So instead of focusing on the past I think you should focus on the present and invest on your future.

I'm not saying is wrong to miss him, just don't focus on this feeling so much.

 

[LostCause]

Oh man nostalgia sure can be one hell of a drug,I also miss a lot of things of when I was a child but you know I can't blame myself for not enjoying it enough.

Time passes and it's okay, it's a natural cycle.
Sure missing a friend must be hard but they are probably okay and don't even miss you.

So instead of focusing on the past I think you should focus on the present and invest on your future.
I'm not saying is wrong to miss him, just don't focus on this feeling so much.

I guess your right man but i just seem to can't get it off of my head

 

[Molotongo]

that sounds tough man I see why this is saddening you.

what I can say is that it's okay to be hurt brother, even if it hurts like hell. just accept being sad, accept being hurt and just try to live anyway. you don't need to be okay with the situation, just gotta do the best out of it.
sure people like Joe aren't that common but I'm sure if you keep searching you can find a friend like that, just focus on finding a new friend. as @The Dark Passenger said, focus on the present and future and not on the past.

wish you best luck my man

 

[LostCause]

that sounds tough man I see why this is saddening you.

what I can say is that it's okay to be hurt brother, even if it hurts like hell. just accept being sad, accept being hurt and just try to live anyway. you don't need to be okay with the situation, just gotta do the best out of it.
sure people like Joe aren't that common but I'm sure if you keep searching you can find a friend like that, just focus on finding a new friend. as @The Dark Passenger said, focus on the present and future and not on the past.

wish you best luck my man

Thanks man, inshallah ill eventually find someone